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(DS) indicates that the word has a special meaning within Devotional Sex.
A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z
Adore (DS command) The Knight must get into a comfortable position to give his Princess a Pleasure Kiss, but he must keep a short distance away from her Pleasure and just gaze at it. (More)
Back (DS command) The Knight must lie on his back (ie tummy up). (More)
BDSM Bondage and Discipline / Dominance and Submission / Sadism and Masochism - The name given to cover a large range of `kinky´ activities. See Chapter 14 - BDSM and Devotional Sex.
Bliss (DS) Bliss is a medium session of sexual activity (lasting about 20 to 40 minutes). Several sexual activities may be enjoyed, though sometimes there will be just one major activity. Either or both Devotees may Crest or Climax.
Blissette (DS) Blissettes are short sessions (lasting about 2 to 10 minutes) where only one sexual activity is enjoyed. Blissettes are one of the unique joys enabled by Devotional Sex, and make it easy and fun to enjoy sexual activity much more often than in a `normal´ relationship. (More)
Biss - Supreme (DS) Supreme Bliss is a very long session of sexual activity (lasting an hour or longer). Some activities will be enjoyed in a slow, gentle, and very sensual manner over a much longer time than usual. This adds a quiet intensity to the session and makes Supreme Bliss very special.
Body Kiss (DS) To massage and pleasure the whole body using the mouth, lips, and tongue.
Body Play (DS) To give a whole body massage.
Bondage
Bud (DS) Anus (bottom). Why this word was chosen.
Bud Dress (DS) To wear a small butt plug under normal clothes.
Bud Joy (DS) Anal intercourse.
Bud Kiss (DS) Using the tongue and lips to pleasure the Bud.
Bud Play (DS) Using a finger to enter and play with the Bud.
Bud Sub (DS) The practice and feeling from wearing a large Butt Plug.
Butt Plug A sex toy designed to be inserted into the anus. Usually it has a narrower part near the base so that the anal muscles hold it in place. They can be small (ie the size of a little finger) to large.
Calm-Down Cuddle (DS) A cuddle when a Princess holds (but does not play with) her Knight's hard Desire. Rather than being a sexual act, it is an acknowledgment and enjoyment of a Knight's strong desire when no sex is taking place. It is both a sometimes necessary part of Devotional Sex, and one of its unique pleasures (More)
Ceremony (DS) A Ceremony is a set of actions done by following the rules of that Ceremony. Each Ceremony is designed to enhance a specific feeling or aspect of Devotional Sex. Ceremonies can be very powerful due to their exaggerated nature. Example Ceremonies.
Challenges (DS)
Glossary & Index
(DS) indicates that the word has a special meaning within Devotional Sex.
A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z
Adore (DS command) The Knight must get into a comfortable position to give his Princess a Pleasure Kiss, but he must keep a short distance away from her Pleasure and just gaze at it. (More)
Back (DS command) The Knight must lie on his back (ie tummy up). (More)
BDSM Bondage and Discipline / Dominance and Submission / Sadism and Masochism - The name given to cover a large range of `kinky´ activities. See Chapter 14 - BDSM and Devotional Sex.
Bliss (DS) Bliss is a medium session of sexual activity (lasting about 20 to 40 minutes). Several sexual activities may be enjoyed, though sometimes there will be just one major activity. Either or both Devotees may Crest or Climax.
Blissette (DS) Blissettes are short sessions (lasting about 2 to 10 minutes) where only one sexual activity is enjoyed. Blissettes are one of the unique joys enabled by Devotional Sex, and make it easy and fun to enjoy sexual activity much more often than in a `normal´ relationship. (More)
Biss - Supreme (DS) Supreme Bliss is a very long session of sexual activity (lasting an hour or longer). Some activities will be enjoyed in a slow, gentle, and very sensual manner over a much longer time than usual. This adds a quiet intensity to the session and makes Supreme Bliss very special.
Body Kiss (DS) To massage and pleasure the whole body using the mouth, lips, and tongue.
Body Play (DS) To give a whole body massage.
Bondage
Bud (DS) Anus (bottom). Why this word was chosen.
Bud Dress (DS) To wear a small butt plug under normal clothes.
Bud Joy (DS) Anal intercourse.
Bud Kiss (DS) Using the tongue and lips to pleasure the Bud.
Bud Play (DS) Using a finger to enter and play with the Bud.
Bud Sub (DS) The practice and feeling from wearing a large Butt Plug.
Butt Plug A sex toy designed to be inserted into the anus. Usually it has a narrower part near the base so that the anal muscles hold it in place. They can be small (ie the size of a little finger) to large.
