Below is lots of feedback from readers who are enthusiastic about Devotional Sex, and a few, at the bottom of this page, who find the concept too different or don't like it at all.

Rather than putting my favorites comments at the top, I've put the most recent feedback at the top going back in time to my oldest feedback at the end. So if you revisit this page just check the top for  any new feedback.

You can easily and anonymously send me your feedback via this survey at PollMill.
 
 
I got to know your concept thru a friend and I love it. Also love the way you made it accessible on your website and did not try to monetize it in any way. That is so great and kind (to humankind!) ...

Thank you for your generosity, to have put something you have built out there, for everyone's benefit.

    

I stumbled upon your tumblr page a couple of months ago, and to me it was one of the greatest discoveries I have ever made. It is just what I have always wished for, and could never quite describe it accurately. I do know others that are searching for the very same type of relationship dynamic, and I have shared your website.

    

I discovered Devotional Sex about a year ago. Our sex life had been waning and my husband had started experiencing Erectile Dysfunction). We're both 51.

Now (with Devotional Sex) he gets and stays hard much better than before. I have him practice Affirmation at least some of every day and I enjoy receiving Pleasure Kisses every day, sometimes lasting over an hour.

Wish Words are an amazing way to communicate and I use them often!

    

Devotional Sex has been a revelation for myself as I realize it was exactly how I want to feel and live with my lover ... Thank you for lighting our life, our romance, and helping me to build my lover temple where my Princess always awaits me.

    

We are very close after he has made me orgasm through oral sex and he is obviously through his erection devout and intensely loving afterwards. Sometimes I let him give me a further orgasm with his fingers we are so close afterwards a wonderful feel. I rarely allow him to ejaculate.

    

We were fortunate to be introduced to Devotional Sex through friends. Our "social group" now is more other couples who share the interest.

    

We find this way of life so positive we only wish everyone was doing it. It has helped our marriage in every way possible.

    

Just want to thank you for this, it's completely changed how both of us view sex. Twice daily Devotional Cuddles (wake up and before bed) have helped communication so much.

After some hesitation by the Knight on Affirmation we've embraced that and really found its benefits. Thank you so much for everything.

    

Devotional Sex has brought out much more sexual interest and adventure from my wife. She is also now very positive about sex.

    

Even though we built a successful life with many great children, my wife and I of nearly 25 years (a quarter century!) were really struggling.

I found your web site quite by accident searching for something completely different. After exploring it for over two weeks, and being reluctant to show it to my wife, because of trust issues, I finally chose to do so (reluctantly). After less than an hour reading about DevS she recommended we try a brief spell, just for fun.

A few days later we decided to give it a little longer try because of the immediate improvements in our marriage and intimate life.

Sometime later when we were talking about how long to continue for she surprised me by saying she wanted to try this dynamic for a much longer time - not just one brief session. We continued on while discussing this for several more days as a very happy Princess and Knight.

Some time later, while again talking about DevS and how long to try it for, she again totally shocked me by saying that she wanted to incorporate this lifestyle from now on! Not sure I heard her, or understood her right, I asked her what she meant and she repeated from now on ….. forever!

Now mind you, she is anything but a dominant person. And up to now not very sexual in general. But doing DevS has really been better than a second honeymoon. She now regularly initiates sexual activities, often having multiple orgasms in a session - sometimes as many as six to twelve. The turn around in our marriage and sex life is staggering. She has gone from a reluctantly willing partner to a happy eager and confident Princess. We have been fully living DevS ever since.

Thank you from both of us!

    

Devotional Sex has very much improved sex for both of us and at the same time depend our loving bond with each other.

Her friends that have been told are very interested in discussing her Devotional Sex experiences and want to hear all of the intimate details that she will share.

    

Devotional Sex is great fun for both, and helps build intimacy, love, while renewing both his and especially her passion and desire.

I wish I had learned these things when I was young. We are now living a long second honeymoon better than the first. What fun!

    

It is fun to see her have so much fun! Happy wife very happy life.

Because we are just settling into this dynamic there are still some bumps along the way, otherwise we both would probably hit extremely happy. But right now we both seem to take greater pleasure pleasing each other rather than being pleased. Does it get any better than that?

    

I could not be happier. I am 29 years old living with a hot 20 year old handsome fit guy who is  naked around the house every day with a beautiful cock and with balls full of sperm. I am so proud to show him off naked to my girlfriends who are so envious of my life.

