Jill29's Diary

This page, and the next, is an edited version of  Jill's forum posts.

After the diary, Jill and her partner's survey responses are used to give a broader view of this couple's overall Devotional Sex life.

 

Jill writes:

Dear Devotees,

My Knight and I decided to accept the invitation on the  Devotional Sex Photo Blog to share our sexual activities over a Season. (We recently enjoyed doing some of the surveys listed there).

We think it will be interesting and fun to record our activities, associate some of our feelings about them, and share them with other Devotees.
 
 
I am Princess Jill, age 33, divorced. My Knight is Tom, age 48, divorced.

We live in Seattle, USA. We are partners - bf/gf, but not married. I am a secretary at a business partnership. Knight Tom is an executive at a financial firm.

Tom introduced me to the concept of Devotional Sex and suggested that we try it. I was intrigued, but hesitant because Tom had always been somewhat dominant and I had always been somewhat submissive in our sex life. Tom argued that we should at least try Devotional Sex; he thought it would be a way to keep our sex exciting and enjoyable for both of us. Through lengthy discussions and study of the Devotional Sex Photo Blog, he persuaded me to try it.

That was about three years ago. It worked out well for both of us. Although we do not live Devotional Sex full-time, we do it most of the time. We are now more closely bonded and share greater intimacy than we ever did before Devotional Sex.

At this point, a Season for us is approximately two weeks. My plan is to offer a diary entry each day for our Season.
 

 
The alarm woke us sleeping like spoons. We sleep nude.

Because my Knight Tom had ejaculated the night before, I expected him to exhibit lower energy than usual and, indeed he was not erect as he normally is in anticipation of our morning Cuddle Ritual. A little Desire Play produced the erection that I sought and we had our usual Devotional Cuddle for about 15 minutes.

I initiated a few kisses and proceeded to get dressed and ready for work. Tom followed me to the bathroom so he could watch me prepare and dress.

I have set a Preference for Affirmation in the morning. It is a pleasant way to start the day and we both set off to work in a good mood. Sometimes the Affirmation develops into other sexual activities and sometimes not.

My Knight has the luxury of going to work later than I, so I can enjoy his Affirmation until I depart which I did this morning.
 
  
After work we met for dinner at a favorite restaurant and discussed at length our decision to share some of our sexual activities by means of this diary.

As mentioned above, we both enjoyed participating in and reviewing the results of the various Devotional Sex Surveys that we found on the Devotional Sex Photo Blog, so we thought it would be fun to try a diary. We think that conferring about our diary entries will increase our sexual communication and improve our Devotional Sex life.
 
 
After arriving home, I asked Tom for Affirmation until bedtime. While watching TV, I asked my Knight to Snuggle, so we went to our bedroom.

I asked for a Pleasure Kiss and noticed that Tom was more eager than usual on the first day of a Season. I attribute his energy to our discussion of the diary and and the possibility that through sharing we may find some new avenues of sexual pleasure.

I let the Pleasure Kiss continue until I achieved orgasm.

Knight Tom then suggested a Bud Kiss to which I agreed and invited him to bestow. I am fascinated by the excitement Tom exhibits when pleasuring my Bud. I think we should discuss this further so that I have a better understanding of this source of my Knight's energy.

Tonight, though, we ended with a Devotional Cuddle and went to sleep.

 
 
When Knight Tom and I awoke I was glad to notice that Tom's energy was building nicely. He was erect for our Devotional Cuddle.

I was in a good mood because of my very nice orgasm the night before. Unfortunately, we both had early days at work, so our Devotional Cuddle was cut short at about five minutes and I had very little time to enjoy my Knight's regular morning Affirmation.
 
  
At lunchtime I called Tom to check in and he explained how happy he was that our Devotional Sex enabled him to achieve an erection just by thinking about our close bond and my Pleasure while he sat at his desk at work.
 
  
We both arrived home late because of work, so we ordered takeout for dinner.

After dinner I requested Affirmation and soon after asked my Knight to Gaze (at my Pleasure) while I read my book. It was a pleasant way to wind down.