Calm-Down Cuddle (DS) A cuddle when a Princess holds (but does not play with) her Knight's hard Desire. Rather than being a sexual act, it is an acknowledgment and enjoyment of a Knight's strong desire when no sex is taking place. It is both a sometimes necessary part of Devotional Sex, and one of its unique pleasures (More)
Ceremony (DS) A Ceremony is a set of actions done by following the rules of that Ceremony. Each Ceremony is designed to enhance a specific feeling or aspect of Devotional Sex. Ceremonies can be very powerful due to their exaggerated nature. Example Ceremonies.
Challenges (DS)
Climax
(DS)
To orgasm and
lose sexual energy. As
the sexual energy is lost, a Climax is often the end of that session's
sexual activity. For a Knight
a Climax is an orgasm with ejaculation. If a Princess has an orgasm and
then feels that her sexual energy has declined enough to want to end
the sexual activity, then she has Climaxed. (Couples might prefer to
use the word Cum.) Why this word was chosen.
Climax Now (DS command) An alternative wording of the Cum Now command for when a Knight is allowed and now should Climax. (More)
Commands Commands are single words which make it easy for a Princess to make something happen.(See About the commands Basic Commands The Ritual Command Other commands)
Crest (DS) To orgasm without losing sexual energy. As sexual energy is maintained, sexual activity can continue. There can be many Crests one after the other (multiple orgasms). For a Knight a Crest is an orgasm without ejaculation. If a Princess has an orgasm and then feels that her sexual energy remains high enough to want to continue sexual activity, then she has Crested. Why this word was chosen.
Cuddle A plain cuddle is the same in Devotional Sex as in normal life. Special Devotional Sex cuddles include the Devotional Cuddle, the Calm-Down Cuddle, the Ritual Cuddle, and intercourse in the Joy Cuddle position.
Cuddle ritual (DS) A cuddle ritual is when Devotees enjoy an in-bed cuddle every morning, every bedtime, or both. (More)
Cum (DS) An alternative word to the Devotional Sex term Climax. Cum can also be used to mean the male ejaculate fluid.
Cum Now (DS command) The Knight is allowed to and should now Climax. (More)
Devotee (DS) A person who practices Devotional Sex. A female is a Devotional Princess, and a male is a Devotional Knight.
Devotee Ring (DS) A gold ring with a red garnet stone, which is worn on the little finger of the left hand. This is the public symbol of a Devotee. (More)
Devotional Cuddle (DS) Erotic resting time with the Princess acknowledging her Knight's arousal by holding and gently playing with his hard Desire. This is a special time for a Devotee couple, and may become a very common activity. (More)
Devotional Dating (DS) A new couple who are dating and who practice Devotional Sex. At this stage, as they are not yet in a Devotional Relationship, the Knight never Climaxes when with his Princess, and she does not control his Climaxes when they are not together. Activities can include Joy.
Devotional Dynamic (DS) The feeling between a couple that the Princess and Knight roles are very real. In particular, both feel the Princess's power to control activities.
Devotional Friends (DS) Friends who are not in a romantic relationship and who practice Devotional Sex to share erotic energy, pleasure, and intimacy, without ever going as far as Joy. A Knight will never Climax when with a Devotional Friend. (More)
Devotional Lovers (DS) Devotional Friends who also enjoy Joy together. The Knight will never Climax when with his Devotional Lover.
Devotional Relationship (DS) A relationship in which the couple practice Devotional Sex, and the Princess has full control over all of her Knight's ejaculations.
Devotional Sex (DS) Why Devotional
Devotional Tantra (DS)
Devotional Tao (DS)
Desire (DS) Penis Why this word was chosen.
Desire Kiss (DS) Giving oral sex to the Knight (fellatio).
Desire Play (DS) The Princess uses her hands to actively play with (masturbate) her Knight's Desire.
Dildo An object having the shape and often the appearance of an erect Desire.
Dominant
Dress (DS command) The Knight must wear underpants to bed.
Foot Kiss (DS) To massage and pleasure the foot using the mouth, lips and tongue.
Foot Play (DS) To give a foot massage.
Joy (DS) Intercourse. Why this word was chosen.
Joy Cuddle ( DS) Joy in the `spoon´ position (the Princess on her side, facing away from her Knight, with the Knight on his side facing her, and entering her from behind). Why this word was chosen.
Joy Deep (DS) Joy in the `doggy´ position (the Princess on her hands and knees, and the Knight entering her from behind). Why this word was chosen.
