My Devotional Diary

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My Devotional Diary

Postby jill29 » Wed Feb 08, 2017 10:40 am

Dear Devotees,

My Knight and I decided to accept the invitation on Devotional Sex Tumblr to share our sexual activities over a Season. (We recently enjoyed doing some of the surveys listed there). We think it will be interesting and fun to record our activities, associate some of our feelings about them, and share them with other Devotees. We hope to receive some interesting feedback on our Diary entries.

Introduction
I am Princess jill, age 33, divorced. My Knight is Tom, age 48, divorced. We live in Seattle, USA. We are partners--bf/gf, but not married. I am a secretary at a business partnership. Knight Tom is an executive at a financial firm.

Tom introduced me to the concept of Devotional Sex and suggested that we try it. I was intrigued, but hesitant because Tom had always been somewhat dominant and I had always been somewhat submissive in our sex life. Tom argued that we should at least try Devotional Sex; he thought it would be a way to keep our sex exciting and enjoyable for both of us. Through lengthy discussions and study of the Devotional Sex Tumblr, he persuaded me to try it.

That was about three years ago. It worked out well for both of us. Although we do not Live Devotional Sex full-time, we do it most of the time. We are now more closely bonded and share greater intimacy than we ever did before Devotional Sex. At this point, a Season for us is approximately two weeks.

My plan is to offer a Diary entry each day for our Season.
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Re: My Devotional Diary

Postby Devotional Sex » Wed Feb 08, 2017 10:59 am

Welcome Princess Jill and Knight Tom, and thanks for being the first couple to decide to post a day-by-day diary for a Season.

I very much hope you inspire some other couples to do the same.

A key part of DevS is that each couples does what works best for them and there is huge variation possible in what activities you do and how often. So I'm sure I won't be the only one keen to see what happen and how this works for you.

Unfortunately few people post comments here, but there are many readers. So keep an eye out for how many people view your topic and you will see there is lots of interest. And once your diary gets going I'll post a link to this topic on my Tumblr and that should significantly increase the number of views.

I very much look forward to reading about your adventures!

Michael
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Re: My Devotional Diary

Postby RevSir » Wed Feb 08, 2017 5:36 pm

Thanks for being willing to share, I look forward to hearing what happens over the season...
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Re: My Devotional Diary

Postby jill29 » Thu Feb 09, 2017 8:28 am

Thanks for the warm welcome, Michael and RevSir.

Season 1 Day 1

Dear Diary,
The alarm woke us sleeping like spoons. We sleep nude.

Because my Knight Tom had ejaculated the night before, I expected him to exhibit lower energy than usual and, indeed he was not erect as he normally is in anticipation of our morning Cuddle Ritual. A little Desire Play produced the erection that I sought and we had our usual Devotional Cuddle for about 15 minutes. I initiated a few Kisses and proceeded to get dressed and ready for work. Tom followed me to the bathroom so he could watch me prepare and dress. My Knight has the luxury of going to work later than I, so I can enjoy his Affirmation until I depart which I did this morning.

After work we met for dinner at a favorite restaurant and discussed at length our decision to share some of our sexual activities by means of this Diary. As mentioned above, we both enjoyed participating in and reviewing the results of the various Devotional Sex Surveys that we found on the Devotional Sex Tumblr, so we thought it would be fun to try a Diary. We think that conferring about our Diary entries will increase our sexual communication and improve our Devotional Sex.

After arriving home, I asked Tom for Affirmation until bedtime. While watching TV, I asked my Knight to Snuggle, so we went to our bedroom. I asked for a Pleasure Kiss and noticed that tom was more eager than usual on the first day of a Season. I attribute his energy to our discussion of the Diary and and the possibility that through sharing we may find some new avenues of sexual pleasure. I let the Pleasure Kiss continue until I achieved orgasm. Knight Tom then suggested a Bud Kiss to which I agreed and invited him to bestow. I am fascinated by the excitement Tom exhibits when pleasuring my Bud. I think we should discuss this further so that I have a better understanding of this source of my Knight's energy. Tonight, though, we ended with a Devotional Cuddle and went to sleep.
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Re: My Devotional Diary

Postby Devotional Sex » Thu Feb 09, 2017 9:17 am

Now I have something to look forward to every morning (my time as I'm in Australia) - a new diary entry!

