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(DS command) The Knight must get into a comfortable
position to give his Princess a Pleasure Kiss, but he must keep a short
distance away from her Pleasure and just gaze at it. (More)
Back (DS command) The Knight must lie on his back (ie tummy
Discipline / Dominance and Submission / Sadism and Masochism
- The name
given to cover a large range of `kinky´ activities. See Chapter 14 - BDSM and Devotional Sex.
Bliss is a medium
session of sexual activity (lasting about 20 to 40 minutes). Several
sexual activities may be enjoyed, though sometimes there will be just
one major activity. Either or both Devotees may Crest or Climax.
are short sessions (lasting about 2 to 10 minutes) where only one
sexual activity is enjoyed. Blissettes are one of the unique joys
enabled by Devotional Sex, and make it easy and fun to enjoy sexual
activity much more often than in a `normal´ relationship. (More)
Biss - Supreme
(DS) Supreme Bliss is a very long session of
activity (lasting an hour or longer). Some activities will be enjoyed
in a slow, gentle, and very sensual manner over a much longer time than
usual. This adds a quiet intensity to the session and makes Supreme
Bliss very special.
To massage and pleasure the whole body using the mouth, lips,
To give a whole body massage.
Anus (bottom). Why this word was chosen.
(DS) To wear a small butt
plug under normal clothes.
Bud Joy (DS)
Bud Kiss (DS)
the tongue and lips to pleasure the Bud.
Using a finger to enter and play with the Bud.
The practice and feeling from wearing a large Butt Plug.
toy designed to be inserted into the anus. Usually it has a narrower
part near the base so that the anal muscles hold it in place. They can
be small (ie the size of a little finger) to large.
Calm-Down Cuddle (DS) A cuddle when a
Princess holds (but does not play with) her
Knight's hard Desire. Rather than being a sexual act,
it is an acknowledgment and enjoyment of a Knight's strong desire when
no sex is taking place. It is both a sometimes necessary part of
Devotional Sex, and one of its unique pleasures (More)
(DS) A Ceremony is a set
done by following the rules of that Ceremony. Each Ceremony is designed
to enhance a specific feeling or
aspect of Devotional Sex. Ceremonies can be very powerful due to their
exaggerated nature. Example
To orgasm and
lose sexual energy. As
the sexual energy is lost, a Climax is often the end of that session's
sexual activity. For a Knight
a Climax is an orgasm with ejaculation. If a Princess has an orgasm and
then feels that her sexual energy has declined enough to want to end
the sexual activity, then she has Climaxed. (Couples might prefer to
use the word Cum.) Why this word was chosen.
Now (DS command) An
alternative wording of the Cum
Now command for when a Knight is allowed and now should Climax. (More)
single words which make
it easy for a Princess to make something happen.(See About the commands Basic Commands The Ritual Command Other commands)
orgasm without losing sexual energy. As sexual energy
is maintained, sexual activity can continue. There can be many Crests
one after the other (multiple orgasms). For a Knight a Crest is an
orgasm without ejaculation. If a Princess has an orgasm and then feels
that her sexual energy remains high enough to want to continue sexual
activity, then she has Crested. Why
this word was chosen.
cuddle is the same in Devotional Sex as in normal life. Special
Devotional Sex cuddles include the Devotional
Cuddle, the Calm-Down Cuddle, the Ritual Cuddle, and intercourse in the Joy
(DS) A cuddle ritual is when
Devotees enjoy an in-bed cuddle every morning, every bedtime, or both. (More)
An alternative word to the Devotional
Sex term Climax. Cum can also be
used to mean the male ejaculate fluid.
Cum Now (DS command) The Knight is allowed to and should now
person who practices Devotional Sex.
A female is a Devotional
Princess, and a male is a Devotional Knight.
(DS) A gold ring with a red garnet
stone, which is worn
on the little finger of the left hand. This is the public symbol of a
(DS) Erotic resting time with the Princess acknowledging her
Knight's arousal by holding and gently playing with his hard Desire.
This is a special time for a Devotee couple, and may become a very
common activity. (More)
(DS) A new couple who are dating and
who practice Devotional Sex. At this stage, as they are not yet in a
Devotional Relationship, the Knight never Climaxes when with his Princess, and she does not control his Climaxes when they are not together. Activities can include Joy.
(DS) The feeling between a couple that the
Princess and Knight roles are very real. In particular, both feel the
Princess's power to control activities.
Devotional Friends (DS)
are not in a romantic relationship and who practice Devotional Sex to
share erotic energy, pleasure, and intimacy, without ever going as far
as Joy. A Knight will never Climax when with a Devotional Friend. (More)
(DS) Devotional Friends who also enjoy Joy
together. The Knight will never Climax when with his Devotional Lover.
(DS) A relationship in which the couple practice
Devotional Sex, and the Princess has full control over all of her
Devotional Sex (DS)
Devotional Tantra (DS)
Devotional Tao (DS)
this word was chosen.
Giving oral sex to the Knight (fellatio).
Desire Play (DS)
The Princess uses her hands
to actively play with (masturbate) her Knight's Desire.
An object having the shape
and often the
appearance of an erect Desire.
Dress (DS command) The Knight must wear underpants to bed.
