Devotional Sex is the combination of the three techniques and behaviors presented in the previous three chapters.


This chapter shows how these three techniques come together to create Devotional Sex, and how Devotional Sex is enjoyed within a relationship, when dating, and when with a friend.
 
 

The three previous chapters presented Devotional Tao (the multi-orgasmic man technique), Devotional Tantra, and Princess Power. It is the combination of these three techniques which creates Devotional Sex.

Even though the roles and the drives of the male and female are very different within Devotional Sex, the result is a stable system which is enjoyed by both the Princess and her Knight.

The joy and ethos of the system is symbolized by the Devotional Sex logo. (More)
 
 

A Devotional Relationship is when a couple practice Devotional Sex as an integral part of their life together.

As a Devotional Relationship is the most common way that Devotional Sex will be practiced, the definition of a Devotional Relationship is also the definition of Devotional Sex.

In a Devotional Relationship a Knight may only Climax when his Princess says, and she will not allow him to Climax most times there is sexual activity.

A Princess manages her Knight's erotic energy by having him Climax a few days earlier than usual when she wants a more peaceful time, and by making him last a few days longer than usual when she wants to enjoy a highly energized Knight.

The dynamic is win-win because a Princess uses her Princess Power to enjoy life as a Princess, and she also ensures that her Knight is enjoying his role to such an extent that he is always wanting to remain her Knight. (More)
 
 

Devotional Dating is when Devotional Sex is used when dating a new partner.

Devotional Dating enables and encourages slow exploration. Spending time together sharing erotic energy, but without rushing to go the `whole way´, builds trust and intimacy. It is also very exciting and lots of fun.

The main difference between Devotional Dating and a Devotional Relationship is that with Devotional Dating the Knight never Climaxes when with his Princess. He is able to have an orgasm while with his Princess, but this must be a Crest.

Never Climaxing with his Princess is a powerful way of a Knight showing true Devotion to his date, and it also keeps the couples sensual and sexual dynamic feeling similar to how it would feel most of the time in a Devotional Relationship.

A Knight only gets to Climax when with his Princess once they form a Devotional Relationship.

Starting a Devotional Relationship is a very big and significant change. Not only does it mean that the Knight can now Climax when with his Princess, it also means that the Knight is giving his Princess control over all his Climaxes, and from then on will only ever Climax when she says. The change from Devotional Dating to a Devotional Relationship will feel very special to both the Princess and her Knight. (More)
 
 

It is an unfortunate fact of modern life that many adults now have periods of time, sometimes lasting for years, when they are not in a romantic relationship. Having a Devotional Friend enables some very important human pleasures to be enjoyed without ever going the whole way.

Devotional Friends are friends who are not in a romantic relationship and use Devotional Sex to share erotic energy together with their chosen mix of intimacy, sensual pleasures, sexual resting, erotic fun, sexual pleasures, or just exploring the dynamic of Devotional Sex.

Like with Devotional Dating, a Knight in a Devotional Friendship never Climaxes when with his Princess. Devotional Friends also never go as far as Joy.

It feels extremely liberating to enjoy a Devotional Friendship. Between doing nothing and doing everything is a huge playground of adult fun just waiting to be explored. The Princess chooses which parts of the playground to enjoy. No longer distracted by hoping to go `all the way´, her Knight is freed to fully enjoy what does happen.

A Devotional Friendship can be as mild as two good friends enjoying some massages and cuddles together. Princess Power means that the Princess can feel safe and comfortable that things will never go any further.

More liberating, and lots of fun, is adding some erotic fun to the dynamic. Even though erotic fun creates and celebrates arousal, this can be enjoyed within a Devotional Friendship without ever going further to full sexual activity.

Some Devotional Friends will want to enjoy full sexual activity (active touching or oral sex). But unlike when dating or within a relationship, these activities can always remain unbalanced which creates a very different and powerful dynamic. (More)
 
 

Devotional Lovers are Devotional Friends who also enjoy Joy together.

As with Devotional Friends, a Knight never Climaxes when with his Devotional Lover. (More)
 
 

Lite Devotional Sex is a less intense version of Devotional Sex in which the Knight is allowed to ejaculate much more often.

Lite Devotional Sex is for men who like most things about Devotional Sex, but are unwilling to meet the tough ejaculation restrictions of full Devotional Sex.

Though Lite Devotional Sex enables a Knight and his Princess to enjoy many of the benefits of full Devotional Sex, especially the sexual parts, it misses out on some of the key lifestyle aspects. (More)
 
 

A Supplicant Knight is a man who practices Devotional Sex with a partner who has not accepted the role of being his Princess.

A Supplicant Knight controls his own sexual behavior without inflicting a new role onto his partner. Though she needs to accept that her partner has chosen a new way to be sexual, it is up to her whether or not she takes advantage of the situation.

Becoming a Supplicant Knight is one way of introducing a reluctant partner to Devotional Sex. And once his partner has got used to the strange parts, and tasted many of the benefits of Devotional Sex, she may be happy to accept his offer to become his Princess and to practice full Devotional Sex.

Some women will never want to accept the role of being a Princess. Though a man with such a partner will never be able to enjoy full Devotional Sex, by being a Supplicant Knight he (and his partner!) are able to enjoy some of the benefits and joys of Devotional Sex.

Hence some men may decide to continue to be a Supplicant Knight even when they know that things will never go any further. (More)
 
 

I believe that it is very important that the words "Devotional Sex", "Devotional Relationship", "Devotional Dating", "Devotional Friends", and "Devotional Lovers" are only used to describe the activities and lifestyle as described earlier in this chapter.

This is not an attempt to restrict what couples do together, they can do anything they like, but an attempt to ensure meaningful communication.

If you do most but not all of the points in the definition, please do not call what you do Devotional Sex. (More)
 
 
The `normal´ sexual response has five stages of sexual arousal. Devotional Sex is much more complex and fun!

This section presents the many states which can be experienced when doing Devotional Sex. (More)
 
 
With the definitions given in the above sections, it might seem that Devotional Sex is very restrictive compared to Vanilla Sex. And it is true that Devotional Sex does set some things in stone (eg the Knight obeying his Princess, and restrictions on when he may Climax).

But Vanilla Sex has its own `unwritten´ rules (eg the male will always ejaculate at the end). And when you look at Vanilla sexual behavior, most people are doing much the same as everyone else.

The sex lives of Devotees has a much greater variation because each couple will implement Devotional Sex according to their own tastes. When you look at the many options and enhancements available within Devotional Sex, it is unlikely that any Devotee couple will be enjoying Devotional Sex in exactly the same was as any other Devotee couple. (More)
 
 

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