With good normal sex there is the idea of 'she comes first' which is when the couple first focus on her orgasm, and then after her orgasm sexual activity continues and he ejaculates (most often with intercourse).
With DevS he usually doesn't ejaculate, and so I wondered what happens with DevS once she has had an orgasm.
One of the great things of my surveys is that I can ask lots of multiple choice questions, and my Orgasms Survey asks what happens after she has an orgasm. So I could look up the results.
29% of couples said that with them, once she has had an orgasm, sexual activity usually continues, and
71% said that sexual activity usually ends (and most then have a Devotional Cuddle).
So the climax / end of a session of DevS is usually HER climax.
Her orgasm thus becomes a bigger event for him, and about 60% of men living DevS now enjoy giving her an orgasm much more than before, and another 20% a bit more than before.
About 70% of women who live DevS most often orgasm from receiving oral sex. So it's very common with DevS for a session to end with a Pleasure Kiss, her orgasm, then a Devotional Cuddle (a cuddle with her holding his erection). Sometimes there will be lots of other activities before the Pleasure Kiss, and sometimes the Pleasure Kiss will be the only activity - it's whatever she feels like.
How does she feel during the Devotional Cuddle after having had an orgasm from a Pleasure Kiss?
30 women answered a question I added to my Oral Sex survey (they could pick all answers which applied):
16 said they felt special or powerful because she has had an orgasm but he has not had one,
14 said they were happy that even though he hasn't ejaculated he has enjoyed pleasuring her and the Devotional Cuddle so much that he has enjoyed the session as much as her,
14 said they were happy holding his erection as this enhances the intimacy and connection of the after sex cuddle,
13 were happy holding his erection because she can feel how much he wants further activity and to ejaculate yet he is going without to please his Princess
8 felt happy holding his erection as this proves how much he enjoyed pleasuring her, and
6 felt happy holding his erection because it celebrates the powerful bond between them due to him only ever ejaculating when with her and when she decides.
I have lots more data to share which show both the huge variation in what can happen, and what most couples actually do.
I very much welcome any questions or comments. (Some feedback inspires me to keep posting.)
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