    

We are about 1 month into this. We have been married 9 years. I (Knight) always liked the idea of chastity devices but something just didn't make sense or fit so I never brought it up. When I found this site, it was like everything I was thinking was put into a plan!

We are slowly adopting more and more, namely the terminology, but have never felt closer and more connected. In the 1 month of doing this, I have ejaculated 5 or so times. My Princess has orgasmed well over 30 times.

It turned an almost sexless marriage (although absolutely great bond and relationship) into a heated, passionate situation that just seems to be getting stronger and better! Thanks for this site!

   

Devotional Sex is the best thing that channeled our respective sensuality and sexuality with each other into something so erotic, sensual and connected that our love for each other grows stronger and more intense each day. A simple touch takes on significantly more meaning.

   

WOW! Thanks for the website. You put words to thoughts I have pondered around for many years. Desires of a relationship that neither fitted into a vanilla world or a BDSM world. How to make sexual feelings into something more sacred than a quick fix between someones legs, male or female …and still keep the interest and desire for each other alive with some teasing and fun, a close connection and lots of mutual respect.

Allow me to give you and your co-creators a big hug and many thanks for sharing your experiences.

    

It should be everyone's lifestyle because it make your relationship so much closer. My advice is that all couples should try it.


 

I could never imagine having a better relationship. This is going to be the future for all men.



 

With women becoming more and more the bread winner and modern man taking more interest in fashions, and their need for constant approval, I think Devotional Sex is what is evolving and what will become the norm in future generations. It seems once the initial trial period passes - once a Knight always a Knight.

We have told a few couples about Devotional Sex. At first there was expressions of awe and slight disapproval. However, three of the four couples are now enjoying this new life style. And, I have observed how much more the new Knights are attentive to their Princess needs. The Princess's share successes when we have lunch.


 

I was brought up to think of my sexual role as very passive. As a Princess I'm not passive, I say what I want. I love watching Stuart get himself erect for me. 'Want' means joy sex, 'waste' means masturbate for me. 'Wonder' means admire and kiss me but without ejaculation.

How many wives in the past got this gift?

 

 

Devotional sex has taken the pressure of "asking" for sex so that it is more relaxed but incredibly more passionate and connected. This also results in my Princess having more intense orgasms.

    

I felt honored when Josh told me he would only ejaculate when I said yes. It involved such restraint, it was a courtly gift!

I love it when he bends to kiss my sex, and in response just to my look. I provoke his desire, through dress and talk. I want to please him. But I am too a woman of my time and I like it that I say when he can ejaculate and where and how. His restraint fuels us and I determine the spend of what we have.


 

Since a few weeks we practice Devotional Sex at her request. She is radiating since we do it. She really is my Princess and I feel very good to be her devoted Knight.

   

Thank you so much for being so devoted to encouraging good, loving, nurturing, satisfying sex.

I didn't realize I was searching for something to explain to myself and my love what I wanted till I found your site. So empowering - so rewarding!

    

Devotional sex totally revived our sex life which is why we live it full time. It's much more romantic now as well. Intercourse is the best part. I find it much more exciting now and my wife has become multi-orgasmic.

   

We enjoy the challenges of Devotional Sex. She has not wanted intercourse and has not felt as sexual as he during this season of her life but loves the freedom that Devotional Sex gives her to be sexual however and whenever she wishes without pressure from him.

She's learning to embrace the Goddess role and he's learning to accept the challenge of being a Knight whose focus is to give her a place of safety and refuge and opportunities to be sexual on her own terms.

   

Ladies, If you've never tried "Devotional Sex" you haven't lived.

   

I have been looking for this all my life. This concept is amazing and would change many relationships for the better.

   

I really, REALLY enjoyed this. It’s such a wonderful expression of how sexual lifestyles evolve and deepen, and i just love how intimate it is .... 

Taking time, creating a space, and I like the idea that sex happens when she wants it to happen. This and the building of sexual energy and connection between partners is heavily anchored in tantra. It appeals to me very much. but it is a philosophy that requires equality and respect – and I wonder if our cultural baggage isn’t too weighted with ego, defensiveness and sexism.

However you feel about the power balance or objectification aspects of this ‘devotional sex’ I think it’s some incredibly interesting reading that will add to your lovemaking in many ways. I’ve included some links I followed down this particular rabbit hole and found them all super informative.

