Devotional Sex

 
Devotional Sex Surveys
 

Results of the What Happens in Bed? Survey -
the huge variation in what happens:


The What Happens in Bed? survey is particularly useful in showing the huge variation in what real-life couples do when living Devotional Sex.

This page presents some of the individual responses to the survey which illustrate this huge variation.

A Knight is usually eager to engage in some activity every session. But as he has given her control she decides what happens - from full sex to nothing at all. Her challenge is to manage this so that  she and her Knight are both very happy - so each couple will do what works best for them as a couple.

The huge variation in what happens shows that each couple has their own path to mutual happiness.



Some are close to average:

Before looking at the variation, there are some couples who are fairly close to the average.

For example:
 

 
One young couple (him 18 - 27) have a week of mornings and bedtimes sessions of:

Joy and maybe other activities,
3  of mainly him giving her a Pleasure Kiss,
1  of him using his hand on her Pleasure,
1  of active Desire Play,
Devotional Cuddles,
2  just a cuddle, and
2  nothing at all.
  

 
and one slightly older couple (him 38 - 47) each week have:

2  Joy and maybe other activities,
5  of mainly him giving her a Pleasure Kiss,
2  of him using his hand on her Pleasure,
1  of active Desire Play,
2  Devotional Cuddles, and
2  just a cuddle.



The huge variation:

But the average behavior isn't typical because all couples do a bit more or a bit less than average of some activities, and some couples do much more than most or none at all of some activities.

So, strange as it may seem, every couple do some types of session more often than most other couples.
Thus it is impossible for any couple to be totally normal! If you want to know why, click (More)
 


 
Within the first 25 valid responses to this survey the following variations were found:
 
One couple have Joy 8 times out of their 14 sessions. Their 14 sessions are:

8  Joy and maybe other activities,
2  of mainly him giving her a Pleasure Kiss,
1  of him using his hand on her Pleasure,
2  Devotional Cuddles and
1  just a cuddle.
  

 
One couple have 8 sessions each week where the main activity is him giving her a Pleasure Kiss:

1   Joy and maybe other activities,
8  of mainly him giving her a Pleasure Kiss,
2  of mainly her giving him a Desire Kiss,
2  of mainly active Desire Play, and
1  session of just a Devotional Cuddle.
 

 
An older couple (him over 58) have 9 sessions each week of mainly Pleasure Kissing and do not have any Joy:

0  Joy and maybe other activities,
9  of mainly him giving her a Pleasure Kiss,
1  of mainly her giving him a Desire Kiss,
3  of mainly her actively playing with his Desire, and
1  just a cuddle.
   

 
Another couple (him 48-57) also don't have Joy, and they don't have Pleasure Kisses either, doing:

0  Joy and maybe other activities,
0  of mainly him giving her a Pleasure Kiss,
3  of mainly Pleasure Play,
2  of mainly active Desire Play,
4  Devotional Cuddles, and
5  just a cuddle.

 
Intercourse is how most think of sex, and Pleasure Kisses are the most common sexual activity within Devotional Sex. This couple do neither of these activities.

Even so, Devotional Sex has enabled them to enjoy a life with 5 sessions a week of sexual activity and lots of erotic intimacy!



 
Another couple (38-47) also has a Princess who doesn't enjoy receiving oral sex. She only wants Joy once a week, but she enjoys watching him play with himself. They have:

1  Joy and maybe other activities,
0  of mainly him giving her a Pleasure Kiss,
1  of mainly Pleasure Play,
1 of mainly active Desire Play,
9 of her having him actively play with himself, and
2  Devotional Cuddles.
 
So despite having very little sex in the conventional sense (intercourse) this couple are enjoying a very active sex life both in bed (with Devotional Cuddles) and with Affirmation.



 
One couple (him 28-37) have have more than average of both Joy and Pleasure Kiss sessions:

4  Joy and maybe other activities,
7  of mainly him giving her a Pleasure Kiss, and
3  Devotional Cuddles.
 

 
A younger couple (him 18-27) have have more than average of both Pleasure Kiss and Active Desire Play sessions:

2  Joy and maybe other activities,
7  of mainly him giving her a Pleasure Kiss, and
5  of mainly Active Desire Play.
 
So this young couple enjoy some active sexual activity every wakeup and bedtime!


 
An older couple (him over 58) have lot of Pleasure Play and something sexual happens every session. They have:

1  Joy and maybe other activities,
4  of mainly giving her a Pleasure Kiss, and
9  of mainly Pleasure Play.
  

 
Though Pleasure Kisses are the most common sexual activity for most Devotee couples, a few Princesses don't like his mouth and prefer his hand. One couple (him 28-37) have:

4  Joy and maybe other activities,
0  of mainly giving her a Pleasure Kiss,
3  of mainly Pleasure Play,
2  of mainly active Desire Play,
3  Devotional Cuddle, and
2  just a cuddle.
  

 
Another couple (him 38-47) have lots of Devotional Cuddles:

1  Joy and maybe other activities,
8  Devotional Cuddles,
3  just a cuddle, and
2  nothing happens.
  

 
When I was developing the ideas of what would become Devotional Sex my partner didn't feel relaxed with Devotional Cuddles, so what we did on average each week was:

3  Joy and maybe other activities,
1  of mainly me giving her a Pleasure Kiss,
1  of mainly her giving me a Desire Kiss,
2  Devotional Cuddles, and
7  just a cuddle.
  

 
With one couple the Princess is not a morning person and so nothing happens each morning - but something happens each evening:

1  Joy and maybe other activities,
3  of mainly him giving her a Pleasure Kiss,
2  Devotional Cuddles,
1  just a cuddle, and
7  nothing at all.
  

 
Apart from the last couple, what all the above have in common is that almost every morning and bedtime there is an erotic connection.

How much sexual activity and what activities happen varies widely - it's the erotic connection as a normal part of the Devotee's mornings and bedtimes that is the constant.
 

 
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