Soon we both went to bed. I was too tired to do anything but sleep.

 
 
My Knight and I awoke refreshed. I could feel Tom's erection nestled against my buttocks and I knew that the day would be a delight.

As we had our regular Devotional Cuddle I told Tom that his erection was a clear sign of his deep bond to me. That erection without any anticipation of penetration or oral stimulation demonstrates his Devotion to me.

I have said this to my Knight many times, but I know that he loves to hear it and he truly deserves the compliment. What better sign could there be of how proud he is to be my Knight?

I held his scrotum and gave him a short Desire Kiss.

Then I invited him to accompany me while I showered and dressed. Tom likes to watch me do this and I like his compliments about my sexy body or how hungry I make him feel.
 
  
Tom and I talk about sex a lot. We attribute this to Devotional Sex. For us, a discussion of his erection or a comment about my Pleasure is as natural and unloaded as saying "I love you."

We concluded that we both feel freer to discuss sex because there is no anticipation that it "should" lead to intercourse or oral sex. We are both more confident about what we are really saying to each other. Moreover, our verbal communication during sexual activities benefits.

I love to hear how my Knight loves the shape or color of my labia or the aroma of my Pleasure - I love it even though I have heard him say it many times.

Before we found Devotional Sex I heard these kinds of comments infrequently because we would have both been focused on Tom's ejaculation during sex.
 
  
At lunchtime, I called Tom and asked him to think about the Pleasure Kiss that I was going to ask him for that evening.
 
  
After dinner, Tom seemed eager, but I had phone calls to return and emails to answer.

I asked him if he was erect - he was - but I did not ask for Affirmation.

It wasn't until we were both nude for bed that I asked Tom to get comfortable for a Pleasure Kiss.

Our Pleasure kiss lasted about 20 minutes until I had a lovely orgasm. Then, we cuddled and kissed until we fell asleep.
 
  She replied:

For Tom, bringing me to orgasm with a Pleasure Kiss coupled with my holding his erection in a Devotional Cuddle afterward is now more satisfying for him than his ejaculation was before we practiced Devotional Sex.

 
 
During our morning Devotional Cuddle, Tom's erection signaled reasonably high energy and combined with my satisfaction from my orgasm confirmed that the previous night's sex had been good for both of us.

Before getting up we also discussed the sex because we are more aware of the details now that we are keeping our diary.

Because of his high sexual energy, Tom thinks about sex much more than he used to before Devotional Sex. However his high sexual excitement now adds energy to his work and non-work activities.

Before Devotional Sex thinking as much about sex would have decreased Tom's energy for work because his desire would have dominated his thoughts and shut out both work and non-work until he could ejaculate. Therefore, there is no reason not to send my Knight off to work with a strong erection - and I did today.
 
 
Today is Friday and we had accepted an invitation for dinner at the home of one of Tom's business colleagues.

The hostess, who is Tom's colleague, complimented me by saying that I always looked radiant and asked how I did that. I replied that it must be my happy and stress-free life.

Although I did not explain further, I could have said that in my opinion it was my happy sex life and frequent orgasms which work through the mind-body connection to make me radiant.

I know that Tom and this woman were sexually intimate before Tom and I found each other. And Tom also told me that she seldom had an orgasm even though I know that Tom is good at oral sex.

I hope that she has found some way to solve that problem and, in different circumstances, if she and I had a confidential talk, I would be willing to explain the benefits of Devotional Sex.

I was proud to be with Tom at the dinner party and to know that he is mine. I began to think about what I would like when we got home.
 
 
At home I asked Tom to Reveal and Display. Next I asked him to sit beside me on the sofa as I read so that I could enjoy his erection before we went to bed.

In bed, after asking Tom to Unveil me, we enjoyed each other's nudity, shared kisses, and I asked Tom to Suckle.

I enjoyed his attention along with his comments about my breasts, areolas, and nipples.

I also asked for a Pleasure Kiss so that I could cap off the day with an orgasm.

After my orgasm I ask Tom to lie on his back so I could I could give him a Devotional Cuddle and fall asleep with my head on his chest.




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