Joy Power (DS) Joy in the `missionary´ position (the Princess lying on her back and the Knight on top off and facing her). Why this word was chosen.
Joy Rest (DS) Joy with the Knight lying on his back, and the Princess facing him and lying (resting) on top of him. Why this word was chosen.
Joy Ride (DS) Joy with the Knight lying on his back and the Princess sitting on top of him. Why this word was chosen.
Joy Sit (DS) Joy with the Knight sitting up, and with the Princess facing him and sitting on top of him. Why this word was chosen.
Kiss (DS) To give pleasure using your mouth, lips and tongue including oral sex - hence Pleasure Kiss, Desire Kiss, Foot Kiss, Body Kiss, and Bud Kiss.
Knight (DS) A Devotional Knight is a man who follows all five points in the definition of Devotional Sex. Why this word The private symbol
Later (DS command) When a Knight suggests an activity by starting to do it, if his Princess say "Later" he should immediately stop. He is allowed to suggest that activity again later on in that session. (More)
More (DS command) When a Knight stops an activity, if his Princess says "More" he should continue with the activity until his Princess asks him to stop. (More)
Multi-Orgasmic Man The ancient Taoist technique which is clearly explained in the Multi-Orgasmic Man book by Mantak Chia and Douglas Abrams Arava where a male chooses to not ejaculate at the end of most sexual sessions, and also learns to manage his sexual energy, and to enjoy orgasms without ejaculation.
No (DS command) When a Knight suggests an activity by starting to do it, if his Princess say "No" he should immediately stop. He is not allowed to suggest that activity again later on in that session. (More)
Play (DS) To give pleasure by using your hands, including masturbation and massage - hence Pleasure Play, Desire Play, Foot Play, Body Play, and Bud Play.
Pleasure (DS) Vagina Why this word was chosen.
Pleasure Kiss (DS) Giving oral sex to the Princess (cunnilingus).
Pleasure Play (DS) The Knight uses his hands to play with (masturbate) his Princess's Pleasure.
Princess (DS) A Devotional Princess is a woman who follows all five points in the definition of Devotional Sex. Why this word
Princess Power (DS)
Private symbol of being a Knight The private symbol of being a Knight is to have his pubic hair clean-shaven. (More)
Public symbol of being a Devotee The public symbol of being a Devotee is a gold ring with a red garnet stone, which is worn on the little finger of the left hand. (More)
Quiet (DS command) The Knight must stop talking about anything to do with Devotional Sex (can be said as "be Quiet"). (More)
Red The default safe word for immediately stopping the current activity and / or dynamic. This is the emergency stop. Ignoring the safe word can be very serious.
Reveal (DS command) The Knight removes all his clothing to fully reveal himself. (More)
Ritual (DS command) Ritual is a very special command, and is part of what is represented by the Devotional Sex logo. By saying this one word and doing some simple actions, a Princess can enjoy her choice of an intimate Ritual Cuddle, a Pleasure Kiss, or some other pleasures. (More)
Ritual Cuddle (DS) A Ritual Cuddle is the first part of the Ritual command, whereby a Knight cuddles his Princess with his head on her tummy and his nose just above her sex. (More)
Rituals (DS) An activity, or series of activities, that is done the same way on a regular basis. Rituals are Devotional Sex habits. Some rituals are to reinforce the Devotee roles, and some are ways to enjoy an enhanced sensual and sexual life. Example Rituals.
Safe Words
Shared Ceremonies (DS)
Sleeping Nude ritual (DS) Sleeping nude encourages and celebrates that sexuality and sensuality is always part of life as a Devotee. It makes sex and Blissettes easier, and turns every cuddle into a sensual skin-on-skin cuddle. (More)
Small (DS Command) The Knight cuddles his Princess with his head on her chest (can be said as "be Small"). Small can also be used to describe this position. (More)
Snuggle (DS Command) The Knight must follow his Princess to the bedroom for some couple time (which might be just cuddles). (More)
Still (DS Command) The Knight must stop moving (can be said as "be Still"). (More)
Submissive
Supreme Bliss (DS) Supreme Bliss is when a Devotee couple spend an hour or longer enjoying sexual activity. Some activities will be enjoyed in a slow, gentle, and very sensual manner over a much longer time than usual. This adds a quiet intensity to the session and makes Supreme Bliss very special.
Tantra
Tantric Devotion (DS)
Tantric Sex Using Tantric techniques to reach a higher state from very long, slow intercourse. Devotional Sex does not go this far (see Devotional Tantra).