As well as just being a fun erotic read, I hope your diary will inspire other couples to try DevS.

Rather than fill up your diary with my commentary, I've put my commentary here.
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Re: My Devotional Diary

Postby jill29 » Fri Feb 10, 2017 3:05 pm

Thank you for your enthusiasm, Michael. Tom and I hope that we can live up to your anticipations.

I have set a Preference for Affirmation in the morning. It is a pleasant way to start the day and we both set off to work in a good mood. Sometimes the Affirmation develops into other sexual activities and sometimes not.

I have noticed that you have changed some of the terms in the Glossary. To avoid confusion, I will try to use the current terminology in our Diary entries, but some of the old words are quite ingrained in my thinking. For example, I see that Adoration has changed to Gaze. OK, but I must say that Adoration seem more special for one of our favorite activities.

Season 1 Day 2

When Knight Tom and I awoke, I was glad to notice that Tom's energy was building nicely. He was erect for our Devotional Cuddle. I was in a good mood because of my very nice orgasm the night before. Unfortunately, we both had early days at work, so our Devotional Cuddle was cut short at about five minutes and I had very little time to enjoy my Knight's regular morning Affirmation.

At lunchtime, I called Tom to check in and he explained how happy he was that our Devotional Sex enabled him to achieve an erection just by thinking about our close bond and my Pleasure while he sat at his desk at work.

We both arrived home late because of work, so we ordered takeout for dinner. After dinner, I requested Affirmation and soon after asked my Knight to Gaze (Adore my Pleasure) while I read my book. I was a pleasant way to wind down. Soon we both went to bed. I was too tired to do anything but sleep.
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Re: My Devotional Diary

Postby Devotional Sex » Fri Feb 10, 2017 3:49 pm

Thanks for posting day 2!

You are the first to post a diary so you are already exceeding my expectations!

I've written another commentary which is posted here.
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Re: My Devotional Diary

Postby jill29 » Sat Feb 11, 2017 8:16 am

Michael, your careful reading and insightful comments about our Diary entries have provided starting points for excellent conversations between Knight Tom and me. The Diary is working out well for us.

Season 1 Day 3

My Knight and I awoke refreshed. I could feel Tom's erection nestled against my buttocks and I knew that the day would be a delight. As we had our regular Devotional Cuddle, I told Tom that his erection was a clear sign of his deep bond to me. That erection without any anticipation of penetration or oral stimulation demonstrates his Devotion to me. I have said this to my Knight many times, but I know that he loves to hear it and he truly deserves the compliment. What better sign could there be of how proud he is to be my Knight. I held his scrotum and gave him a short Desire Kiss. Then I invited him to accompany me while I showered and dressed. Tom likes to watch me do this and I like his compliments about my sexy body or how hungry I make him feel.

Tom and I talk about sex a lot. We attribute this to Devotional Sex. For us, a discussion of his erection or a comment about my Pleasure is as natural and unloaded as saying "I love you." We concluded that we both feel freer to discuss sex because there is no anticipation that it "should" lead to intercourse or oral sex. We are both more confident about what we are really saying to each other. Moreover, our verbal communication during sexual activities benefits. I love to hear how my Knight loves the shape or color of my labia or the aroma of my Pleasure--I love it even though I have heard him say it many times. Before we found Devotional Sex, I heard these kinds of comments infrequently because we would have both been focused on Tom's ejaculation during sex.

At lunchtime, I called Tom and asked him to think about the Pleasure Kiss that I was going to ask him for that evening.

After dinner, Tom seemed eager, but I had phone calls to return and emails to answer. I asked him if he was erect--he was--but I did not ask for Affirmation. It wasn't until we were both nude for bed that I asked Tom to get comfortable for a Pleasure Kiss. Our Pleasure kiss lasted about 20 minutes until I had a lovely orgasm. Then, we Cuddled and kissed until we fell asleep.
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Re: My Devotional Diary

Postby Devotional Sex » Sat Feb 11, 2017 9:19 am

What a wonderful post and a wonderful day you both had!

I've written another commentary which is here.

I'm already looking forward to tomorrow's entry!
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Re: My Devotional Diary

Postby RevSir » Sat Feb 11, 2017 7:16 pm

Thanks Jill and Tom for your diary.
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