Requests for a page to be written soon.

[Devotional Sex]

Many pages on this site are 'yet to be written'.

If you would like me to write one of these pages soon, this is the place to let me know. Posting here will make a difference to what I write next!

If I don't hear directly from readers, then the pages I work on are the 'not yet written' pages that my site statistics tell me have been most viewed. Though this is a good first attempt to respond to reader demand, there are two problems with it.

Firstly, if a page has two links, and the people who are really interested in trying Devotional Sex click one link, but all those who are just having a casual browse click the other, because most readers are just browsing, that link will have many more page views. The more important page to write next would be the one that the really interested readers wanted to see, but unless you tell me about such pages I will not know that they are important.

Secondly, as most of my readers come from google, topics which generate visits get more page views, and thus get more related pages written, which generates more google links and thus more visits on that topic. Though BDSM and kinky activities are not central to Devotional Sex, these pages get more hits, and thus I've been writing too much about BDSM instead of writing about more core topics such as the Taoist multi-orgasmic man technique, how Devotional Sex has a Tantric element, and common Devotional Sex activities. Your requesting that I write a page that is not in Chapter 13 or 14 will restore some balance to this site.

I look forward to finding out which pages my more interested readers would like me to write next. (To prevent spam, you need to register to be able to post.)

[Francis]

Hi, I know I am a newbie....but when are you going to write more??

[Devotional Sex]

Hi Francis,

I'm sorry that I've not published much new stuff recently. My inspiration tends to come in bursts, and I need to get inspired to do another burst.

Are there any pages you would like to see soon?

Asking me to write a particular page, or more about a particular topic, might be just what I need to get inspired again!

Happy exploring,
Michael

PS Anyone is welcome to request a page for me to write soon. Hopefully someone will soon inspire me to write something.

[mrrigid]

I enjoy all the stories - it would be interesting to see what happens here, for instance!
http://devotionalsex.com/15sse_o_reveal.html
That Sam sure is a lucky man!

On a practical level, filling out this page:
http://devotionalsex.com/1comparison.html
might help people googling arround for info on those topics.

[Devotional Sex]

I've just published the story you requested, where Susan has Sam Reveal in front of her friend Kate.

I hope you enjoy it!

I welcome any further requests to write more stories.

With the page on Comparing Devotional Sex with other techniques I've so far completed the sections on the Taoist multi-orgasmic man and Karezza. The other sections are on my 'to do' list, and I welcome any feedback on which section I should write next.

[leg]

Hi

I'm new here, my wife and I are starting at devotional sex

In the topic about Establishing and maintaining Princess Power, there are many sub-topics that we would like to learn, like:
Controlling a Knight's Ejaculations
Managing the Knight's energy
How the Knight Climaxes
After the Knight Climaxes
Moments of truth
The big no-Climax
The big no-sex
Doing an edgy activity
Activities just to create the dynamic
Being strict, consistent, and always following-up
Take control of some of the Knight's suggestions

This topics are very important for us and i think it might help other newbies too. We are trying many thing, I was already able to give foot kisses, i never did it before, and i was even able to eat my cum right after my ejaculation.

We are working now on controlling better my climax, I have lost my control many times and I really want to respect her decisions on when I will climax, and more than that, when I would cum I want to control it and don't cum in an uncontrolled way like i normally do, I think this topics would help me with that.

PS.: Sorry for my english, it's not my natural language.

[Devotional Sex]

Hi leg,

Thanks for joining the forum and posting (and your English is fine).

The topics you mention would all be useful for someone starting to practice Devotional Sex, so I'll do my best to get a quick first draft on each topic published soon.

You have started with some rather full-on activities, beyond what I currently do. There is nothing wrong with this if that works for both you and your wife, but if you are introducing your wife to this new lifestyle then the stronger activities might be a bit too much too soon for your wife.

Many years ago I gave a very intense foot kiss to my friend Tracey (which is a story on the website) but I've given a foot kiss for a long time (but I have given LOTS of foot massages). But I well remember how intense it can be to give a foot kiss!

My submission is mainly sexual, and when I ejaculate I loose all my erotic energy and submission. So I would never be able to eat my own cum after ejaculating.

But more foot kissing and eating cum is fine as long as your wife enjoys them as well.

There are two aspects to controlling your climaxes:

The first is you controlling yourself, that is not ejaculating when you do not want to do this (and your wife does not want it). This takes time to learn, and gets easier over time. Controlling yourself is more the topic of Chapter 3 (though lots of sections need to be written for that chapter as well).

The other aspect of control is how your wife controls you as a Princess, and this is the topic you have asked me to write about. Where this can help you to not cum when she does not want you to is that she controls what happens, and so she can calm you down when she feels you are too close.

Keep watching the site and I'll gradually get the pages you asked for written.

And I welcome any further comments or questions.

Happy Exploring!
Michael

[leg]

Thank you for your reply.

Eating my own cum was a long time fantasy of mine, but i never was able to do that alone, I always go back after ejaculating. When I found your site I showed it to my wife and we read much of it together and found it very interesting, so we decided to start.

After reading some activities proposed there she said for each of us write down the activities each one of us would like to try, then we talked about our opinions and she come up with that I needed to choose one activity that I think would be hard for me to perform and she chose one that she thinks would be pleasent to her. This was to show that I was really committed to being her knight.

So, she said she would like if i give her a foot kiss, that she find it very sexy and she never asked me to give her foot massages because she doesn't think I would like, but in this new scenery this will be ok even if I don't like. So I felt comfortable to say I had a fantasy for a long time about eating my own sperm but never had the courage to say for fear of her reaction and now that she had placed it as an activity that she would accept to do, I would like to start with this. She laughed and said I could have said before, that she had already eaten my cum several times and had no problem if I had the will.

I know we started the hard way, but it works for us and is very exciting. For me the hardest is to feel aroused all the time and not being able to ejaculate.

[Devotional Sex]

The way you worked with your wife to choose the two more full-on activities is excellent.

One great advantage of having done the foot kiss and your cum eating is that it will now be much easier for your wife to ask you to do lots of the simpler things, and it will be much easier for you to obey an easier command.

So after doing the foot kiss, it will probably now be very easy for her to ask for just an ordinary foot massage. And it will also be easier for her to give directions in bed.

One of the difficult things when you start off as a Knight are the bed times when your wife wants no more than a cuddle. So having made you do a difficult challenge with the cum eating, I hope your wife now feels in control enough to be able to say "nothing more tonight dear".

It does take a while to learn to be relaxed about not ejaculating as often. When you are just starting you both may find it better to ejaculate a bit more often. Remember that one reason you wife might want you to ejaculate is so that she can have a rest from your high energy, so sometimes she will have you ejaculate when you would prefer to last a bit longer.

When you feel that you do need to ejaculate you should let your wife know. Often she may let you (but she decides how). And sometimes she will deny you (and she will feel powerful doing this).

As long as you both keep talking honestly to each other you will keep going in the right direction!

And on the new pages for me to write, unfortunately I had a few distractions last week and didn't get much work done. Hopefully I'll get something done latter this week.

Thanks for posting again,
Michael

[ian_new_knight]

Hello All:
I just love this concept, and you are right, after a while, living with high erotic energy feels normal.

I would love more pages in the getting started section. My wife now requests cuddles, but I ask for devotional cuddles too often it seems. It's tough to take it slow . We need help in that area. By we I mean me!