His feelings about giving her oral sex

[Devotional Sex]

With conventional sex the activity which most couples spend the most time doing is intercourse.

With Devotional Sex the Princess decides what activities will happen. What happens with most is that Joy (intercourse) no longer happens most sessions, and the activity which the couple spend the most time doing is Pleasure Kissing (him giving her oral sex). Of course not all Devotee couples do this - some spend longer on another activity. But even with most of these couples, Pleasure Kissing can be another common activity.

Does this mean that DevS is only suitable for men who really like giving her oral sex? This post looks at the data from my surveys to find out.

Analysing my survey data for men who now live DevS finds that before starting DevS about 7% of men were 'obsessed' and 17% 'really liked' giving oral. For this 24% of men the idea of increasing the amount of Pleasure Kissing will be attractive. But what about the majority of men who are not as keen?

37% said that they just 'liked' giving oral and 39% who said it was just 'ok' (which for some can be a polite way of saying 'I would rather not'). How can these men be equally happy practicing DevS when the likely major activity is something which he isn't that keen on doing?

Part of the magic of DevS is that it changes how both think and feel about sexual activities. And one of the biggest changes is how the feels about giving Pleasure Kissing. Of course this change happens slowly as the couple start to explore DevS together. So how do men feel about Pleasure Kissing once things have settled?

Once DevS has settled the number of men who are 'obsessed' with giving her a Pleasure Kiss jumps to 46%, and 42% now say that they 'really like' doing it. So 88% of Knights now really like or are obsessed. 64% of men have gone from the just ok or less to join the men who started DevS being really keen.

Given that her Knight now enjoys giving her Pleasure Kisses so much it is easy for a Princess to have him give her this pleasure whenever she wishes and for as long as she wishes. But is this too much or him?

There are a few who say that they would prefer Pleasure Kissing to happen less often, but 25% wish it would happen much more often than it does, and 23% wish it would happen a bit more often. 40% say that the amount is about right.

Most of the Knights who say the amount is about right are not less keen on Pleasure Kissing, but have partners who have it happen so often that more would be too much for both him and her.

So practicing DevS changes how he feels about giving Pleasure Kisses to such an extent that Pleasure Kissing is a mutual pleasure.

When a Devotee couple go to bed at night or wake up in the morning, and she reaches down to take hold of his erection to give him a Devotional Cuddle, she knows that nothing further will happen unless she wishes. If she feels like pleasing him her options for how to do this now includes her saying "Pleasure" and her allowing him to kiss her.

If it is her idea to try DevS then it is understandable that he will have some concerns. Clearly having far fewer ejaculations and giving her control is very different from before and it can be hard to see how this could also be good for him. With Pleasure Kissing the scary thing isn't that he will end up doing what he doesn't enjoy, but that it will become one of his greatest sexual pleasures.

Another way of looking at the figures is that 84% of the men who before DevS were not keen to give her oral sex changed their view after becoming her Knight to either really liking it or being obsessed.

So most men (at least most who are willing to try DevS) are likely to enjoy a sex life with Pleasure Kissing a major focus.

Thus Devotional isn't a technique just for men who love giving her oral, it's a technique which creates a love of giving her oral. This is a win for her. And what makes it most special, it's a win for him.

I very much welcome any comments or questions about this post. It would also be great to hear from any couples where he is one of the 64% who wasn't that keen to give oral before DevS but now really likes or is obsessed with it.

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