Ada and Michael: First Date - Page 1

Michael writes:
 
It was my first date with Ada, and we had arranged to meet for dinner at a very nice Japanese restaurant.

The food was good and we both enjoyed each other's company. During dinner I mentioned that I lived only a short walk away and she was welcome to visit after dinner.
 

 
 
Michael continues:

Ada knew that I was writing an on-line book, but she did not know what it was about.

When she asked me during the meal what I was writing about (which is, of course, this website) I replied that I would tell her once she had finished her glass of wine.

Later, as I poured some more wine into her empty glass, I asked if she wanted to know about my website. She said that I could tell her back at my place where it would be more private.

This was a surprising thing to say because at that stage she did not know that my site was about sex!
 

 
 
After lots more talk, food, and wine, we walked back to my place.

Ada was attractive, and we were getting along well, but I was not really expecting anything to happen. And as I had not yet mentioned even the topic of my website I had no idea whether or not she would be comfortable hearing me talk about it, let alone do anything.

But I was looking forward to the rest of the evening even if it was only going to be more talk and a demo of my music system.
 

 
 
When we got back to my place we went into the living room. I set some mood lighting and lit some candles. Ada made herself comfortable on the couch.

I asked if she would like something to drink, and she requested a glass of red. I got her her drink and one for me.

Before I sat down I offered to give her a foot massage. She surprised me by telling me that she had never had one before!

I told her that getting a foot massage is a great way to relax, and that it is a fun thing to do as we continue to chat. I also said that part of my personal philosophy was that nothing further need happen. I quickly added that giving foot massages was a specialty of mine and that this was a great chance to find out whether she would enjoy such a massage.

As I was not really expecting her to agree to a foot massage, this was all said in a relaxed 'take it or leave it' manner.
 

 
 
I got out some foot cream, positioned a bean bag in front of her, sat down at her feet, and started to give her a foot massage.

I enjoy giving a foot massage. So even if things were not going to go any further I was pleased that I could enjoy pleasuring her. Ada had small delicate feet and it was lovely to massage them.

Near the beginning of the massage I asked her to tell me what she liked my hands doing. I pointed out that what one person loves another hates, and so communication is the secret ingredient to getting a good massage.

My next surprise with Ada was that she was very good at telling me what she liked. I did as she asked and so she enjoyed one of my better foot massages.
 

 
 
After a few minutes of talking while I gave the foot massage she asked "Now what is your website about?"

This might have been a very short conversation. But she was interested and as I massaged her feet I started to tell her how Devotional Sex works when dating and why this is wonderful and fun for both her and me.

She asked questions and I answered them, so it wasn't just a lecture.
 

 
 
After explaining the basics, I told her how Devotional Sex can significantly change what happens the first time a couple go to bed together.

Rather than one thing being expected to lead to another, I told her that as a Knight gives his Princess control of what happens, if she wishes she can have both keep their underpants on the whole time so that all that happens is lots of cuddling.

Next I told her that another possibility of what can happen in bed is that though the Knight's underpants stay on all night, the Princess decides to enjoy receiving oral sex as often and for as long as she wants.

Ada's eyes lit up as she heard this possibility!
 

 
 
Ada asked "What about the man's satisfaction?"

I explained that part of Devotional Sex is that a Knight has learned to enjoy giving pleasure as much as receiving it, so within Devotional Sex him giving her oral sex is a mutual pleasure.

I added that normal sex is sometimes 'I will give you some pleasure so that you give me pleasure back'. But as I really love giving oral sex I would get lots of satisfaction even if this was all that we did.

 
Telling Ada that I love to give oral sex, and would enjoy this even if nothing else followed, created some strong emotions in me.

Giving a foot massage can be just a seduction technique used by a normal man. What I had just said made clear that my sexuality was not normal. I was a bit scared that Ada might decide that I was not a 'real man' and reject me because of this.

Opening up to her also had me feeling slightly vulnerable to her.

And from past experience I knew how exciting, pleasurable and intense it feels to actually do what I was suggesting. Just talking about this was enough to generate some of these emotions.

Tonight was already feeling rather special!

At this stage it was all still just talk, and I had made it clear that what, if anything, might happen next was totally up to her. But her enthusiasm about receiving oral sex now had me hopeful that perhaps tonight would be more than just me giving her a foot massage.
 
 
Though her receiving the foot massage had her feeling relaxed and special we were just doing this as a couple and it wasn't yet Devotional Sex. So the next step was to give her control over what happens and for her to feel that her control was real.

I told her that if she wished she could get a taste of how it feels to be a Princess while I continued to give her the foot massage. I would be her Knight for the night and all she needed to do was to have something very different from usual happen so that she would feel her control was real.

For example, if she wished we could do the rest of the foot massage with one person partially undressed or naked while the other staying fully dressed.

"It's now up to you do decide whether or not something happens, and of course you decide who undresses and how much clothing comes off. And as I'm now committed to do whatever you wish, if you don't want things to go any further than this then they won't."

"If you decide to undress it's a powerful visual tease for me as all I'm able to do is massage your feet. And of course you can have me do the undressing."

"So if you wish you can enjoy getting a foot massage from a naked man and nothing further happens tonight."

"Of course you can just tell me what you want to happen. But Devotional Sex has special words which can be used, so if you say 'Undress' I'll take off everything but leave my underpants on, and if you ever say 'Reveal' that means I will take everything off."
 
 
Even though we were both fully dressed, and all that I was doing was sitting at her feet giving her a foot massage, I now felt that we were enjoying very real Devotional Sex together.

This is because we now both knew that things would go no further unless she wanted not just because this was the decent thing to do, but also because I had committed to fulfill her wishes. And we now both knew that anything she wanted (within my limits) would happen.

Maybe nothing would happen. But we both knew that if she said "Reveal" I had committed to fully undress.

I was now thinking and feeling that I was her Knight, and I felt both excited and nervous at the potential possibilities.

But, of course, I had no idea whether or not anything further would happen.

Though I did not know it, Ada was becoming curious to test her power.
 

 
 
Our real adventure together started when Ada said "Reveal"

I am sure that I looked both surprised and happy to hear this one word.

Because it is unusual for a new Princess to want me naked straight away I checked what she wanted.

When she clarified what she wanted I felt slightly relieved that I did not have to take everything off. And because for a few moments I had thought that I would have to take everything off, obeying her now felt a bit easier because I didn't have to go all the way.

Even so, I did feel a little nervous as I undressed down to my underpants.

"Shall I continue with the foot massage?", I asked.

"Yes please" she replied.

I felt less exposed once I had sat back down at her feet.
 
 
The feeling in the room had changed because her control was no longer just potential but something that had been used, and now that she had used her power once it was much more likely that she would use it again!

For me this step also made a huge difference because I now felt that things had become sexual. I started feeling some desire for my beautiful Princess, and as I continued with the foot massage my Desire became half hard.
 
   
 
I felt relaxed as I enjoyed my first sexual desire for Ada. As an experienced Knight just feeling desire is a pleasurable experience.

I had told Ada that a key part of Devotional Dating is that a Knight does not ejaculate when with his date. So I was not striving for the usual male end-point of ejaculation. All my pleasure tonight would come from the enjoyment of our journey. And this a was a very nice start to our journey.

To show my appreciation and desire I gave one foot a little kiss, and then continued with the foot massage.

For about fifteen minutes we continued to chat. We were both very aware that we had entered the world of Devotional Sex. Not only was Ada enjoying a long foot massage, but her new Knight was sitting at her feet wearing only his underpants.

Then Ada decided to go a bit further ...    (Select 'continue' below for page 2.)