The Ritual command enables a Princess to enjoy a Pleasure Kiss (receive oral sex) whenever she wants and for as long as she wants.
well as using Ritual to enjoy Pleasure Kisses, a Princess can use this
command to enjoy a Ritual Cuddle and some other pleasures.
This a very special Devotional Sex command, and is part of what is represented by the Devotional Sex logo.
When a Princess says "Ritual",
if not already in this position, she moves to lie on her back.
If her legs are together her Knight moves down to
lie by her
side and cuddle her with his head resting on her lower tummy and his
nose just above her Pleasure.
This is a Ritual Cuddle.
He continues to cuddle her in this
intimate way until his Princess does a Ritual action.
If the Princess opens
her legs her
Knight repositions himself to lie between her legs and he then
her a Pleasure Kiss.
If his Princess parts her legs as she says "Ritual" her Knight skips
the Ritual Cuddle and moves straight to giving her a Pleasure Kiss.
The Ritual does not end until the Princess gives her Knight two firm
his shoulder (or makes clear that Ritual is over by some other means).
Her Knight then moves up and cuddles his Princess in her preferred way
(a Devotional Cuddle, just a cuddle, or a cuddle in the Be Small position).
Couples who enjoy Foot
Kisses or Bud
Kisses can extend the Ritual command with some further
actions so that these pleasures can also be enjoyed as a part of this command.
Ritual is optional, but most will enjoy it often
Ritual is not part of the definition
of Devotional Sex, so couples can practice Devotional Sex
without using this command.
But it is likely that most couples who practice Devotional Sex will enjoy Ritual often.
not uncommon initial reaction to the concept of the Princess using an
occasional command in the bedroom is to think that saying a command
would sound silly or feel bossy, and so commands would not work in practice. In about the commands
I explain why I believe that using commands is beneficial, and show how
their use can quickly start to feel natural. I highly recommend that
all Devotee couples at least try using a few commands to get a feel for
how it works in practice.
As with all Devotional Sex commands, a couple can use a different word for the command, or instead use a phrase.
Whatever word or phrase is used, the most important part of Ritual is that whenever a Princess `asks´ for oral sex her Knight obliges, and that he does not stop giving her oral until she `asks´ for it to stop.
Ritual feels very special
first exploring Devotional Sex the use of the Ritual command is one of
the ways that Devotional Sex will feel very different from ordinary
sex. At first the use of Ritual will be an adventure for both, and at
first it will always feel a bit strange.
The real power of
Ritual is when it is used often, and it eventually becomes a normal a
part of a couple's Devotional Sex life. After a while it really does
feel normal and natural for the Princess to be able to enjoy a Pleasure
Kiss whenever she likes, and for every Pleasure Kiss to go on for as
long as she likes.
a Princess, using the Ritual command is one of the reasons that
Devotional Sex feels very special. And having her Knight always obey this
command proves that he is very devoted to her and that Devotional Sex is very real.
a Knight knows he will always obey the Ritual command becomes symbolic
of his devotion to his Princess. And that he enjoys hearing the word
Ritual, and that it is a true pleasure for him to obey, is symbolic of
his enjoyment of being a Knight.
How Ritual is used
Ritual is a
very powerful and useful command because it can be used in different
ways at different times.
with all Devotional Sex activities, it is up to each Princess to decide
and in what way, she uses this command.
exploration of the sections below is sure to reward the reader with some fun and
exciting new ideas, as well as helping you to better enjoy the more
basic pleasures of the Ritual command.
Feel free to ignore
anything below which you don't like.
And I hope you have fun exploring
and putting into practice the bits you do like!
The Ritual Cuddle
The Ritual Cuddle is a very intimate cuddle during which the Knight is
thinking about her Pleasure, and the Princess feels very wanted and desired by her
Only going as far as the Ritual Cuddle
are many reasons why it is desirable to sometimes use the Ritual
command to have a Ritual Cuddle without going any further. (More)
A Pleasure Kiss for as long as she wants
A Pleasure Kiss initiated by the Ritual command continues for as long as the Princess wishes, so Ritual
used by a Princess to enjoy anything from a quick lick to a long
Enjoyed by both
What is most special about Ritual is
that it is enjoyed by both - the Princess is pleasured
whenever she wishes, and her Knight is almost always pleased when he
hears the command. (More)
Ending the Ritual
Ritual ends when the Princess gives her Knight two firm squeezes on his
shoulder. There are two reasons why this works best in practice. (More)
Holding the Knight's hard Desire after Ritual
very devotional way to end a Pleasure Kiss is to enjoy a
Devotional Cuddle. This is when the couple cuddle with the Princess
holding or gently playing with her Knight's erection. This is both
reward for the Knight, and an acceptance of his energy.
