Last updated: 9 September 2016
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Chapter 1: Introduction
Devotional Sex is a new sexual technique and lifestyle for loving couples.
Those who practice Devotional Sex gain pleasure from an enhanced sexual and sensual life, with erotic energy becoming a constant positive influence within their relationship. Though both passion and sexual activity increases, for most the main benefit is increased intimacy and connection.
Devotional Sex creates a distinctive dynamic, experience and lifestyle which makes it different from all other practices and techniques. The components which make up Devotional Sex are not new, but the novel combination is.
It is so new that there are no other books or websites on Devotional Sex.
For those enjoying a great sex life Devotional Sex can make it even better.
For those in a long-term relationship which has become a bit dull or routine and is perhaps lacking passion and intimacy Devotional Sex will create a new energy and excitement which will increase and then maintain intimacy and passion. Not only does this enhance your sex life, but the increased intimacy will improve your whole relationship.
Devotional Sex also enables couples with some sexual problems to either overcome the problem or to enjoy a wonderful sex life despite the problem.
"If anyone is using Viagra you can throw it away and try Devotional Sex instead
because you will be horny like never before." (Feedback from Steve.)
because you will be horny like never before." (Feedback from Steve.)
The greatest benefits arise when a couple decide to live Devotional Sex. For many the dynamic becomes a very powerful bond between them that is an important part of their relationship.
For beginners, and those who don't want to go as far as living Devotional Sex, short spells of Devotional Sex enable some higher energy exploration and fun. You might decide to enjoy a spell often or it might be just every once in a while.
"I didn't realize I was searching for something to explain
to myself and my love what I wanted till I found your site.
So empowering - so rewarding!." (Feedback from New Zealand.)
to myself and my love what I wanted till I found your site.
So empowering - so rewarding!." (Feedback from New Zealand.)
Devotional Sex is also great to use when starting a new sexual relationship. It enables and encourages slow exploration. Spending time together sharing erotic energy without rushing to go the `whole way´ builds trust and intimacy. It is also very exciting and lots of fun.
For those who are not in a relationship or dating, Devotional Sex can be used to enjoy sharing some intimacy, sensuality, and erotic fun with a friend without ever going `all the way´.
Modern society encourages us to spend our time either making or spending money. No-one makes money while you spend time enjoying and enhancing your intimate life. This is one reason why life-enhancing techniques such as Devotional Sex do not get much publicity.
For me the time and energy I spend living Devotional Sex is a very good investment. Without earning or spending money, my life has become far richer.
Learning and practicing Devotional Sex takes some time and commitment. If you think that Devotional Sex might be right for you and your partner, I encourage you to follow through and make it happen.
This site includes many ways of increasing intimacy and enhancing erotic pleasures. If you don't want to go as far as Devotional Sex, I encourage you to explore this site to find which bits might work for you and your partner, and then to devote some time to putting them into practice.
If your reading of this site leads to an improvement in your sex life, my time writing this site will have been well spent.
Devotional Sex was developed by the author of this site during a ten-year relationship. After this relationship ended I enjoyed using Devotional Sex in all my dating and continued practicing Devotional Sex whenever my dating led to a short or long-term relationship.
This site benefits from my nineteen years of practical experience of living Devotional Sex and from many women, including all my partners, who have shared their thoughts and experience of Devotional Sex with me.
The writing "eloquently captures the warmth and intimacy (not to mention fun) of devotion".
(Feedback from a female reader.)
(Feedback from a female reader.)
Devotional Sex is attracting interest all around the world - this site has been viewed in over 17,987 cities and towns within 211 countries / territories.
But Devotional Sex is still so new that most people have not yet heard of it, and so far in 2016 this page has only been viewed by the number of people shown by the counter.
So congratulations - you are an early explorer of Devotional Sex!
Adventurous couples will find this site to be full of new ideas. Some ideas will resonate with a strong “That might be fun!” Devotional Sex provides a great basis for some exciting experimentation!
No-one will like every idea. As everything within Devotional Sex is fully consensual all you need to do is withhold your consent and that idea will never happen. So please ignore the ideas you don't like (your trash might be someone else's treasure) and I hope you find some treasure.
Trying Devotional Sex requires plenty of open and honest two-way communication. In fact one of the benefits of exploring Devotional Sex with your partner is the improved communication. So even if you stop exploring Devotional Sex and go back to 'normal' sex the better communication is likely to lead to better 'normal' sex.
Opening Story
The alarm rings. Susan and Sam are woken up for a normal working day.
Since starting to practice Devotional Sex they have been setting the alarm ten minutes early. This gives them a short amount of `couple time´ each weekday morning before getting out of bed.
Still half asleep they roll towards each other and start to cuddle. (Click here to read more)
Since starting to practice Devotional Sex they have been setting the alarm ten minutes early. This gives them a short amount of `couple time´ each weekday morning before getting out of bed.
Still half asleep they roll towards each other and start to cuddle. (Click here to read more)
What is Devotional Sex?
A new One Page Summary is here.
The outline gives a summary of how the three ingredients combine to create Devotional Sex, how this creates something new, and what pleasures await those who explore this. (More)
I recommend that you read this before exploring the rest of this website.
More about Devotional Sex
- Comparing Devotional Sex with other techniques,
- Why the terms Devotional, Princess and Knight were chosen,
- New words for describing body parts and sexual activities (eg Pleasure, Desire, Crest, Climax),
- Why Devotional Sex is a lifestyle,
- Common concerns readers may have about Devotional Sex,
- and much more.
I recommend that all new readers explore this section before moving on to the other chapters. (More)
The Devotional Sex Forum, Photo Blog, and FetLife Group
Exploring this website
This section looks at how this site is organized, provides some advice on how to best read these pages, and notes that some of this site is still under construction. (More)
Comments, questions and discussion
Each chapter has its own section on the forum, and the section for discussing this chapter is here.
What to look at next
A good way to proceed, after first reading the Outline and More about Devotional Sex in this chapter, is to next look at just the main page for each chapter. This will provide a great overview of what is included on the site and where it is located.
Remember that the Site Map lists all the chapters, and each chapter's Chapter Map list every section within that chapter. So most pages are only two clicks away.
If you are looking at this site because your partner (or date or friend) already knows about Devotional Sex and would like to try it with you, a special introductory page has been written for you. Click here if you are female, or here if you are male.
If you have an interest in FemDom, Female-Led Relationships, BDSM or Ejaculation Denial, you can click the link to find out how Devotional Sex relates to that topic. But before you do so, I recommend that you first read the Outline and the Opening Story, as these pages show that though Devotional Sex has a taste or your interest, Devotional Sex is primarily focused on sex and intimacy.
The main page of each chapter has a link to the next chapter at the bottom of the page. And as this is the end of Chapter 1, the link to Chapter 2 follows ...
I hope you enjoy reading this site. And I hope this leads to your exploring
the pleasures, intimacy and fun of Devotional Sex first hand.
Happy exploring!
the pleasures, intimacy and fun of Devotional Sex first hand.
Happy exploring!