Living Devotional Tao
This section looks at how Devotional Tao works as part of your lifestyle.
Devotional Tao means that a Knight always feels some background erotic
energy, and his Princess is very easily able to get her Knight aroused
whenever she wishes.
This is why Devotional Sex is not just a
sexual activity which a couple does for an hour or two, but something
which is aways, to a greater or lesser extent, a part of your whole
which can be practiced to make the most out of being able to Crest, and
to help manage the Knight's erotic energy, include:
- Surfing - having many Crests in a row (More)
- Self-play by a Knight when with his Princess (More)
- Self-play by a Knight when he is alone (More)
- Princess control over when he can Crest (More)
A season of Devotional Sex
season of Devotional Sex is everything that happens between one
ejaculation and the next. Some seasons will be short, and some long.
season is made up of one or more episodes of sexual activity. For the
Knight it can feel that even though there is a break between episodes,
his sexual journey flows on from one episode to the next, and that to
him everything that happens in the one season makes up one
long sexual adventure. (More)
Building up erotic energy during a season
A Knight's erotic energy usually increases as a season progresses.
a season starts without any activity, and the Knight knows that his
Princess wants a rest, his erotic energy will build slowly. But if a
Princess starts a season with some high-energy activities, a Knight can
quickly return to having a higher than usual background erotic energy.
a season a Knight may have a peak of erotic energy where he has poor
control (and is desperate to Climax), but find that the next day he has
regained control and is relatively calm about having to wait until his
Princess allows him to Climax. (More)
Mild to wild - each couple decides what is right for them
Devotional Sex is powered by the Knight's higher than usual erotic energy.
Devotional Sex the Knight's background erotic energy level is deliberately kept
higher than if practicing traditional Tao and lower than if doing BDSM-style ejaculation denial.
There is no `correct´
energy level for Devotional Sex. Rather it is a matter of having the
right energy level for the way you as a couple want to enjoy your Devotional Sex
A Princess managing her Knight's energy
A Princess controls her Knight's level of erotic energy by what she does and what she says.
main control is not allowing her Knight to Climax when she wants his
erotic energy to build up, and to have him Climax when she wants her
Knight to be calmer.
One of the joys of being a Princess is that during
a season of Devotional Sex she is able to get her Knight excited
whenever she wants, and once she has had enough tell him to become calm.
If required, she can also tell her Knight to do things which will bring his energy under control. (More)
A Knight managing his own energy
A key to practicing successful Devotional Sex is that the Knight is able to manage his own erotic energy.
needs to keep his erotic energy high enough to always desire his
Princess and thus be willing to act as her Knight. And he needs to
ensure that his erotic energy does not become so high that it annoys
his Princess. (More)