Ending a session this way is highly recommended when a Pleasure Kiss is a sessions last sexual activity. (More)
Using a pillow for comfort and to indicate a long kiss
a pillow under the Princess's bottom may make it more comfortable for
the Knight, and the placing of a pillow can be used to let the Knight
know that it will be a medium to long Pleasure Kiss. (More)
Ritual to have an orgasm
Ritual can be used to enjoy a Pleasure Kiss which leads to orgasm. (More)
Ritual without an orgasm
It is very pleasurable, sensual, and sexy to receive oral sex, and a
Pleasure Kiss is much more than just a means to reach orgasm.
many couples it will be very common for the Princess to enjoy a
Pleasure Kiss just for these preliminary pleasures, and many Kisses
will be enjoyed without an orgasm. (More)
Ritual as a Blissette
Ritual can be used to enjoy just a Blissette
when in bed at night, or during a short morning cuddle.
The Blissette might consist only of the intimate Ritual Cuddle, or it can be a `good
morning´ or a `good night´ Pleasure Kiss. (More)
Longer sessions of only a Pleasure Kiss
normal part of many Devotees' lives will be the times when a Princess
says "Ritual" to enjoy a long and gentle Pleasure Kiss, and no other
sexual activities take place during that session.
Not only are such sessions fun for both, but they strengthen the Devotional dynamic. (More)
Ritual as a meditation
Princess can meditate while she receives a long Pleasure Kiss.
meditation on sexual pleasure and her Knight's devotion can be very
moving and powerful. (More)
Ritual can sometimes be said just to please an eager Knight. (More)
Ritual to please the Knight
before the Knight is aroused
It feels very different for a Knight to hear and obey this command
before he has become aroused. (More)
Saying Ritual during Joy
A Princess saying "Ritual" during Joy (intercourse) can be a powerful use of Princess Power.
She goes from receiving one pleasure to another, but her Knight is no-longer receiving pleasure. (More)
Ritual to celebrate the juices
When a woman
becomes very excited and orgasms during intercourse, she often becomes
very wet. Devotional Sex
provides an opportunity to celebrate her juices. (More)
Other commands during Ritual - "Be Still" and "Adore"
Other commands can be used together with Ritual:
Still" keeps contact but with the Knight remaining still. "Adore" has
no contact, leaving the Knight to adore from a short distance. (More)
Ritual when she is wearing panties
Ritual can be enjoyed when wearing panties as a tease or for an intimate cuddle.
is a particularly powerful when the Knight is very aroused, and when
used right at the very start of Devotional Dating or with a Devotional
the Ritual command in the living room
It can be fun, and a nice variation from normal, for a Princess to use the Ritual
command in the living room to enjoy either a Pleasure Kiss or an intimate cuddle. (More)
Enjoying Ritual outside
Ritual command can be used to enjoy a Ritual Cuddle outside in
semi-public. In a more private place even more explicit activities can
Enjoying Ritual outside adds a new dimension to the fun. (More)
meaning of the Devotional Sex logo
The Devotional Sex logo, best seen on the Welcome page, represents the power and mutual pleasure of the Ritual command. (More)
Ritual as a ritual
word `ritual´ is also used on this site to denote a Devotional
Sex habit, which is something related to Devotional Sex that is done in
a regular way at a regular time. Rituals (the habits) are discussed in Chapter 11: Rituals and Ceremonies.
a Princess decides that she would like to receive oral sex from her
Knight, for example, every Friday evening (and perhaps also not
allow other sexual activities on a Friday so that the Ritual feels more
special to both), then this would become one of the couples Devotional
Sex habits, ie one of their rituals.
More is said about the power of using Ritual as a ritual in Chapter 11, here.
Sharing your experience of Ritual
Ritual is one of the ways that Devotional Sex feels different from
ordinary sex. It is an adventure for both when you start to use this
command, and it feels special when using Ritual starts to feel normal
As show above, there are many ways that Ritual can
be used, and so each couple is likely to enjoy Ritual in their own
If you try Ritual, please consider sharing your
experience with other readers. Your words may help others to also give
it a try. And the way you use Ritual may inspire others to try
You can contribute anything from just a few lines to a long real-life story.
don't just say what you do, but also include how doing this makes you
both feel. And, if possible, get your partner to add a few words on how
they feel. If you write about your experience of starting to use this
command, who's idea was it to first do this, and how did the dynamic
change over time?
Ritual will change your sex life for the better. Your contribution may help change other people's sex lives.