Some
couples may feel that the longer he lasts the better.
But before deciding to go lots longer than I recommend here, consider the following:
Getting
used to your average
The
most intense and challenging
times for a Knight are when he goes longer than usual. Thus it can be
fun for both when an experienced 40 year old Knight whose usual is 7
days has to last 11 days.
Those who enjoy this higher energy
might start to have have him last 11 days much more often, so that his
average goes from 7 days up to say 10.
The problem with doing this is that
his mind and body soon get used to the 10 day average, and when he gets
used to the new higher average then at 10 days his energy level will be
about the same as it was before at 7 days. So to get him very energized
he now has to go for 14 days or longer.
Keeping his average close to
what I recommend means that it is easier to go longer than average and
enjoy him with higher than usual energy.
Another reason why a Knight may
want to last for much longer is that he enjoys feeling Enlivened and doesn't like the time after
an ejaculation when he feels flat and unenergized.
I've found that after a very long Season it takes longer to rebuild my
energy, but my recovery time is quicker when my average isn't as long.
Keeping
him energized
When doing any of the Experienced Spells
(which have the Princess deciding when her Knight will Climax) part of
the excitement for a Knight is not knowing whether or not a Session
will end with him Climaxing or not. If his average is 7 days then most
Seasons will be 5 to 9 days, with a few being less than 5 days and few
longer than 9. So it is only the first few days where her having him
Climax is unlikely, and from say day 4 onwards he never knows what will
happen.
Though
he knows that he might get to ejaculate, he is still in The Zone because he isn't expecting to Climax.
So the possibility adds energy and
excitement but when his Princess ends a Session without him Climaxing
neither feel that she is denying him because this is what he expected
to happen.
If his average is lots longer than I recommend then there is a lot more
time when he is pretty sure that he won't be ejaculating and thus there
is less excitement and less energy.
With a longer Season his mind and body may get so used to not
ejaculating that his energy calms and as his background energy falls
this is moving away from The Zone of Devotional Sex towards Tantra and
Tao.
Ejaculations
are still good
Not ejaculating as often as usual is a
cost for a Knight which enables
him to enjoy the many benefits which flow from Devotional Sex. But
ejaculating is not bad. In fact one of the benefits of Devotional Sex
is that when he does ejaculate it is more powerful and pleasurable than
before.
Longer Seasons than I recommend mean having fewer of these more
powerful ejaculations.
Prostate
Health
A massive scientific study has
found that men who ejaculate often have a lower risk of getting
prostate cancer. As my recommendations are long enough to fully benefit
from doing Devotional Sex it may be healthier not to last lots longer.
As
always you
should do what works best for you and your partner. So it is up to each
couple to weigh up each of these points, perhaps to do some
experimentation, and to then enjoy.