List of Mild Kinky Activities

Below is a list of mild kinky activities which may be enjoyed by more adventurous couples.

To find out how these activities can be practiced within Devotional Sex, please see
about the mild kinky activities.


 
Wearing a blindfold is an effective way of heightening the other senses (touch, sound, taste). It's most effective if the blindfold is worn for while (eg over thirty minutes).

If the Knight is blindfolded then it is fun to give him pleasures. It will also feel different for him to give her pleasures. She may enjoy sometimes having him wear a blindfolded when she has him play with himself so that he doesn't know whether or not she is watching (either in bed or during Affirmation).

She can also have a session where she wears the blindfold and he pleasures her.

 
 
Some mild bondage (ie tying him up or having him wear a restraint) can be lots of fun.
 
 
 
For some men being bound firmly to a bed and then tickled will him feeling very hers and both can enjoy him being  completely at her mercy.

   
Light to moderate spanking can be enjoyed as much for the theatrics as for the sensations.

 
 
Communication is important within Devotional Sex. One way a Princess might have her Knight tell her his thoughts and feelings is to have him keep a diary which she can read at her leisure.

Anonymously sharing with the world your adventures can be exciting and liberating. And when you write about your Devotional Sex life then it also has the benefit of educating others about the joys which will lead to more couples exploring it.

See this forum post for how to post your diary or blog in my forum.

 
 
It can be fun to take erotic photos of yourselves. As a Knight fulfills his Princess's wishes she can have him pose as she wishes whenever and wherever she wishes. For example, if totally alone out in nature she need only say "Reveal, Display", click, "Fini" and she will have a memorable photo.

Sharing some of your photos with readers of my Photo Blog can be very liberating and exciting. I'm happy to anonymously publish any Devotional Sex related reader submissions.

As I'm after real-life Devotional Sex it is fine to crop the photo so that your faces are not shown, and all body sizes and ages (above 18) are welcome.

 
 
There are many things that can be worn under his clothing that no-one else will notice but will remind him that he is her Knight. Possibilities include a male G-string, a cock strap, and Devotional Trousers.

She may have him wear the special item only those times she wishes. In this case she can give an item a special meaning by deciding that when she asks him to wear the item that this also means that when they get back home something will always happen or won't happen.

She can also set a Preference that he wears the special item whenever they are out in public together.

And finally she can have him wear something special when out and not with her eg at work.

 
 
Her having him wear panties can be because he enjoys wearing female clothing. But it's an even better fit to Devotional Sex if he isn't into cross-dressing but he enjoys doing something which feels a bit taboo and which reminds him (by the look and feel) that he is her Knight.

Having him wear panties can be fun for her because of the effect it has on him. And if she likes the look she can sometimes have him wear just panties as a variation on Affirmation.

 
 
Using her feet to play with his Desire works well to reward an Affirmed Knight as he gives her a foot massage.

When starting Devotional Sex a Princess can play with him using her feet a few times before she ever plays with him using her hands.

 
 
Using sex toys can be used just for fun, as a powerful tease to a Knight, or when a Princess wants to enjoy penetration and her Knight is not fully hard.

As Devotional Friends never go as far as Joy, a penetration toy can be used if she wants to enjoy some penetration.

 
 
Normal Devotional Sex restricts her control to only the sensual and sexual parts of a couple's life.

If both are wiling he can give her control over other areas of their life. This start to move the dynamic towards being a Female Led Relationship.


 
Rather than the Princess deciding what will happen, a list is created and chance determines which action will happen.

The Princess can ask her Knight to create the list, do it all herself, or she uses his suggestions as a starting point for her list. Which item happens is then determined by rolling a dice or some other random method.

Chance can be made more exciting by including one item which is more challenging or extreme than usual.


 
Knight Power is when a Princess sets a period of time during which she will obey her Knight's instructions. She can set things that must not happen (eg he may not Climax) and things that must happen (eg he must tie her to the bed).

Reversing the power dynamic enables a Princess to enjoy feeling submissive, her Knight to enjoy feeling dominant, or it can be done just for a change.

 
 
Her fingering his Bud is a very effective way for a her to give extra stimulation to her Knight while she is giving him some Desire Play or a Desire Kiss.

 
 
Having a Knight sometimes wear a butt plug during other activities can significantly alter how the Knight feels.

A small plug (eg little finger sized) can be worn for a fairly long time - including during Affirmation or when going out together (she may sometimes forget he is wearing it but he won't forget!).

A larger plug is great for wearing during activity. Even having him wear it for nothing more than a long Devotional Cuddle creates new feelings during the cuddle.

 
 
Some Devotional couples may find it a very powerful experience for the Princess to sometimes use a strap-on dildo to give her Knight anal sex.

Though most porn shows this has her being strongly dominant and the act being fairly brutal, within Devotional Sex it is likely to be done in a much slower and more sensual manner.

 
 
A Princess who enjoys receiving anal sex can enjoy this activity as part of Devotional Sex.

As she has control she can ensure that this is done in a way which she finds pleasurable. And as she decides when and how it will happen, her receiving anal sex need not be a submissive act.

 
 
Using his mouth to pleasure her feet is very sensual and intimate to receive, and can be strangely arousing for the Knight.

Though this is great for men with a foot fetish, a Knight who doesn't have this fetish can still enjoy worshiping her feet when he has high energy and kissing her feet is the only way he can express his desire and hunger for his Princess.

 
 
A body massage becomes much more sensual and intimate when the hands are replaced by the mouth, and with Devotional Sex this is very likely to conclude with a long Pleasure Kiss.

She lets him know if she wants just a quick body kiss or if he has to take his time (eg 15 or 30 minutes) before he reaches her Pleasure.

 
 
Him using his tongue to pleasure her Bud can be very special and powerful for couples who enjoy this.

 
 
For a few men eating their own cum is a powerful act that generates strong submissive feelings and is thus a good way of proving they are devoted to their Princess.

Men who still feel submissive just after they ejaculate may be willing (or keen) to prove their devotion this way immediately after they have ejaculated.

But many men who are excited by the idea of eating their own cum while they are aroused, instantly change their mind as soon as they ejaculate. The solution to this dilemma is for the him to eat his own cum while he is still aroused. This section shows how this can be arranged.

 
I welcome any comments, question, and discussion of any of the above. You are also welcome to share with others what works for you - this will be fun to read and it may inspire others to try it themselves.

The section of the forum which deals with these mild kinks is HERE.

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