I hope that these new words quickly become familiar as you read more about Devotional Sex.

The new words are:
 
 

Desire	Penis
Pleasure	Vagina
Bud	Anus
Joy	Intercourse
Play	To give pleasure by using your hands, including masturbation and massage
Pleasure Play	Masturbating her Pleasure
Desire Play	Masturbating his Desire
Kiss	To give pleasure by using your mouth, lips, and tongue, including oral sex
Pleasure Kiss	Oral sex on her Pleasure
Desire Kiss	Oral sex on his Desire
Foot Kiss	Using a mouth to pleasure a foot
Kiss	An ordinary kiss (mouth to mouth)
Climax	Orgasm with loss of sexual energy for a male - an orgasm with ejaculation for a female - an orgasm after which she wants to end sexual activity
Crest	Orgasm without loss of sexual energy for a male - an orgasm without ejaculation for a female - an orgasm after which she still has sexual energy

 
 
The words we use make a big difference to how we think and feel. For example, the words "terrorist" and "freedom fighter" are two very different ways of describing the same person!

We are so used to the words we use for talking about sex that it is hard to recognize the negative effect many of the traditional words have on how we feel. Replacing the traditional terms with these new words really can make sex seem more fun and sensual.

Couples who practice Devotional Sex can, of course, use any words they wish - all these new words are optional.

And you do not need practice Devotional Sex to use these new words - they can be used by anybody.

I encourage all readers to try using these new words. They will seem strange at first, but you will quickly get used to them. Now that I am used to these new words I find it hard to imagine going back to any of the traditional words.

Tonight, with your partner, you might enjoy some Desire Play, a Pleasure Kiss, and then some Joy. Doesn't that sound fun and sensual!
 
 
All the traditional words for talking about sex are either cold and clinical, strange or sound silly, or are associated with vulgar speech.

I wanted something friendly and sexy. (More)
 
 

After creating new names for common sexual activities, it felt appropriate to also create some new names for the common sexual positions. (More)
 
 
All the new words used at this site are included in the Glossary.
 
 

The new words used in Devotional Sex can be discussed on the forum here.