Chapter 8: Getting Started
Getting started with Devotional Sex is fun!
Whether you and your partner decide to enjoy just the occassional spell
of high-energy fun, or to discover the intimacy and connection that
comes from the Knight learning to manage his erotic energy, is up to
The deepest benefits of Devotional Sex are enjoyed once a couple are
experienced in the technique. But it's when you are getting started
that things are the most exciting - you have the adventure of trying
something new and it's your first taste of the extra passion and
enhanced pleasures of Devotional Sex.
I hope you and your partner both enjoy your first explorations.
Spells of Devotional Sex - High energy fun!
A spell of Devotional Sex is when a couple both agree to practice Devotional Sex for just one session or a short Season.
During the spell the Knight's energy will build and build as he goes
longer and longer without ejaculating. Hence this is the high-energy
way to enjoy Devotional Sex.
enjoying a 'normal' sex life can suggest, negotiate, then agree to
practice Devotional Sex for just a few minutes (a Blissette) all the
way up to a weekend or longer. There are also some spells which give a
taste of the more
intimate aspects of Devotional Sex - Devotional Affection and a Devotional Night.
Some couples may decide to
include spells of high energy Devotional Sex in their menu of
activities and not bother with exploring Devotional Sex further. That is fine if that is what works best for you.
To help you on your way this section also includes some advice on how to get the most from each taste. (More)
High energy Devotional Sex is too intense to live this way
The spells of Devotional Sex are intense and powerful because as the Knight
goes longer without ejaculating his erotic energy builds up. It's lots
of fun to play with this energy, but this is a game that can't go on
For him his balls will start to ache and his mind won't be able to
think of anything other than sex. This intensity can make it difficult
for him to do all the normal things in life including making it hard to
concentrate at work.
For her, though she will at first will find his high energy fun,
his energy will eventually become too much and she will want a rest
from his intensity and from so much sexual
Hence high energy spells of Devotional Sex are great fun for a day or
even a long weekend, but it isn't practicable to live this way.
Learning to live Devotional Sex - Relaxed intimacy
Devotional Sex is when the Knight has learned to calim his erotic
energy enough for it to no longer be disruptive to normal life and for
it to instead be a positive background energy which adds zest to lfie. And even though he goes much longer without ejaculating his balls no longer ache.
Another key difference is that when living Devotional Sex it will be
common for the Princess to decide that a bedtime or morning cuddle will
go no further than just a cuddle. Thus his constant background erotic energy is used to power lots of
sessions of relaxed intimacy as well as sessions of higher energy sexual fun.
The techniques for him learning to calm his energy are presented in Chapter 3.
As with learning any new skill, leaning the eastern calming techniques
takes time and commitment. The major commitment is needed from the
Knight, but it is made much easier for him to learn if his Princess
commits to helping him.
A couple can include practicing the calming techniques within the
spells of Devotional Sex listed above. This will significantly change
the feel of these sessions - loosing some of the high energy but
gaining in intimcy and connection. This section tells you how the
calming techniques can be included in the spells of Devotional Sex.
Once a couple have agreed that the Knight will learn to calm and manage
his energy it becomes possible to practice Devotional Sex for longer
periods, and for some couples this will be the best way to first
explore Devotional Sex. This section also explores how a couple can
start Devotional Sex this way. (More - Coming Soon)
How to start full Devotional Sex in your situation
The bulk of this chapter is information and advice written for your personal situation. Naturally
enough, the advice is different depending on whether you are male or female, and whether it is you or your
partner that is most keen to try Devotional Sex.
Also, the best way to start, as well as what you do, depends on whether
you are wanting to try Devotional Sex within an already established relationship, on a date, or with a friend.
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Comments, Questions and Discussion
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