Chapter 33 - Sarah

'Hi Kali, you had lunch yet?' I ask looking in on my friend. It has been a very long morning and I am starving.

'Yes, but it was a couple of hours ago, so give me five and I'll join you for a coffee.'

'Great.' I slump down in the chair next to her desk and wait.

The staff canteen is deserted so we pick a table and sit. I unpack my lunch and Kali sips her coffee.

After some small talk, Kali moves the conversation to what happened years ago with Will.

'You know I am intrigued to know how you went from Will suggesting a weekend of Devotional Sex to living Devotional Sex.'

‘Well', I replied, 'over the next few days Will kept pointing out the highlights for him of the weekend, which was just about anything and everything. He wanted to make sure that I knew he had enjoyed the experiment.’

‘Given it was his idea that was highly likely.’

‘Not necessarily. He might have found it too intense not ejaculating or no activities he liked. A knight might feel there isn’t enough sex for him to really enjoy it. Unlikely over a weekend that is a trial for Devotional sex but.. '

'However,' I continue, 'Will did enjoy the weekend, though I’m sure he would have liked much more to have happened.'

‘Did you feel pestered?’ Kali asked.

‘No. Apart from at the end of the massage on Saturday. Will had worked out in his mind that he needed to give me plenty of time to think about what was happening and if he was to be successful in changing our love life it had to be at my pace and not try to rush me on to the next thing. The underlying concept of Devotional Sex is that things happen at her pace and her decision rather than him rushing on towards climax.’

‘You caught a good one there. I don’t think Adam could process the idea of slowing things down, he is always looking to the finish line.’

‘Give him time. He’ll get there with your help. You know Will and I will offer whatever advice we can.’

‘Thanks, but let’s get back to you. You’ve completed a weekend of Devotional Sex, fill in the gap between then and living Devotional Sex.’
 
 
‘Life returned to normal on the Monday, except, as I said, Will kept letting me know how much he had enjoyed things. I had been very non committal all week so I decided on Sunday we should talk. We had the house to ourselves for the evening and we sat in the kitchen eating.'

'I began by saying, "you’ve told me lots of things you liked about last weekend, did you enjoy the increased arousal?"

"Definitely" was his response.

'I told him I had enjoyed the walk in the park when we held hands and that I had loved that he was more interested in me the whole weekend. '

'Will said "it would be easy to continue with that, and that if he didn’t cum as often he would always be more eager." He added that "We’d need to practice getting things in balance, but Devotional Sex could make our lives more like last weekend."

‘Just like that?’ Kali asks. ‘So simple. Too simple.’

‘Exactly!. I offered him a suggestion, "so I should never let you ejaculate? Then you’d never lose interest!"

'He wasn’t keen on the idea and told me that he would have a major problem with that concept. He suggested something less drastic, he would need to cum, but not every time.'

'To start with a few days was what he thought would work well. This could build up to a normal time of 5 to 8 days and then over the years as we get older it might increase to longer. We’d have to learn what works best so that he can control his energy and we get to enjoy a better love life. It will take some experimenting and over time I would be able to enjoy when he is eager and know when the time is getting too long.'

'We talked about the different sexual and sensual activities that we could do. I wondered about intercourse, how that would come to an end without him ejaculating.'

'Too many people think that sex is just about penis in vagina,' Kali complains, 'including Adam.'

'I quite agree and so does Will. Yet I was concerned, wouldn’t he find it frustrating I asked. No, he assured me, not based on the previous weekend. He said he had really enjoyed being aroused so much and found giving me pleasure a pleasurable act in itself. He loved the journey we were on last weekend, the whole weekend was one long session of foreplay which resulted in a great orgasm on Sunday evening.’

‘Interesting.’ Kali says, ‘It was all foreplay. That puts a different perspective on things.’

‘It does. Will saw the whole weekend as foreplay resulting in his ejaculation on Sunday evening. Although he was also realistic, he would get frustrated some times, but hopefully they would be few and far between he said. I get to have all the attention I want and all the orgasms I want, his erotic energy would help to satisfy me. And then because we can have lots and lots of little bits of sex without me having to feel in the mood for a full on session of sex he would get to have a sex life that is way more frequent than currently. I win with increased intimacy and he wins with increased sexual activity. We both win. It was a wonderful picture but I wasn’t sure it would work in reality.’

‘Where did you go from there then?’

‘Will suggested we try it again for another spell, a period of time. He reminded me that he was giving me the power to decide what did and did not happen. He wanted to have sex on Saturday, but as I didn’t, we didn’t and that is how this works. As princess I get to say no if I choose to. He pointed out the obvious that he wanted sex all the time and I don’t, so I get to decide when and what so that it’s never too much for me. He would encourage me to play with him for a bit, he gets to be pleasured and then nothing more happens until I choose. He can celebrate the sex we’ve just shared and because he won’t have cum that feeling lasts much, much longer.'

'He had you hooked by now, hadn't he?'

'Looking back, yes I guess he had. But nothing was certain. Will put in escape clauses, if it doesn’t work for either of us we can talk about why and think about what to do. If it really doesn't work then we can stop and return to how things were before.'

'So we agreed on another weekend. I suggested that we leave intercourse until Sunday but he reminded me that what happens and when it happens is up to me, and that I get to decide when he cums which could be Friday evening if I wanted.’

'So how did the second weekend go? Give me all the details.' Kali asks with puppy dog eyes.

'No. Sorry, I'm not going to do that.'

'Pleeease. I've got a really boring afternoon.'

'If you buy me a drink after work, I might be persuaded.' I say.

Kali's face breaks out into a big grin. 'See you later then.'

I walk back to my office and think about how aroused Will is going to be when he hears that I've told Kali the details of our second weekend of Devotional Sex.