She enjoys him wanting to cum but rarely doing so
Posted: Fri May 09, 2025 9:34 amDevotional Sex creates a unique dynamic which is powerful and fun for both.
DevS only happens when he wants to be her Knight, and if he commits then a part of this is that he will have far fewer ejaculations, perhaps only one every ten days (some do fewer days, many do a bit longer).
This means that for the first say 8 days of a Season both know that he won't be ejaculating - no matter how high his energy may get. She doesn't feel that she is denying him because he wants to be her Knight and he accepts that not ejaculating is part of this.
Though she isn't denying him, a powerful and fun part of the experience for her are those times when his body and part of his mind are desperate to cum.
So, for example, what happens if seven days into the Season she decides that night to enjoy a twenty minute Pleasure Kiss (her receiving oral), she has an orgasm, and then she ends the session?
He is likely to be very aroused and wanting more activity. But rather than him begging for more he moves up to cuddle her.
She doesn't ignore his energy but celebrates it by giving him a Devotional Cuddle (she holds his erection as they cuddle). She can feel how very hard and wanting he is. As he accepts that no more activity will happen that session his desire moves from wanting more activity to wanting to cum.
When he has really high energy he will give little thrusts into her hand, and his whole body will feel on edge. If he is really energized he might even shake a little with the energy and desire.
If she is wanting to quickly go to sleep she can say "Be Calm" and he will use his calming techniques to start to calm himself, and he will stop any thrusting.
Other times she will enjoy his energy and if she wants to enjoy this for a while she can do some gentle hand movements and squeezes to encourage his hunger. The feeling of his energy combined with him fulfilling her wish to end the session with just the cuddle has her feeling that his devotion and her control is very real.
The intimacy and connection of this energized cuddle is amazing for both.
Each Princess will enjoy this in her own way, but during this Devotional Cuddle she is likely to feel some of:
* special or powerful because she has had an orgasm but he has not had one,
* happy that even though he hasn't ejaculated he has enjoyed pleasuring her and the Devotional Cuddle so much that he has enjoyed the session as much as her,
* happy holding his erection as this enhances their intimacy and connection,
* happy holding his erection because she can feel how much he wants further activity and to ejaculate but he is going without to please her,
* happy that his erection proves how much he enjoys pleasuring her, and
* happy because this celebrates their powerful bond of him only ever ejacuting when she wishes.
Note that the Knight's energy will not always be high. Sometimes he may move up to cuddle her without bursting energy and so the cuddle will be one of relaxed intimacy. For some Knights cuddles with relaxed intimacy are his usual.
The other highlight for her is enjoying how much his having far fewer ejacuations increases his desire for her. With DevS she is never making him please her. Rather whenever she feels she would like something she is ALLOWING HIM to please her.
The next morning he will be very hard with all the energy from the previous night still within him. Many Princesses give him a morning Devotional Cuddle. She can feel in her hand that he is keen for activity, so if she wishes she could have him give her a morning Pleasure Kiss, enjoy playing with him a little, or give him a minute or two oral sex. But, of course, she can chose to just enjoy the cuddle.
And when he gets out of bed, still hard, she knows that he will be thinking of her all day.
Perhaps that evening she will enjoy some Affirmation - have him be naked for some time during the evening while she remains dressed. She will love watching the rise and fall of his arousal. Even if he is Affirmed for hours that evening what happens in bed is totally up to her, so his arousal in the living room doesn't have her feel any pressure for later on.
If she has him give her a foot massage whilst he is Affirmed she will see his erection and she will know that he is enjoying giving her the foot massage as anything which gets him hard is pleasing him. But she can relax and just enjoy the sensual experience of the foot massage. Though why they enjoy this is very different - him aroused, her relaxing - it's still win-win.
In bed, even though he is now 8 days, what happens is up to her. If she asks for a back rub he will get hard giving it to her. Perhaps after relaxing from the back rub she will feel like some sexual activity, but if she wishes she can just thank him for the massage by giving him a Devotional Cuddle.
CONCLUSION:
So Devotional Sex isn't about denial but it is very much about her enjoying his energy - his desire please her anyway he is allowed, and turning the energy for his desire to cum at the end of a Session into her feeling powerful and special as well as enjoying intimacy and connection.
