Devotional Companions (taking DevS for singles further)

[Devotional Sex]

Yesterday I decided to add the option of Devotional Companions for singles who have a well established Devotional Friendship and wish to take things further.

With a Devotional Friendship he commits to fulfill her sensual and sexual wishes (within what he is willing to do) whenever they are together. He also commits to never ejaculating when with her and that things will never go as far as Joy (intercourse). This opens up a new world for her to explore which is very different from other types of casual sex.

Devotional Companions takes things further towards what happens in a Devotional Relationship. If she wishes she can now include Joy in their activities, and if she wishes she can now occasionally have her Knight ejaculate when with her. The sexual bond between them is also made more powerful, especially for him, as to become her Companion he has to give her some control over his ejaculations when they are not together.

To give the Princess flexibility and to ensure that the extra control remains fun for her, she decides how the extra control will work.

At the least this could be her setting how many days charge she wishes her Knight to have when the meet, and setting how many days he must refrain from ejaculating after their encounter. This, for her, can be 'set and forget'.

At the most she may enjoy taking full control and, like with a Devotional Relationship, he commits to only ever ejaculate when she decides. With a Companion many, most, or even all of his ejaculations may happen when he is alone.

Of course they only become Devotional Companions if both agree to the conditions. So there may be some negotiation.

So a Devotional Companionship creates a much stronger sexual bond between the Princess and her Knight. The dynamic and the activities are likely to be different from what happens in a Devotional Relationship as Companions are not in a romantic relationship.

It will be fun to write about the many ways a Princess can enjoy life with a Devotional Companion. That's to come.

This post is just to introduce this new concept, and to seek feedback, comments, and questions.

Note that this topic is in the part of the forum which can be read by anyone. See HERE for how you can reply to this post.

[Devotional Sex]

In the Devotional Sex group on Reddit (reddit.com/devotionalsex) a poster replied:

I wish I knew about this when I was dating and in my 20's. I can easily think of 4 or 5 women that would probably have enjoyed this exact type of exploratory relationship with me.

I can imagine that some women would like to take Devotional Friends a bit further and have Joy (intercourse) sometimes. And if she has been with a Devotional Friend for a while, then one day she might like to have him ejaculate when with her.

What is unknown is how many women who have him become a Devotional Companion wish to take some active control over his ejaculations (and perhaps even his playing with himself).

My guess is that most will just decide on the 'set and forget', and they agree that as her Companion that he has to hold on for X days after time with her.

A bit later another Reddit response was:

I'm with the comment above. I wish that I had known about DevS in those days, and I'm thinking of two women specifically who would have loved this exploration with me. I would have loved it too.

I also very much wish I knew about DevS when I was younger. It also makes me wonder what would have happened back then.

These days I think Devotional Friends and Devotional Companions would appeal to two groups of women.

The first are those who are having sex outside of a relationship, but would prefer the activities and dynamic of DevS. Because this Devotional Sex is outside of a relationship it is non-exclusive. This enables both to look for a relationship if they wish. But it also enables a women who enjoys having a Devotional Friend/Companion to also have conventional casual sex with others if she wishes.

The other group are women who have found that dating outside of a relationship is sex without any connection and intimacy, and that many men feel that with sex outside of a relationship they can fulfill their porn fantasies. They also fear that casual dating can lead to sexual assault or rape. Given this they find it easier and safer to not have any sexual activity with a man.

Some of these women would love to be able to have a Devotional Friend/Companion as here they can enjoy the sexual and sensual pleasures they wish, and feel safe that things will never go further than they wish. Any man who wants to date just for his pleasure of fulfilling his porn fantasies would never accept giving her control and never ejaculating. So her saying that she will only have fun with a man who agrees to be her Knight acts as a very effective filter.

So when thinking back on women you knew in the past, there may be a few others who would have surprised and delighted you by being interested.