Last updated: 26 July 2008
Sandra is an occasional Devotional
Friend,
and even rarer Devotional Lover. Most of the times we had seen each
other was as just friends. So I was in the habit of not expecting any
Devotional activity when we met, but I
always hope that something might happen.
One night she visited
just for a chat
and to watch a DVD. Because of what she had said in an earlier email I
was not expecting any Devotional activity. But I had not shared
intimacy within anyone for a while, and had not
climaxed for five days, so I was certainly in the mood for being a
Knight for a night if
anything did happen.
Sandra says:
I
went over to Michael’s house looking forward to an evening of
TV
and banter. I was also aware that the Australian Open tennis finals
were on, but I wasn’t sure if Michael liked watching tennis.
I
also knew that something sexual `might´ happen. However, I
wasn’t sure what it would be; when it came to our occasional
Devotional Sex activities, I preferred not to think too far ahead. I
was quite weary that night, so was not envisaging that we would `go the
whole way´ – although I knew it was a possibility.
Michael says:
I had promised her that she could watch the beginning of a live
sporting
event. She knew I had no interest in this event, so the plan was to
only watch a bit, and then to put on a DVD.
After watching the sport for a short time I offered to give her a foot
massage so that she could keep watching the sport for a little longer.
She surprised me by saying "yes". I got out the foot cream, and started
giving her a long foot massage. As we chatted, she asked me to
mute the sound as the commentators were more distracting than useful.
Sandra says:
Soon
after I arrived, Michael asked me if I would like a foot massage. I
said that would be OK but asked if I could watch the men’s
singles final at the same time. I also found out that Michael
didn’t like tennis, so I assumed that the tennis would be
turned
off if things started to hot up. However, Michael insisted that he
didn't mind me watching the tennis while he not only massaged my feet,
but obeyed any other orders I had. So, reassured by him, I kept
watching but with the sound down.
This made me feel pleasantly
`spoilt´: I was enjoying watching Federer beat Gonzalez, and
was
thinking that it was normally men who were allowed to be indulged in
this way. But it also made me feel that I owed him something
–
which is not a bad thing, given that in the sexual give and take, he
was doing all the giving. It made me ensure that I was being
`nice´ to him and not taking advantage of my power.
After massaging her feet for about half an hour, I suggested that if
she
did not mind me getting a bit turned on and squirmy, I would be happy
to kiss her feet. Again I was surprised when she said "yes".
I do not have a foot fetish at all. But when I have high erotic energy,
and the foot is all that I can touch, I can get very into giving a Foot
Kiss. While giving the Foot Kiss I often thought about giving her
a long Pleasure Kiss (which is what I really wanted to to). I enjoyed feeling aroused and
wanting, and giving her pleasure. So for me giving the Foot Kiss
was a very pleasurable and
intense experience.
When she had had enough, I said that I would very much like to at least
cuddle her legs as I needed to calm down. As I started to cuddle her
legs,
I said it would be nicer to come up higher, and she agreed. I moved up
and cuddled her with my face on her chest. I am sure she could feel my
energy.
I was still pleasantly surprised that we had even enjoyed this much
intimacy, so I was not expecting any more.
After a while she said that she would like to do something, but did not
want it to lead to anything further. I replied that I
was
sure that anything she suggested would be good, and that I was happy to
only do what she said.
She then took her top off, and a short time later took her bra off as
well. I was allowed to cuddle her
whilst holding her breasts and kissing her nipples. After a while she
took her trousers off, and had me put my hand inside her panties and
finger her very wet Pleasure.
I very much enjoyed touching her and feeling her wetness, and she very
much
enjoyed my touch. I told her how much I would like to give her a
Pleasure Kiss. A short time later she was nude, and I, fully
clothed, was sitting between her legs giving her a very long and
sensual
Pleasure Kiss.