Tao
Undress (DS command) The Knight removes all clothing except he leaves his underpants on. (More)
Vanilla Sex (DS) Sexual activity which does not involve any advanced technique (ie the below average part of `normal´ sex). The term is taken from the BDSM world where it means sex without using any BDSM techniques. In Devotional Sex this meaning is expanded so that Vanilla Sex also excludes Tantric, Taoist, and any other advanced techniques. (More)
Whoa (DS) A word said by a Knight when he needs his Princess to ease up on, or stop for a short time, the current sexual activity to ensure that he does not Climax.
Yellow The default safe word for speaking out of role.
Climax Now (DS command) An alternative wording of the Cum Now command for when a Knight is allowed and now should Climax. (More)
Commands Commands are single words which make it easy for a Princess to make something happen.(See About the commands Basic Commands The Ritual Command Other commands)
Crest (DS) To orgasm without losing sexual energy. As sexual energy is maintained, sexual activity can continue. There can be many Crests one after the other (multiple orgasms). For a Knight a Crest is an orgasm without ejaculation. If a Princess has an orgasm and then feels that her sexual energy remains high enough to want to continue sexual activity, then she has Crested. Why this word was chosen.
Cuddle A plain cuddle is the same in Devotional Sex as in normal life. Special Devotional Sex cuddles include the Devotional Cuddle, the Calm-Down Cuddle, the Ritual Cuddle, and intercourse in the Joy Cuddle position.
Cuddle ritual (DS) A cuddle ritual is when Devotees enjoy an in-bed cuddle every morning, every bedtime, or both. (More)
Cum (DS) An alternative word to the Devotional Sex term Climax. Cum can also be used to mean the male ejaculate fluid.
Cum Now (DS command) The Knight is allowed to and should now Climax. (More)
Devotee (DS) A person who practices Devotional Sex. A female is a Devotional Princess, and a male is a Devotional Knight.
Devotee Ring (DS) A gold ring with a red garnet stone, which is worn on the little finger of the left hand. This is the public symbol of a Devotee. (More)
Devotional Cuddle (DS) Erotic resting time with the Princess acknowledging her Knight's arousal by holding and gently playing with his hard Desire. This is a special time for a Devotee couple, and may become a very common activity. (More)
Devotional Dating (DS) A new couple who are dating and who practice Devotional Sex. At this stage, as they are not yet in a Devotional Relationship, the Knight never Climaxes when with his Princess, and she does not control his Climaxes when they are not together. Activities can include Joy.
Devotional Dynamic (DS) The feeling between a couple that the Princess and Knight roles are very real. In particular, both feel the Princess's power to control activities.
Devotional Friends (DS) Friends who are not in a romantic relationship and who practice Devotional Sex to share erotic energy, pleasure, and intimacy, without ever going as far as Joy. A Knight will never Climax when with a Devotional Friend. (More)
Devotional Lovers (DS) Devotional Friends who also enjoy Joy together. The Knight will never Climax when with his Devotional Lover.
Devotional Relationship (DS) A relationship in which the couple practice Devotional Sex, and the Princess has full control over all of her Knight's ejaculations.
Devotional Sex (DS) Why Devotional
Devotional Tantra (DS)
Devotional Tao (DS)
Desire (DS) Penis Why this word was chosen.
Desire Kiss (DS) Giving oral sex to the Knight (fellatio).
Desire Play (DS) The Princess uses her hands to actively play with (masturbate) her Knight's Desire.
Dildo An object having the shape and often the appearance of an erect Desire.
Dominant
Dress (DS command) The Knight must wear underpants to bed.
Foot Kiss (DS) To massage and pleasure the foot using the mouth, lips and tongue.
Foot Play (DS) To give a foot massage.
Joy (DS) Intercourse. Why this word was chosen.
Joy Cuddle ( DS) Joy in the `spoon´ position (the Princess on her side, facing away from her Knight, with the Knight on his side facing her, and entering her from behind). Why this word was chosen.
Joy Deep (DS) Joy in the `doggy´ position (the Princess on her hands and knees, and the Knight entering her from behind). Why this word was chosen.
Joy Power (DS) Joy in the `missionary´ position (the Princess lying on her back and the Knight on top off and facing her). Why this word was chosen.
Joy Rest (DS) Joy with the Knight lying on his back, and the Princess facing him and lying (resting) on top of him. Why this word was chosen.
Joy Ride (DS) Joy with the Knight lying on his back and the Princess sitting on top of him. Why this word was chosen.
Joy Sit (DS) Joy with the Knight sitting up, and with the Princess facing him and sitting on top of him. Why this word was chosen.