I very much welcome any comments or questions.
DevS only happens when he wants to be her Knight, and if he commits then a part of this is that he will have far fewer ejaculations, perhaps only one every ten days (some do fewer days, many do a bit longer).
This means that for the first say 8 days of a Season both know that he won't be ejaculating - no matter how high his energy may get. She doesn't feel that she is denying him because he wants to be her Knight and he accepts that not ejaculating is part of this.
Though she isn't denying him, a powerful and fun part of the experience for her are those times when his body and part of his mind are desperate to cum.
So, for example, what happens if seven days into the Season she decides that night to enjoy a twenty minute Pleasure Kiss (her receiving oral), she has an orgasm, and then she ends the session?
He is likely to be very aroused and wanting more activity. But rather than him begging for more he moves up to cuddle her.
She doesn't ignore his energy but celebrates it by giving him a Devotional Cuddle (she holds his erection as they cuddle). She can feel how very hard and wanting he is. As he accepts that no more activity will happen that session his desire moves from wanting more activity to wanting to cum.
When he has really high energy he will give little thrusts into her hand, and his whole body will feel on edge. If he is really energized he might even shake a little with the energy and desire.
If she is wanting to quickly go to sleep she can say "Be Calm" and he will use his calming techniques to start to calm himself, and he will stop any thrusting.
Other times she will enjoy his energy and if she wants to enjoy this for a while she can do some gentle hand movements and squeezes to encourage his hunger. The feeling of his energy combined with him fulfilling her wish to end the session with just the cuddle has her feeling that his devotion and her control is very real.
The intimacy and connection of this energized cuddle is amazing for both.
Each Princess will enjoy this in her own way, but during this Devotional Cuddle she is likely to feel some of:
* special or powerful because she has had an orgasm but he has not had one,
* happy that even though he hasn't ejaculated he has enjoyed pleasuring her and the Devotional Cuddle so much that he has enjoyed the session as much as her,
* happy holding his erection as this enhances their intimacy and connection,
* happy holding his erection because she can feel how much he wants further activity and to ejaculate but he is going without to please her,
* happy that his erection proves how much he enjoys pleasuring her, and
* happy because this celebrates their powerful bond of him only ever ejacuting when she wishes.
Note that the Knight's energy will not always be high. Sometimes he may move up to cuddle her without bursting energy and so the cuddle will be one of relaxed intimacy. For some Knights cuddles with relaxed intimacy are his usual.
The other highlight for her is enjoying how much his having far fewer ejacuations increases his desire for her. With DevS she is never making him please her. Rather whenever she feels she would like something she is ALLOWING HIM to please her.
The next morning he will be very hard with all the energy from the previous night still within him. Many Princesses give him a morning Devotional Cuddle. She can feel in her hand that he is keen for activity, so if she wishes she could have him give her a morning Pleasure Kiss, enjoy playing with him a little, or give him a minute or two oral sex. But, of course, she can chose to just enjoy the cuddle.
And when he gets out of bed, still hard, she knows that he will be thinking of her all day.
Perhaps that evening she will enjoy some Affirmation - have him be naked for some time during the evening while she remains dressed. She will love watching the rise and fall of his arousal. Even if he is Affirmed for hours that evening what happens in bed is totally up to her, so his arousal in the living room doesn't have her feel any pressure for later on.
If she has him give her a foot massage whilst he is Affirmed she will see his erection and she will know that he is enjoying giving her the foot massage as anything which gets him hard is pleasing him. But she can relax and just enjoy the sensual experience of the foot massage. Though why they enjoy this is very different - him aroused, her relaxing - it's still win-win.
In bed, even though he is now 8 days, what happens is up to her. If she asks for a back rub he will get hard giving it to her. Perhaps after relaxing from the back rub she will feel like some sexual activity, but if she wishes she can just thank him for the massage by giving him a Devotional Cuddle.
CONCLUSION:
So Devotional Sex isn't about denial but it is very much about her enjoying his energy - his desire please her anyway he is allowed, and turning the energy for his desire to cum at the end of a Session into her feeling powerful and special as well as enjoying intimacy and connection.
I very much welcome any comments or questions.