Comparing Before and After Devotional Sex

With only 52 responses so far it is too early to do a detailed analysis, but I think these early results are good enough to get the big picture. And the big picture shows significant changes -

• more sessions of sexual activity each week,
• the longest session of sex each week lasting for much longer, and
• a huge increase in cuddling.

Read on for the full story.


The following results are the MEDIAN response for each question.


 
 
Before doing Devotional Sex the median couple were having 2.0 sessions of sex each week and their longest session of the week (ie from the beginning of foreplay to the end of activities) lasted about 15 minutes.

With Devotional Sex the median is having 4.5 sessions of sexual activity a week and the longest session lasting about 52 minutes.

So Devotional Sex has led to 2.3 times as many sessions and their longest session lasting 3.5 times as long!

 
 
Before doing Devotional Sex the median couple had intercourse in 95% of their sessions.

A very big change arising from Devotional Sex is that the median couple now only have intercourse in 25% of their sessions.

But as they now have more sessions of sexual activity each week when doing Devotional Sex, the median is that intercourse happens about as often as before.

With 52% of couples their intercourse slowed down a bit to become more connected and sensual. With 33% of couples the way they had intercourse stayed the same, and 15% become more active.

Before Devotional Sex 72% of couples spent more time having intercourse than they spent doing any other sexual activity.

When doing Devotional Sex only 18% have intercourse being the activity they spend the most time doing.

 
 
Before Devotional Sex only 3% had Pleasure Kisses being the activity they spent the most time doing. 26% had it as the activity they spent the second most amount of time doing.

When doing Devotional Sex 55% spend more time enjoying Pleasure Kisses than they do on any other activity. (And 18% spend the most time doing Pleasure Play.)

 
 
Before Devotional Sex when a couple went to bed or woke up together and this didn't include any sexual activity, 56% never or rarely cuddled, and 20% would cuddle about half the time.

When doing Devotional Sex 52% of couples have a Devotional Cuddle most or all of the time they don't have any sexual activity, and 27% have a Devotional Cuddle about half the time.

And when doing Devotional Sex many of the wake ups and bedtimes when there isn't sexual activity and there isn't a Devotional Cuddle are likely to be just a cuddle rather than nothing at all.


As most sessions of sexual activity end with a Devotional Cuddle, and there are lots of just a Devotional Cuddle and just a cuddle, Devotional Sex leads to a huge amount of cuddling!

Though the increase in sexual activity listed above is an obvious attraction of Devotional Sex, it is the many cuddles which leads to the increase in intimacy and connection and thus a better relationship, and for most this is one of the key benefits of Devotional Sex.

 
 
Before Devotional Sex the median man had about half his ejaculations with his partner and half were solo masturbation.

When doing Devotional Sex he commits to only ever ejaculating when with his Princess and when she decides. Not only does he miss out on solo ejaculations but as her Knight he will ejaculate less often when with his Princess.

His energy from so much sexual activity and fewer ejaculations lead to lots of time when he is aroused. The median Knight spends about 5 hours a week erect when he is with his Princess. This time is spent with a mix of mainly sexual activity, Devotional Cuddles and him being aroused during Affirmation.

He also thinks about sex very often when alone, and the median Knight is erect for about 3.5 hours a week while alone. (So keeping his commitment to never ejaculate when alone is a real challenge!)

So the median Knight is erect for about 8 hours a week.

Though half of those who responded are erect for this amount per week or less, remember that half are erect for this amount or longer!

This survey doesn't ask about his time erect per week before doing Devotional Sex, but for most men I'm confident that them doing Devotional Sex had lead to a big increase in erection time per week compared with before.

 
 
With her Knight feeling erotic energy most of the time, a phone call or message from his Princess can be enough to get him hard.

The median Knight gets hard from a phone call or message from his Princess about twice a week.

She can also enjoy his arousal when she is with him with Affirmation, and the median couple do this 3.5 times a week.

 
 
There are a few questions in the survey which are not yet reported. This will be done when I get more responses.

Once I get more responses I'll also write up the distribution of the responses so the huge variation around the median results can be seen.

To get a feel from this variation have a look at the individual responses which are all listed in my forum.


 
You can discuss and ask questions about the results of this survey in this topic on my forum.