   

I have spent about the last two hours reading your website. I am blown away that you have created something like this. What a beautiful gift! I can feel the depth of emotion and intimacy that sharing Devotional Sex can create between a man and a woman. Your descriptions of your experience with Ada are very vivid, and you have given me a lot to think about.


And the next day she wrote:

Devotional Sex is a beautiful technique that is very empowering and healing for women. It creates exquisite closeness and intimacy between partners whether they are friends, dating, or in a relationship. It turns the traditional male / female sexual dynamic on its head. I would even dare to say that it is revolutionary in its approach to sexuality, hearkening back to certain historical periods when women and the feminine principle were truly honored and revered.
 
 

What a fantastic site - the whole concept really resonates with me. I am surprised that there aren't thousands of links to this, this should be shouted like great news!

   

When i found your site I was like "oh my god. he just summoned up everything thats in my mind and named things that i didn't name before". So thank you for giving my desire a name - Devotional Sex.

   

Another new fan of Devotional Sex.  ...  Being new to your site, I have much reading to do to get up-to-speed with all DevS offers. At this point in time, I finally see DevS as something I can talk to my (hopefully future) Princess to without her feeling like I left the planet. I really love happy women ...

   

Just stumbled on your blog and website. You are right-on-the-mark for what I've been looking for. I have much reading to do and hope to spark interest in my partner soon. Many Thanks!


 

After a very long time I've found something that sings to my soul and my soul hears it. I thought maybe I was a Sub with Dom traits but when I read about the Devotional Sex dynamic I finally' made sense' to myself. Thank you.


 

I found your website a couple of weeks ago and have not been able to stop reading. I am very close to introducing my wife to the idea of Devotional Sex but am still a little nervous. Maybe reading some of your stories would help. Thank you for all your hard work.


 

I stumbled onto the Devotional Sex website and read it for hours. Thanks for putting so much effort into it Michael!

We spent a week trying some of the concepts of DevS and it was fantastic! My Princess took to it pretty quickly, very easily telling me when she wanted things to end. Meanwhile, she usually only orgasms once per week and was now getting an orgasm almost every day ...

We also spend time morning and night in a cuddle and I do find these times have helped us grow closer.

If anyone is using Viagra you can throw it away and try DevS instead because you will be horny like never before.


 

I looked at your site yesterday and I've been reading about the Devotional Sex lifestyle. I love it!

It is a brilliant idea and I love the words that you use for things :)  You are brilliant my friend, brilliant!


 

For me Devotional Sex comes the closest to describing an ideal sexual relationship.

The real-life and fictional stories on your site are both erotic and heartwarming.

Further, I think you've done a great job picking out the words you've chosen.


 

Have just discovered your website, spent two hours browsing, and would like to thank you for having put so much time and energy into it.

I think it is potentially very user friendly, and has lots of new insights, even for more seasoned Dom/sub couples.

   

I found your site today and I'm enjoying it.

One thing I like is that it encourages a loving, caring relationship with husband and wife. Another is that it does not assume that everyone will like or enjoy the same thing, nor should they have to.

My wife and I already do some of the fun things you mentioned. We gradually started doing the Knight / Princess thing on our own.

It has been a win / win thing for added variety in our sex lives. It makes her hot for me to treat her like a Princess, and because it is so adventurous and different, it makes me hot. It can be lovingly circular.

   

Many, many thanks for creating your thoughtful Devotional Sex FetLife group.

I stumbled across it. Read all the posts. And then surrendered many hours of my evening reading your website.

It was quite intoxicating.

The very next evening that I can afford scant sleep will find me again perusing its pages.

I'm new to the Femdom journey. I've ordered a ridiculous number of books, spent countless hours on FetLife as well as other sites.... all seeking something to match my vision of dominance. Your site has come the closest to how I perceive my power.

So, my thanks. I think you have much to teach me.


 

I just wanted to say how lovely it was to discover your website today. Over the last year I've been lucky enough to have found the most wonderful relationship with a warm and loving Knight just as your website describes. I have sent him the link to your site and I know he won't be able to believe that there is someone out there that has been able to so eloquently capture the warmth and intimacy (not to mention fun) of devotion.
 
I like everything about your website. It's tone, graphics, layout. Other websites have been hopelessly inappropriate for what we have, now I have found one that fits perfectly. Thank you so much.