She watched to the end of the sporting event whilst also enjoying my
kissing her Pleasure. At one stage she was giving a few gasps, and I
asked her if it was the sport or me. She answered "both".
I think this is the longest I have ever been allowed to keep giving
a Pleasure Kiss, and I very much enjoyed doing this for such a long
time. I became one with her
taste and smell and wetness. For me it was a sexual meditation
At the very end of the program she wanted to hear the audio, so I got
up and turned the sound back on. As she was now listening, I sat back
down at her
feet and just rested my head on her thigh, with my face just next to
her
Pleasure.
I was still fully dressed, and she was naked. I asked her how she felt,
and she replied "powerful". It is wonderful that
with Devotional Sex a naked women in a room with a fully dressed man
can feel powerful.
Having gone so far, she decided she wanted a bit more, and we went into
the bedroom. At first she had me keep my underpants on when I undressed
to get into bed. But after a while she had me take them off and she
held my Desire for the first time after many hours of arousal. This
felt very good!
At my request we repaired to the
bedroom. I was enjoying taking a
passive role and mainly being `pleasured´, although I did
caress
Michael’s Desire. I felt quite guilty about my passivity and
expressed
my feelings, but he was fine about it. He said that he had not been
expecting anything to happen, so what we had done that night was a
bonus.
She was feeling tired, but wanted me insider her, so we enjoyed about
ten minutes of Joy in the Power
position.
Eventually
I decided I wanted to have intercourse. I enjoyed this, but because of
my weariness I did very little to pleasure Michael.
Of course it was very pleasurable for me to share the Joy. But what was
most memorable for me was enjoying her response. She was both very
turned on and relaxed at the same time. Usually a partner only becomes
very vocal (moans etc) with fairly fast and hard strokes. In this case
the intensity had built up for so long that she was very vocal even
though my strokes were just slow, long, and deep.
After giving her pleasure for so long, even with Joy it felt right to
do this only to maximize her pleasure.
When we lay back down and cuddled she said that she was feeling tired,
and asked if it was OK if she did not
give my Desire a kiss. I assured her that it
was OK.
She knew that a part of my
being her Knight was that I would not ejaculate. Not being expected to
`get me off´ at the end of our activities helped keep the mood one
which focused on her pleasure and made her feel special.
In the over four hours from starting the foot massage to her getting
out of bed to go home, the focus of activities had been almost all on
my giving her pleasure. Not surprisingly she very much enjoyed our
evening together.
After she thanked me for being such an unselfish lover, and apologized
for being so inactive. I assured her that I really enjoyed the whole
evening.
This
evening was an affirmation to me that any sexual activities Michael and
I undertook would take place on my terms. I felt very in control, and
that my desires and needs were legitimate.
After a bit more cuddling, she got up to go home.
Of course I would also have enjoyed it if she had been more active and
played with my Desire more and given me a nice Desire Kiss. And it
would have been nice if we
had been able to spend longer with Joy. But throughout the
evening I always enjoyed the moment of what I was
doing. I never expected things to go further, and so it was always a
nice surprise when they did.
What is surprising in a traditional sense is that I enjoyed what we did
as much as she did. It really was my pleasure to give her pleasure.
For me it was particularly special and enjoyable to be allowed to giver
her such a long Pleasure Kiss. Because people are so used to moving
from one activity to another fairly quickly, it is very rare to be able
to enjoy giving a Pleasure Kiss for long enough for me to become
`one´ with giving the kiss and for time to disappear. It is a
special place to be in, and I would love to go back there.
So maybe I enjoyed the evening more than she did!
I have always enjoyed the times I have been Sandra's Knight for a
night. And this experience has once again left me very satisfied and
wanting to share erotic energy and pleasure with her another time.
I look back on the evening not hoping that things will be more even if
there is a next time, but knowing that if there is a next time, and we
did exactly the same things, I would still be very happy.
With a Devotional Friend or Lover, I can be truly happy if all I do is
give pleasure.
