Last updated: 5 April
2010
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Chapter 1: Introduction
Devotional Sex is a new sexual technique and lifestyle for loving couples.
Those who practice Devotional Sex will gain pleasure from an enhanced sexual and sensual life, with erotic energy becoming a constant positive influence within their relationship.
Devotional Sex creates a distinctive dynamic, experience and lifestyle that makes it different from all other practices and techniques.
The components which make up Devotional Sex are not new. But the novel combination is.
It is so new that there are no other books or websites on Devotional Sex.
If you are in a long-term relationship, do you remember how exciting and fun sex was at the beginning? Perhaps things have now become a bit dull and routine. Devotional Sex creates a new energy and excitement which increases, and then maintains, intimacy and passion. This not only improves your sex life, it can also improve your whole relationship!
Devotional Sex can also be used to by couples suffering some sexual problems to first build and restore intimacy, and then to improve their sexual relationship.
Devotional Sex is also great to use when starting a new sexual relationship. It enables and encourages slow exploration. Spending time together sharing erotic energy without rushing to go the `whole way´ builds trust and intimacy. It is also very exciting and lots of fun.
And for those who are not in a relationship or dating, Devotional Sex can be used to enjoy sharing some intimacy, sensuality, and fun with a friend without ever going `all the way´.
Devotional Sex was developed by the author of this site during a ten-year relationship. The author has experienced the joy of several years of living a Devotional Sex lifestyle.
After this relationship ended he enjoyed using Devotional Sex in all his dating.
This site benefits from all this practical experience.
The writing "eloquently captures the warmth and intimacy (not to mention fun) of devotion".
(Feedback from a female reader.)
(Feedback from a female reader.)
Learning and practicing Devotional Sex takes some time and commitment.
Modern society encourages us to spend our time either making or spending money. No-one makes money while you spend time enjoying and enhancing your intimate life. This is one reason why life-enhancing techniques such as Devotional Sex do not get much publicity.
For me the time and energy I spend living Devotional Sex are a very good investment. Without earning or spending money, my life has become far richer.
Adventurous couples will find this site to be full of new ideas. Some ideas will resonate with a strong “That might be fun!” Devotional Sex provides a great basis for some exciting experimentation.
No-one will like every idea. As everything within Devotional Sex is fully consensual all you need to do is withhold your consent and that idea will never happen. Please just ignore anything on this site which is not to your taste.
Trying Devotional Sex requires plenty of open and honest two-way communication. It is also a huge amount of fun to learn and practice. Even if you decide not to continue with it, or it is just a stepping stone to discovering another technique, you will have lots of enjoyment and pleasure while giving it a go.
What to look at next
If your partner (or date or friend) does not yet know about Devotional Sex, then read on, find out more, and perhaps you will soon be suggesting to them that you both give it a go.
The Opening Story below gives you a flavor of how Devotional Sex works in practice. If this is just a first quick browse you might prefer to skip the story and jump straight to the Outline of Devotional Sex.
If you are looking at this site because your partner (or date or friend) already knows about Devotional Sex and would like to try it with you, a special introductory page has been written for you. Click here if you are female, or here if you are male.
If you have an interest in BDSM, FemDom, or ejaculation denial, you can click the link to find out how Devotional Sex relates to that topic. But before you do so, I recommend that you first read the Outline and the Opening Story, as these pages show that Devotional Sex is primarily focused on sex and intimacy.
Opening Story
This story presents a day in the life of a couple who practice Devotional Sex.
The alarm rings. Susan and Sam are woken up for a normal working day.
Since starting to practice Devotional Sex they have been setting the alarm ten minutes early. This gives them a short amount of `couple time´ each weekday morning before getting out of bed.
Still half asleep they roll towards each other and start to cuddle. (Click here to read more)
Since starting to practice Devotional Sex they have been setting the alarm ten minutes early. This gives them a short amount of `couple time´ each weekday morning before getting out of bed.
Still half asleep they roll towards each other and start to cuddle. (Click here to read more)