Starting Devotional Sex in a Relationship
Getting started for a male | Getting started for a female
A male wants to try Devotional Sex with his partner
You can become a Knight if you wish!
This is because a large part of Devotional Sex is the man deciding to be a Knight, and you have the right within your relationship to do this.
Though you decide whether or not you will become a Knight, it is your partner who will have the biggest influence over what happens if you do.
If she does not want to become your Princess you will only be able to become a Supplicant Knight. This does not provide all the benefits of full Devotional Sex, but your partner is still likely to enjoy a better sex life, and you may decide that beign a Supplicant Knight is better than going back to a conventional sex life.
Of course everything works much better, and is much more fun, if your partner joins you in your exploration of Devotional Sex. As your Princess her influence will be very significant because she will be the one who decides what sensual and sexual activities you do, and how and when these will happen.
The complex interplay of each person's rights to do some things and to say no to others will hopefully result in both you and your partner having a happier and more fulfilling sex life. (More)
The Outline of Devotional Sex in Chapter One is a good place to start as it not only gives an overview of Devotional Sex, but also an overview of this site. This page also provides links to most of the key sections of the site.
One reason to study this site is so that you can decide whether or not you really do want to give it a go. The more you know about Devotional Sex the better you will be able to decide whether or not it might be right for you.
By all means let your partner know about it, and let her know that you would be happy if she does take a look. But it is best to assume that she will never look at it, or if she does, she will only have a quick browse. I've found that many woman have the view of "Why should I look at the website when I only need to ask my partner and he will answer all my questions."
So another reason to study the site is that it will probably be up to you to tell your partner all about Devotional Sex. This also means that as her Knight you have the duty to provide her with the information that is in her best interest to know, even if this might make life a bit harder for you.
If you think your partner does need to read this site this might be because you have misunderstood the role of a Princess. Though you have the right to become a Knight, you don't have the right to demand that your partner dominate you. (More)
Step 2: Make a personal commitment
Living Devotional Sex has both people devoted to each other, and both put in some effort to keep their partner happy.
But getting started with Devotional Sex will require you to put in much more effort - to both manage yourself and to keep your partner happy. And as your partner may not yet have agreed to become your Princess, she does not have a commitment to keep you happy.
Starting Devotional Sex will have many fun and exciting times, but it will not all be easy. Are you prepared for the challenges ahead?
Of course starting to explore Devotional Sex does not lock you into continuing. If you find it too much, or not for you, you can stop at any time.
Read on to find out how to proceed once you have made a commitment to give it a go.
Discussion and questions
To continue, please select your main reason
for wanting to try Devotional Sex:
To make a good sex life even better
To help solve a problem with your sex life
(eg your partner lacking sexual desire or you having some problems)
To practice FemDom or some BDSM activities.