by Scott » Mon Mar 27, 2023 12:05 am
Chapter 7 - Sarah and Will talk to Kali about Devotional Sex
I open the door and welcome Kali into our home. I'm really glad that she has come to hear about Devotional Sex and that Will is willing for us to talk to her and Adam about things. Some men would be very reluctant to have others know they only climax when their partner wishes.
“Good afternoon. Come on in, Will's just back from a run so he's having a shower.”
“Thanks for the invitation. I'm looking forward to finding out how to make things better with Adam.”
“We can't promise this will work for you, but I think it is definitely worth a shot. Let's grab some coffee.”
I lead Kali through to the kitchen and make coffee for all of us. I hand one to Kali, pick up mine and we go through to the lounge.
“I take it nothing's changed.”
“No, he's still a jerk.”
“Well, OK.”
“I've been called worse things!” Will enters the lounge, “Do I get a coffee?”
“Yes, I left it in the kitchen.”
“Thanks princess.”
He returns a moment later with his coffee and sits down.
“So.” I say, not sure where to start. “Will and I live Devotional Sex. This means we are devoted to one another. It um... is a way of... we do sex... sensual things, differently.”
I suddenly feel really embarrassed and don't know how to speak. I look to Will for help but he seems to be enjoying my distress.
“I guess talking about this is harder than we thought it would be.” Will comes to my rescue. He turns to Kali. “This conversation will put both Sarah and I in a vulnerable position, that you will know something private about us, and we can't ever take that knowledge back from you.”
Kali appears to ponder this. “I don’t know what this Devotional Sex is about, but I’m pretty desperate. If you think this will help me, help Adam and I, then I want to know. It seems to work for you two.”
“You can’t tell anyone else.” I say, “Other than Adam. Please. We need you to agree to keep this private.”
“OK.” Kali agrees. “But if this is so good, why not tell everyone?”
“Because it is very intimate and personal. We don’t want people discussing our sex life.” Will reinforces our need for privacy.
“No. I guess that’s not something you’d want talked about. I still don’t know what it is.”
“Why don't we start with the guy?” Will suggests. I nod, it's as good a place to start as anywhere.
“Men are good at wanting to have sex, we generally don't understand or want to know about messy emotions, they are just too much work. Our dicks are strong driving forces, play with it, suck it, fuck, make it cum. Don't hang around, get on with it, put your foot on the gas so we can get to the point of all this and cum.”
“You've met Adam then.” Kali says with a hint of anger.
“Yes, and me, and most men in this world. Don't label Adam as some freak, label the whole of men if you like, but hey, that's men.”
“But not you?”
“Not so much now. Although in many ways that's still me. It's this drive that Devotional Sex utilizes. There are four things the knight commits to.”
“The knight?” Kali asks.
“A man who does Devotional Sex is called a knight. The reason is to symbolise that he is a bit like a medieval knight, constantly on a quest to please his princess - a woman who does Devotional Sex.” I explain.
“Exactly.” Will agrees. “As Sarah’s knight I want to win her favour, a bit like a couple when they first start dating, he wants to be with her, to please her, to do whatever she wants because of the chase to win her. So we exploit that idea of seeking her favour.”
“How?”
“That's the first commitment for a knight, to have far fewer ejaculations than before and for his princess to decide when they are.”
“Well, thank you for telling me about Devotional Sex, but that's never going to work for us.” Kali is clearly frustrated.
“Please wait, there's more.” I say before she decides to leaves.
“No. You're right. Adam won't go for that, few men would. I wouldn't.” Will says.
Kali looks at him, confused. “But...”
“That's the first bit, the bit that is most challenging, yes, the key to Devotional Sex, but not everything. I think you should hear the rest before you decide whether it might work for you.”
Kali relaxes a little.
“I will warn you that there are more challenges for Adam to face if he should become a knight. He has to take responsibility for his erotic energy levels, it's not about pestering you for sex because he hasn't cum.”
“This isn't getting better.”
“Well then, let's make it even worse. A knight fulfills all of his princess’ wishes, in other words he does what you want, unless it's something he really, truly objects to.”
It’s obvious Kali is becoming less and less convinced we have a solution.
“His fourth commitment is to openly and honestly communicate with his princess. He's got to tell you how things are going with Devotional Sex, how he feels.”
