Devotional Sex is a combination of two ancient techniques, and one more recent technique.

The first ancient technique, described in chapter 3, is the Taoist Multi-Orgasmic Man technique. With this technique the Knight does not ejaculate at the end of most sexual sessions (though he many enjoy one or more non-ejaculatory orgasms).

A natural consequence of the man not ejaculating is that sexual activity becomes slower and it often lasts for much longer. This is a first step towards Tantric Sex.

Tantric Sex is the second ancient technique upon which Devotional Sex is based, and is the subject of this chapter.
 
 
Authentic Tantra is a complete philosophy, and is embedded in the culture in which it was developed.

Much better known in the West is the westernized version of Tantric Sex. Real (westernized) Tantric Sex is about getting in touch with yourself using breathing and other techniques, forming a connection with your partner, focusing on the  journey of shared sexual pleasure rather than on orgasm, and reaching a higher state from very long, slow intercourse. (More)
 
 

Devotional Tantra is not full Tantric sex (which can take years to master).

Devotional Tantra is mainly just longer, slower, and more sensual sex. Unlike Real Tantra, Devotional Sex can include lots of oral sex done in the same slow and sensual style. Devotional Tantra is also very different because with Devotional Sex the Knight has a higher erotic energy due to him not ejaculating most sessions, and because Princess Power changes the feel of the dynamic and enables Devotees to also enjoy lots of non-Tantric fun.

Devotional Tantra has openly taken so many key aspects of real Tantric sex that it feels appropriate to me to acknowledge this by using the word 'Tantra' in the title of this chapter.

Devotional Tantra is perhaps one third of the way towards real Tantric sex. This is enough for Devotees to feel lots of the joys and pleasures based on Tantric ideas, but misses out on so much that anyone knowledgeable of real Tantric sex would rightly say that couples need to go a lot further to experience real Tantric sex.

Though Devotional Sex has an optional spiritual component (see Chapter 7), the spiritual parts of real Tantric Sex are not included in Devotional Tantra. So Devotional Sex can be fully enjoyed and practiced without a spiritual component. (More)
 
 

Devotional Tantra is about sophisticating our basic urges. Instead of sexual activity mainly being about reaching ejaculation (for the male) and orgasm (for the female), it becomes focused on connection with your partner, and enjoying each moment. Giving pleasure is now enjoyed as much as receiving it.

With Devotional Tantra erotic energy and arousal are enjoyed because it feels good to be this way, and are no longer just drives to reach Climax (which depletes all erotic energy). And a Princess, even when she is not aroused, is comfortable about using her Knight's arousal to enjoy cuddles and sensual pleasures. (More)
 
 

One of the main benefits of Devotional Sex is the way it enhances intimacy and sensual activities.

This sections looks at how Devotional Tantra changes cuddles, sensual activities, and even just ordinary time spent together as a couple. (More)
 
 

When Devotional Tantra is applied to sexual activities everything becomes much slower, and there is a focus on each moment of giving and receiving pleasure. Sex becomes more relaxing and sensual.

Though Devotional Tao enables Devotees to become more orgasmic, Devotional Tantra removes the focus from having orgasms to enjoying what happens before an orgasm. Thus Devotees are happy to enjoy some sessions without an orgasm.

This section looks at each sexual activity, and shows how Devotional Tantra works in practice. (More)
 
 
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