Kiss (DS) To give pleasure using your mouth, lips and tongue including oral sex - hence Pleasure Kiss, Desire Kiss, Foot Kiss, Body Kiss, and Bud Kiss.
Knight (DS) A Devotional Knight is a man who follows all five points in the definition of Devotional Sex. Why this word The private symbol
Later (DS command) When a Knight suggests an activity by starting to do it, if his Princess say "Later" he should immediately stop. He is allowed to suggest that activity again later on in that session. (More)
More (DS command) When a Knight stops an activity, if his Princess says "More" he should continue with the activity until his Princess asks him to stop. (More)
Multi-Orgasmic Man The ancient Taoist technique which is clearly explained in the Multi-Orgasmic Man book by Mantak Chia and Douglas Abrams Arava where a male chooses to not ejaculate at the end of most sexual sessions, and also learns to manage his sexual energy, and to enjoy orgasms without ejaculation.
No (DS command) When a Knight suggests an activity by starting to do it, if his Princess say "No" he should immediately stop. He is not allowed to suggest that activity again later on in that session. (More)
Play (DS) To give pleasure by using your hands, including masturbation and massage - hence Pleasure Play, Desire Play, Foot Play, Body Play, and Bud Play.
Pleasure (DS) Vagina Why this word was chosen.
Pleasure Kiss (DS) Giving oral sex to the Princess (cunnilingus).
Pleasure Play (DS) The Knight uses his hands to play with (masturbate) his Princess's Pleasure.
Princess (DS) A Devotional Princess is a woman who follows all five points in the definition of Devotional Sex. Why this word
Princess Power (DS)
Private symbol of being a Knight The private symbol of being a Knight is to have his pubic hair clean-shaven. (More)
Public symbol of being a Devotee The public symbol of being a Devotee is a gold ring with a red garnet stone, which is worn on the little finger of the left hand. (More)
Quiet (DS command) The Knight must stop talking about anything to do with Devotional Sex (can be said as "be Quiet"). (More)
Red The default safe word for immediately stopping the current activity and / or dynamic. This is the emergency stop. Ignoring the safe word can be very serious.
Reveal (DS command) The Knight removes all his clothing to fully reveal himself. (More)
Ritual (DS command) Ritual is a very special command, and is part of what is represented by the Devotional Sex logo. By saying this one word and doing some simple actions, a Princess can enjoy her choice of an intimate Ritual Cuddle, a Pleasure Kiss, or some other pleasures. (More)
Ritual Cuddle (DS) A Ritual Cuddle is the first part of the Ritual command, whereby a Knight cuddles his Princess with his head on her tummy and his nose just above her sex. (More)
Rituals (DS) An activity, or series of activities, that is done the same way on a regular basis. Rituals are Devotional Sex habits. Some rituals are to reinforce the Devotee roles, and some are ways to enjoy an enhanced sensual and sexual life. Example Rituals.
Safe Words
Shared Ceremonies (DS)
Sleeping Nude ritual (DS) Sleeping nude encourages and celebrates that sexuality and sensuality is always part of life as a Devotee. It makes sex and Blissettes easier, and turns every cuddle into a sensual skin-on-skin cuddle. (More)
Small (DS Command) The Knight cuddles his Princess with his head on her chest (can be said as "be Small"). Small can also be used to describe this position. (More)
Snuggle (DS Command) The Knight must follow his Princess to the bedroom for some couple time (which might be just cuddles). (More)
Still (DS Command) The Knight must stop moving (can be said as "be Still"). (More)
Submissive
Supreme Bliss (DS) Supreme Bliss is when a Devotee couple spend an hour or longer enjoying sexual activity. Some activities will be enjoyed in a slow, gentle, and very sensual manner over a much longer time than usual. This adds a quiet intensity to the session and makes Supreme Bliss very special.
Tantra
Tantric Devotion (DS)
Tantric Sex Using Tantric techniques to reach a higher state from very long, slow intercourse. Devotional Sex does not go this far (see Devotional Tantra).
Tao
Undress (DS command) The Knight removes all clothing except he leaves his underpants on. (More)
Vanilla Sex (DS) Sexual activity which does not involve any advanced technique (ie the below average part of `normal´ sex). The term is taken from the BDSM world where it means sex without using any BDSM techniques. In Devotional Sex this meaning is expanded so that Vanilla Sex also excludes Tantric, Taoist, and any other advanced techniques. (More)
Whoa (DS) A word said by a Knight when he needs his Princess to ease up on, or stop for a short time, the current sexual activity to ensure that he does not Climax.
Yellow The default safe word for speaking out of role.