“That just about closes the lid on this little concept.” Kali announces. “I don't think there's any point in me even starting a conversation with Adam about this. I thought, I hoped, that maybe, just maybe you had something that could help us. Obviously I was wrong.”
“But... but it works. It's made us so much stronger, so much happier. You said it yourself.” I'm starting to plead with Kali.
“Well I guess Will is a much better man than Adam, or perhaps less so. I don't know. I can't get Adam to tell me about his day at work, let alone how he feels and not getting to fuck... well...”
“Who said anything about not getting to fuck?” I shoot back. “Sorry. Will is far more of a man I want to be with now than he ever was before.”
An awkward silence descends.
“Let me ask you a couple of questions.” Will breaks the silence. “Is there more to sex than fucking?”
“I guess so.”
“I guess so? Touching, caressing, kissing, licking, sucking, stroking. Any of those sexual?”
“Yes. But there not... Adam thinks of one thing, fucking and cuming.”
“So we need to help him see a much bigger picture. Already we're at two things - fucking AND cuming!”
“Would Adam like more sex?”
“Obviously”
“I get more sex this way. How do you think he'd respond if in the morning you said to him tonight we're going to have sex?”
“He'd be home early and I'd better be ready.”
“He'd also be thinking about having sex all day long. He'd be eager to get home, he wouldn't want anything to get in the way of you having sex, he's on a promise.”
Kali slowly nods.
“A big bonus for guys who do Devotional Sex is that they spend lots of their time like that, in that eager anticipation mode.”
“I don't want to promise him sex every night.”
“A princess never promises her knight anything.” I join in.
“But... Will just said...”
“You know Will might be lucky tonight when we go to bed and we might have some sex or we might not. Will never knows so there's always the possibility that sex will happen, he's almost always living with extra erotic energy.”
The smile on Will’s face tells me I’m right. I’m thinking he will be lucky tonight.
“Let's talk about the commitments of the princess. Firstly she makes sure that her sexual and sensual life is enhanced. This is about doing what makes her feel good, what she enjoys whether that's a cuddle or fast and furious.” I say.
“That's the he's got to do what I want one, right?”
“Yeah, sort of. But it's also about recognising what turns you on, what satisfies you, what you like, not just doing what you've always done.” I think about how Will is always eager to please me. “It's too easy to get sucked into what everyone assumes is the norm, bit of foreplay, intercourse, he cums, she might cum, goodnight.”
“It's also about the princess deciding that nothing will happen at that time.” Will says, “She commits to enhancing his sexual and intimate life so that he is equally happy. In other words this isn't just about her pleasure and happiness, but if she doesn't help to keep him happy then he will stop being her knight.”
“That sounds contradictory.” Kali says.
“Could be, but isn't often, as knights get used to things they find different things please them. Sometimes it's allowing Will to do something he'd like such as giving me oral sex.” Kali seems intrigued by this. “Sometimes the princess will do something just to please her knight. It takes time and practice to fulfil all the commitments for both knight and princess.”
“A princess will always respect his arousal and try to use this to benefit their relationship. I love that I often have an erection when we're in bed together, Sarah enjoys this, it tells her that I desire her, I would love something to happen, but it isn't pressure for something to happen. There is something magical when all that happens is she holds me, I can feel her touch, she knows I'm hard, that I desire her and I know she knows.”
“Sounds frustrating. Adam would be pissed if all I did was hold him.”
“You'd be surprised how powerful a devotional cuddle can be.” Will says, Kali doesn't look convinced.
“The final commitment for a princess is to not have him ejaculate most sessions. This somewhat mirrors his first commitment, since he has committed to not ejaculating as often she is simply honouring his commitment by deciding when he does ejaculate.” I say.
“Well. I can't see Adam taking to this.”
“I took quite a lot of convincing.” I think back to the many conversations Will and I had.
“Yes but if he doesn't cum, it doesn't count.”
“That is what a lot of people believe, doesn't matter if she doesn't cum though does it?” Will says.
“Are you happy with what you've got now?” I ask.
Kali shakes her head sadly.
We talk on through the afternoon and into the evening concluding that maybe Devotional Sex could be a way forward for Kali and Adam.