I just love this concept, and you are right, after a while, living with high erotic energy feels normal.
I would love more pages in the getting started section. My wife now requests cuddles, but I ask for Devotional Cuddles too often it seems. It's tough to take it slow . We need help in that area. By we I mean me!
Perhaps the biggest hurdle to overcome when starting Devotional Sex is the Knight wanting more cuddles to turn into some full sexual activity (oral sex, active playing, or Joy). As you don't mention this issue I think you must be making good progress.
Devotional Sex is not just doing things differently, but thinking and feeling about what you do differently. The Devotional Cuddle (a cuddle with the Princess holding or gently playing with her Knight's erection) is an interesting activity in that it sits between no erotic activity and full activity. As the Knight has an erection with a Devotional Cuddle there is clearly always an erotic component to his thinking.
A Devotional Cuddle can also have a big erotic component for a Princess. But once a Princess gets used to her power and the new dynamic of Devotional Sex, a Devotional Cuddle can sometimes be enjoyed by a Princess without her feeling any arousal. Though she is not aroused, she will be enjoying the power of the intimacy and connection of this special cuddle, and she will enjoy that she is pleasing her Knight. As she can feel in her hand her Knight's desire for her, and thus his wish to do more, but she is choosing to do no more than the Devotional Cuddle, she might also feel slightly powerful and that her Knight is very much hers.
Perhaps your wife still feels that a Devotional Cuddle is something that she can only enjoy when she feels slightly aroused, or she feels that holding your erection makes her feel pressure that sexual activity is expected.
That you wife is now requesting cuddles shows that she is enjoying how Devotional Sex powers intimacy. This suggests that over time she may start to feel comfortable giving you more Devotional Cuddles when she is not aroused.
It is very important that your wife keeps thinking of your erotic energy as a good thing, so you need to work hard to ensure that you don't pressure her so much that she starts to resent your energy. And this means not asking for Devotional Cuddles as much. Perhaps you can set a rule for yourself that you will only ask for a Devotional Cuddle four (or more or less) times per week. Then you will only ask when you feel you really need one or when you think it would be an ok time to ask your wife.
Another 'tactic' is to make sure you always tell your wife how great it feels when she gives you a Devotional Cuddle. As well as thanking her at the start you can add something later on such as "I feel so close to you when you hold me this way. This is wonderful." You need to be extra appreciative when she initiates the Devotional Cuddle.
Remember that 'pressuring' your Princess to continue a Devotional Cuddle for a bit longer is likely to make her less likely to start a Devotional Cuddle. So it may be best to accept what you can get and when she lets go of your erection say something like "Thank-you, I really enjoyed your holding me."
What a Princess enjoys when it comes to giving Devotional Cuddles will vary greatly between different women. Unfortunately some Princess's will want most cuddles to not go as far as a Devotional Cuddle, but some Princess's will enjoy making most cuddles Devotional.
But probably every Knight will not get as many Devotional Cuddles as he would like. When you really want a Devotional Cuddle and can't get one, then you just have to put up with it as part of the price of being a Knight. At these times it is important not to dwell too much on what you would like but are not getting, and try to divert your erotic energy into enjoying the just-a-cuddle.
If your Princess is enjoying Devotional Sex to the extent that she wants to keep it going for her own enjoyment, then she will need to take on the responsibility of keeping her Knight always wanting to remain her Knight. Some open communication can be useful here, and when the Princess knows how her Knight feels, and how important getting a few Devotional Cuddles is to keeping him happy as her Knight, she may be willing to give him a few more.
The Princess becoming fully comfortable with saying "not now" also makes a big difference. My Princess is often generous in giving Devotional Cuddles, but she is also relaxed about saying "no". So I'm not pressuring her by asking for her to hold me, but when I ask I'm often denied.
So it is important that your wife feels in control, and always feels that she can say "no". Perhaps you can even suggest the use of the "Be Quiet" command.
You also need to ensure that she knows that even though your being a Knight significantly increases your desire for sexual activity and Devotional Cuddles, that as you accept that as something will not happen all of the time, it is your Princess who decides when things will and will not happen.
Your Princess will feel much more relaxed and comfortable denying you when you really want something when she knows that she will reward you another time. So she can feel that it is right to deny you a Devotional Cuddle one bedtime even though you are desperate because she really is not in the mood, and she plans to give you a nice Devotional Cuddle (or more) in the morning.
For the Knight the reward from being denied is that when his Princess rewards him another time because she is now in the mood for giving the reward what happens is much more enjoyable (for both).
As you can see, there are lots of different factors and things to do. You will have to work out what will work best for you and your Princess.
I welcome any comments or questions from anyone interested in exploring this area further.