Brilliant observation, Devotional and I agree wholeheartedly. And to be honest, the one thing I miss the most about being in such a relationship is, indeed, the cuddling you speak of. I have found that outside of this type of relationship, as you pointed out, the importance of such moments goes unheeded, as some are quite eager to move on to the next experience, with or without that same partner, a friends with benefits and playmate type relationship, which while fine when one is young and or newly released from a hitherto oppressive relationship or life, does not seem to suit, at least Myself, as one grows a bit older and becomes more "intune" with the necessity to feel whole. The heart puts forth energy in a 360 degree circle to those in its immediate presence, and to be present with a cherished Knight, Lady, or Princess while one's heart is filled with grace and devotion is unlike anything else I have ever experienced. Thank You, D, for hopping onto this subject. It is a pleasure to realize others feel similarly as I do.
The Devotional Cuddle: The most common Devotional Sex activity.
A Devotional Cuddle is when a couple cuddle with her holding, and perhaps gently playing with, his erection.
This is not the same as her actively playing with his erection to bring him close, or to, ejaculation. Her actively playing is a full sexual activity where she is focussed on doing this. With a Devotional Cuddle she is feeling his energy in her hand but this is just part of a relaxed and erotically charged cuddle.
For many couples who practice Devotional Sex a Devotional Cuddle will be a very common way of starting sexual activity. It gives the Princess time to decide what she wants to happen next, and it establishes some intimacy and connection before jumping into a full sexual activity.
As the Knight usually does not ejaculate at the end of most sessions of sex he will still be aroused and erect. A Devotional Cuddle, even if it is only for a short time, is a very good way to wind down from the session.
Her holding his erection after sexual activity has the Knight feeling that she accepts his energy and him. (Her just rolling over and going to sleep would leave him feeling rejected - as many women know from when the man ejaculates at the end of ‘normal’ sex and then ignores her.)
And as the series of posts on Cuddle Rituals has shown, a couple who practices Devotional Sex may also have a few to many times each week when they enjoy a Devotional Cuddle together which goes no further.
The Devotional Cuddle is a very special Devotional Sex activity because most couples who live Devotional Sex will spend more time each week having a Devotional Cuddle than they do having full sexual activity.
Practicing Devotional Sex makes full sexual activity better - for example she can receive oral sex whenever she wishes for as long as she wishes. But the biggest benefit from practicing Devotional Sex comes from the increase in intimacy and connection, and it is the many Devotional Cuddles which build and then maintain this.
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