Devotional Tao
Chapter 3: Devotional Tao
Learning to Crest
Learning to Crest will take some time and practice. Fortunately this will be both pleasurable and fun!
The Multi-Orgasmic Man book
One way to learn to Crest is to read the book The Multi-Orgasmic Man. This is the book from which I learned.
Because The Multi-Orgasmic Man devotes a whole book to this topic it is much more comprehensive than what I have written.
What follows is my summary of how to learn this technique. Perhaps some readers will find that what I write is sufficient.
Even if you read The Multi-Orgasmic Man this site may still be a useful read. This is because:
- This site says things differently, and perhaps the way I put one or two things will resonate more with you,
- This site puts learning to Crest into the context of Devotional Sex.
- This site (will soon, I hope) include stories and feedback from other men who are learning this technique. What they say may also help you to learn.
What follows is a step-by-step process. Thus it is best to read each section before moving onto the next.
My way of explaining male sexual response is to use the analogy of a man moving about on an erotic energy mountain.
The higher his erotic energy the higher he is on the erotic energy mountain. An ejaculation is when he falls forward and flys down to the bottom of the mountain. And an orgasm without ejaculation is when ... (More)
The first step towards getting control over your erotic energy is to become very aware of this energy and how it changes during sexual activity.
This section includes some exercises to help you become more aware, and to get a feel for where you are now. (More)
Almost all the changes in how you think and feel about sex, and thus how you practice it, come from learning to be relaxed with your erotic energy. This enables you to feel comfortable wherever you are on the erotic energy mountain.
Most of your effort in learning to Crest is spent learning to be fully in control of yourself at the top of the erotic energy mountain. The more comfortable and in control you feel at the top, the easier it will be to have your first Crest.
Practicing Devotional Sex requires a Knight to become comfortable at all levels of the erotic mountain. Of course the sexual highlights happen when you are at the top. But lots of your sexual activity will happen slightly further down, and moving down a little further is where you will enjoy lots of erotic intimacy, such as Devotional Cuddles.
It is also important for a Knight to learn to feel comfortable carrying a higher than usual background level of erotic energy.
This section provides exercises and advice to help you take control of your erotic energy. (More)
Learning the relaxation techniques will take lots of practice.
How much of this practice is done solo and how much with your partner depends on how interested your partner is in you learning this new technique, and how much she wants to share your journey. (More)
A key to learning Devotional Sex is for both the Princess and her Knight to recognize that his Desire is not fully under his control, but has a `mind of its own´. It thus needs careful and consistent training.
To help train his Desire a Knight should never Climax when out of control, never Climax in some positions, and both he and his Princess need to be aware that unintended lessons will have an effect. (More)
At the top of the erotic energy mountain, if a Knight starts to loose control he may feel that he is about to trip over into a Climax. There are several techniques which can help a man to avoid an unwanted Climax.
When learning Devotional Tao these techniques will be very useful. But, especially at first, accidents will sometimes happen.
As you become more practiced and gain better control over your erotic energy, these `emergence stop´ techniques will rarely be needed. (More)
One of the joys of Devotional Sex for a Knight is that, compared with before, he is likely to enjoy more sessions of sexual activity, and some of these sessions will be fairly long. Usually he will be erect for most or all of these sessions.
This large increase in the time he is hard, plus his higher than usual erotic energy from not Climaxing, will occasional have the unwanted side effect of his plumbing taking a rest. Sometimes, even though he still feels very aroused, he might become semi-soft or even fully soft. This may last for only a few minutes, or it can last for a whole session.
The best way to deal with this is to treat it as just a normal part of Devotional Sex. (More)
Once the relaxation with erotic energy has been mastered, the icing on the cake is to learn to have an orgasm without ejaculating.
As well as the method of The Multi-Orgasmic Man, there are several other methods. I don't know which method is best, but all that matters for you is which method is best for you. (More)
The final stage of mastering Devotional Tao is for a Knight to be able to enjoy a body orgasm at any time.
When he is not erect, or even aroused, a Knight still feels a background level of erotic energy. When not aroused, this energy is felt over the whole body, and in particular around the head.
A very experienced Knight only needs to get in-tune with this energy and he can decide to give himself a body orgasm. And as no arousal is needed, he can do this at any time. (More)