To massage and pleasure the foot using the mouth, lips and
To give a foot massage.
Intercourse. Why this word was chosen.
Cuddle ( DS)
Joy in the `spoon´ position (the Princess on her side, facing
her Knight, with the Knight on his side facing her, and entering her
from behind). Why this word
Joy Deep (DS)
Joy in the `doggy´
position (the Princess on her
hands and knees, and the Knight entering her from behind). Why this word was chosen.
(DS) Joy in
the `missionary´ position (the Princess lying on her back and
Knight on top off and facing her). Why
this word was chosen.
Joy Rest (DS)
Joy with the
Knight lying on his back, and
the Princess facing him and lying (resting) on top of him. Why this word was chosen.
Joy with the
Knight lying on his back
and the Princess sitting on top of him. Why
this word was chosen.
Joy Sit (DS)
with the Knight sitting
up, and with the Princess facing him and sitting on top of him.
Why this word was chosen.
To give pleasure using
your mouth, lips and tongue including oral sex - hence Pleasure Kiss, Desire Kiss, Foot Kiss, Body Kiss, and Bud Kiss.
A Devotional Knight is a man who
follows all five points
in the definition of Devotional Sex. Why this word The private symbol
command) When a Knight suggests an activity by starting
to do it, if his Princess say "Later" he should immediately stop. He is
allowed to suggest that activity again later on in that session. (More)
command) When a Knight stops an activity, if his Princess
says "More" he should continue with the activity until his Princess
asks him to stop. (More)
The ancient Taoist technique which is clearly explained in
Multi-Orgasmic Man book by Mantak Chia and Douglas Abrams Arava where a
male chooses to not ejaculate at the end of most sexual sessions, and
also learns to manage his sexual energy, and to enjoy orgasms without
command) When a Knight suggests an activity by starting to
do it, if his Princess say "No" he should immediately stop. He is not allowed to suggest that activity again later on in that session. (More)
To give pleasure by using your
hands, including masturbation and massage - hence Pleasure Play, Desire Play, Foot Play, Body Play, and Bud Play.
this word was chosen.
Kiss (DS) Giving oral
sex to the Princess (cunnilingus).
Play (DS) The Knight uses
his hands to play with (masturbate) his Princess's Pleasure.
A Devotional Princess is a woman who follows all five points in the
definition of Devotional Sex. Why this word
Princess Power (DS)
Private symbol of being a Knight The private symbol of being a Knight is to have his pubic hair clean-shaven. (More)
Public symbol of being a Devotee The public symbol of being a Devotee is a gold ring with a red garnet
stone, which is worn on the little finger of the left hand. (More)
Quiet (DS command)
The Knight must stop talking about anything to do
Devotional Sex (can be said as "be Quiet"). (More)
The default safe word
for immediately stopping the current activity and / or
This is the emergency stop. Ignoring the safe word can be very serious.
Reveal (DS command) The Knight removes all his
clothing to fully reveal himself. (More)
Ritual (DS command) Ritual
is a very special command, and is part of what is represented by the
Devotional Sex logo. By saying this one word and doing some simple
actions, a Princess can enjoy her choice of an intimate Ritual Cuddle,
a Pleasure Kiss, or some other pleasures. (More)
(DS) A Ritual Cuddle is the first part of the Ritual
command, whereby a Knight cuddles his Princess with his head on her
tummy and his nose just above her sex. (More)
An activity, or series of activities,
that is done the same way
on a regular basis. Rituals are
Devotional Sex habits. Some rituals are to reinforce the Devotee roles,
and some are ways to enjoy an enhanced sensual and sexual life. Example
Shared Ceremonies (DS)
Sleeping Nude ritual
Sleeping nude encourages and celebrates that
and sensuality is always part of life as a Devotee. It makes sex and Blissettes easier,
and turns every cuddle into a sensual skin-on-skin cuddle. (More)
Knight cuddles his Princess with his head on her chest (can be said as
"be Small"). Small can also be used to describe this position. (More)
Snuggle (DS Command) The
Knight must follow his Princess to the bedroom for some couple time (which might be just cuddles). (More)
Command) The Knight must stop moving
(can be said as "be Still"). (More)
(DS) Supreme Bliss is when a Devotee
an hour or longer enjoying sexual activity. Some activities will be
enjoyed in a slow, gentle, and very sensual manner over a much longer
time than usual. This adds a quiet intensity to the session and makes
Supreme Bliss very special.
Tantric Devotion (DS)
Tantric techniques to reach a higher state from very long, slow
intercourse. Devotional Sex does not go this far (see Devotional Tantra).
Undress (DS command) The Knight removes all clothing
except he leaves his underpants on. (More)
Vanilla Sex (DS) Sexual
activity which does not involve any advanced technique (ie the below
average part of `normal´
sex). The term is taken from the BDSM
world where it means sex without
using any BDSM techniques. In Devotional Sex this meaning is expanded so that Vanilla Sex also excludes Tantric, Taoist, and any
other advanced techniques. (More)
word said by a Knight when he
needs his Princess to ease up on, or stop for a short time, the current
sexual activity to ensure that he does not Climax.
The default safe
word for speaking out of role.