Devotional Sex
Chapter 6: Devotional Sex
A Supplicant Knight
A Supplicant Knight is a man who practices Devotional Sex with a partner who has not accepted the role of being his Princess.
A supplicant is someone who earnestly or humbly asks or begs for something.
A Supplicant Knight is a man who practiced as much Devotional Sex as he can as he humbly asks for his partner to become his Princess.
Becoming
a Supplicant Knight is one way of introducing a reluctant partner to
Devotional Sex.
And once his partner has got used to the strange parts, and tasted many of the benefits of Devotional Sex, she may be happy to accept his offer to become his Princess and to practice full Devotional Sex.
And once his partner has got used to the strange parts, and tasted many of the benefits of Devotional Sex, she may be happy to accept his offer to become his Princess and to practice full Devotional Sex.
A
Supplicant Knight controls his own sexual behavior without inflicting a
new role onto his partner. Though she needs to accept that her partner
has chosen a new way to be sexual, it is up to her whether or not she
takes advantage of the situation.
A Supplicant Knight practices Devotional Tao, which means that he does not ejaculate most times he has sexual activity. He uses the calming techniques of Devotional Tao to manage his erotic energy.
A Supplicant Knight is able to orgasm without ejaculating, or he is learning to do this.
A Supplicant Knight takes full responsibility for his own erotic energy. When a session of sexual activity ends, he decides whether or not he will ejaculate.
Practicing Devotional Tao means that he will desire sexual activity much more often, so one of the major challenges of being a Supplicant Knight is to limit how often he initiates sexual activity with his partner.
A Supplicant Knight is devoted to his partner and enjoys giving her sexual and sensual pleasures. Though his partner has no power over him, he always acts upon his partner's suggestions and requests. (More)
Being a Supplicant Knight is all about a man changing his sexual behavior. Starting this change may require him to be assertive with his partner about his right to try something different, but this must be balanced by her right for the change to effect her as little as possible.
Though living Devotional Tao (either as a full Knight or a Supplicant Knight) is fairly easy, it may be difficult at first. Unfortunately his difficulty in learning Devotional Tao happens at the same time as his partner has to cope with his new way of feeling and behaving. Hence becoming a Supplicant Knight is not easy, and will require much effort and commitment. (More)
Even though the Supplicant Knight's partner has not wanted to become a Princess, she may still be supportive of her partner learning Devotional Tao and his being more devoted to her.
If she is not supportive, she needs to eventually accept that her partner has the right to explore Devotional Tao as long as he minimizes how this effects her.
The breakthrough in her accepting his practice of Devotional Tao is when he is able to have an erection in bed with her without her feeling that this is a demand or expectation for sexual activity. (More)
The most likely reason for the Supplicant Knight's partner not wanting to be his Princess is that she does not want to take a dominant role (and perhaps does not want to see her partner as being submissive). So an important part of being a Supplicant Knight is to ensure that his partner never feels that she has to be dominant or that he is wanting her to be dominant.
Thus a Supplicant Knight should be pro-active in suggesting sexual activities (including activities which pleasure him). He should engage in just a little negotiation when his partner suggests something he does not like, and he should always show enthusiasm for doing any activity which she suggests that he does like. (More)
One of the joys of being a Supplicant Knight is that the couple can enjoy some Devotional Sex activities.
The Supplicant Knight may need to be a little assertive to get his partner to try some of these things, and perhaps a little assertive to get to do them a few more times. But once his partner has got used to these new activities they may become regular activities which his partner also very much enjoys. (More)
As the Supplicant Knight's partner becomes used to her suggestions always happening, it is likely that over time she will start to make some suggestions not as a request, but with the expectation that what she says will happen.
If she makes these `commands´ in a relaxed and natural way, she will not feel that she is dominating her partner, but instead that she has exerted some gentle control so that what happens pleases her. She has started to act and feel like a Devotional Sex Princess. (More)
A couple progress to full Devotional Sex when the Supplicant Knight's partner accepts him as her Knight and is willing to become his Princess.
As his Princess she then has Princess Power over her Knight. For the new Princess this may not feel very different from before, but the change is likely to feel very significant for her new Knight.
As Princess she now controls when her Knight is allowed to ejaculate, and this gives her control over her new Knight's erotic energy. She also accepts responsibility to ensure that her Knight remains happy in his role. (More)
Some
women will never want to accept the role of being a Princess, and so
some men may never get any further than being a Supplicant Knight. Even
so, they may gain satisfaction from living as a Supplicant Knight.
When a man is with a partner who never becomes willing to become his Princess, he will never get to enjoy full Devotional Sex. But both he (and his partner!) are able to enjoy some of the benefits and joys of Devotional Sex as long as he continues to be a Supplicant Knight.
Hence some men may decide to continue to be a Supplicant Knight even when they know that things will never go any further. (More)
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