   

I'm very pleased to add my thanks to those of my Lady, who contacted you a few days ago to offer congratulations on your Devotional Sex website. Since she pointed me in your direction, I've visited the site so many times as it describes and approaches so closely the wonderful warm world of love we already share.
 
The trust, desire, respect and shear fun that we have so closely matches the aims you recommend others reach for. Roles in any relationship evolve, and it's uncanny that my Lady found in your site descriptions of a way of loving that we had already moved towards and developed for ourselves.
 
So once again, thanks for all your hard work and for toiling to develop such a comprehensive website, a breath of fresh air compared to all the dreadful, extreme Femdom/BDSM shockers out there. Reading your information, I keep thinking "Hey, that's my Lady and I, we do that."
 
Please, please keep up the hard work.

   

All I got to say is wow what an interesting concept and site. Long story short I have been reading this every free minute I have for the last three days.

People can easily use this to bring their relationship closer. To me it's so much more than just sex. It's intimacy in pure form.

   

Wow. This is heaven sent! I will read all there is on the subject.


 

I find the concept very interesting. Some of the ideas are very appealing to me - especially from a FemDom perspective. I find the most rewarding aspects of being a Mistress are coaxing, encouraging, training and reciprocating pleasure. Your website seems to focus on this almost exclusively.

The language is intelligent but easy to follow. I also like the look of the website.

I find the personal stories the most alluring as I can see how real people are applying this practice to their lives. In the Ada and Michael Blog I love the way they both anticipate each others needs and seem to get genuine pleasure from relaxing and pleasuring each other - not concentrating solely on receiving pleasure themselves. In my experience these are the most rewarding of relationships - mundane and BDSM alike.

After absorbing myself in your site I had a mind-blowing session with a submissive and was very impressed with how many things from Devotional Sex I could apply to my practices.

   

This is a terrific site. You have done a lot of thinking and planning. Congrats.

   

Amazing site, very interesting technique, enjoyed reading it...and it strangely attracts me. Actually, it has hit a raw nerve as my main pleasure has always been giving pleasure; not expecting in return or necessarily my satisfaction. A very rewarding site. I shall read more.

   

I loved your site. My spouse whom I've been with for many years naturally exudes Princess Power. We are not FEMDOM, but I can barely remember a time when I haven't done Pleasure Kisses prior to Joy and I'm not complaining.
 
Right back when we first met, she was adamant about stopping intercourse when she wanted. It was never tantric but she would always eject me once she was finished. Yes it frustrated me but (I know it sounds corny - it seems that I was a Knight without knowing it). I guess I am different in that way to a normal male but this became the norm, although calm-down cuddles would certainly be most welcome. Ejaculation has always been a privilege.

I don't want to babble on but I look forward to further additions that you make. Keep up the good work.

   

Great work, really good, please keep it up. I have been interested in and practicing this type of thing on and off for a number of years, now it is being formalized as a genre by your site, well done.

   

I showed your business card around at a party and it generated huge interest! I think you're on to something here. I had a good read of the website myself and to be honest with you it's made me feel a lot more secure about my own sexuality. Look forward to reading the updates : )


 
I have had a look at your website, and think it sure sounds interesting. However, I think the general (primarily) male population would not agree to the concept - at least not for more than an experiment. Perhaps if they are really in love with their Princess (or in anticipation of a more serious relationship), otherwise I find that people generally don't want to deprive themselves of what they believe is "the best" part of sex. And we all know it is VERY hard to get someone to even consider changing their mind - people are too set in their ways.


 
The story of Susan and Sam was pretty lame and I got bored quarter of the way through.

   

You push your kink on women FORCING them to receive "your devotion your way"...I call that humping my leg & trying to convince me I enjoy it. This has NOTHING to do with my desire, it has to do with how you want to be serviced to the point you push this "revolutionary dogma" on unsuspecting vanillas. If this was actually working you would be in a stable long term marriage not trolling bars & the net for women you can convince to service you all while claiming they are in charge.


   

I doubt @DevotionalSex could seem any more skeezy if it tried.

   

I did look at the website and to be honest there are so many things bad about it I don't know where to start.
 
From a layout point of view: all the colorful divider bits between paragraphs are annoying.
 
From a content point of view: All the childish terminology used is just ...... childish.  The writing style is laughable.  Perhaps it's written for people who are so boring they don't get lots of interesting sex but I won't be referring anyone I know to it because I'm sure they are having all kinds of cool sex already.