Affirmation in front of others

Most Devotee couples enjoy lots of Affirmation alone as a couple. Spending time together with him naked, and sometimes aroused, while she remains dressed becomes part of what they do as a couple.

With this being so normal for them, and her feeling confident that she is in control, a surprising number of Princesses decide to do a 'show and tell' about Devotional Sex by having him Affirmed in front of one or more friends.


Having him Affirmed in front of others can only happen if it is something the Knight is willing to do, the visitor(s) are happy for it to happen, and the Princess then decides it will happen.

One advantage of suggesting this to the friend(s) in the context of Devotional Sex is that they will then know that the Princess has control, that as this is about sex he is likely to get aroused, and that nothing further happens (ie everyone else keeps their clothes on).

Though the Knight may be nervous at first, he is also proud to show that he is her Knight. So, like Affirmation alone as couple, this is not about humiliation.
  
 
A couple could lead into this adventure by
starting to tell their friend(s) about Devotional Sex during the visit. The Princess could then tell the visitor(s) that she often has him be naked at home, and that all she needs to do for this to happen is to say "Reveal". She could then offer a demonstration, and, if everyone is happy, he will do as she wishes.

Alternatively if the Princess has talked to the friend(s) beforehand she may have her Knight already Affirmed when they arrive.
  
 
The visitor(s) may be just one female friend, a few female friends, a couple, or a group. Some Princesses even chose to do a show and tell for a male friend. Each type will have it's own dynamic.

For female visitors this is a rare opportunity to enjoy looking at a naked aroused man without them being expected to undress and engage in sex. So most female visitors find this very liberating.

In conversation the Knight is a social equal to all. But so that everyone can enjoy looking at him it's usual for him to be the one who provides drinks and food.

The Princess decides what can happen while he is Affirmed.

This can be that the visitors only get to enjoy looking at him. But the Princess may offer a female friend a foot massage from her naked Knight.

She can offer to give the friend(s) a better look at his arousal by having him stand near them and Display. Whether or not the visitors are allowed to touch the Knight is also up to her.
  
 
Him being Affirmed makes talking about Devotional Sex much more fun. Having him say how long he has gone since last release, and then his Princess telling them that he won't get release that night, makes him being hers feel much more real for both. And him saying how much he enjoys giving his Princess Pleasure Kisses is much more believable when all can see how aroused he is as he talks about this.

When the visitors are a couple, the Knight explaining why Devotional Sex is amazing for him may make it easier for the male of the couple to be willing to try Devotional Sex with his partner.

My surveys have found that about one third of people told about Devotional Sex by a Devotee couple go on to try it for themselves.
  
 
Perhaps the most surprising thing for those who have not done this is that once the ice is broken the shock of doing something so different is replaced by this feeling like a loving and erotic new normal.

In fact this all works so well that all the couples who responded to my survey and said they have done Affirmation in front of others also say that this has happened a few more or many more times.

So with some visitor(s) it may become usual for him to be Affirmed during visits, and for others it may be an occasional treat.

As well as being fun for the visitor(s), doing this is wonderful for the Devotee couple as they are able to share the joy of their lifestyle with others.
  
 
   
 

• She enjoys showing her Knight to two female friends
  
  
• She holds his balls as her two friends enjoy looking at his erection
  
  
• Two women enjoy posing next to an Affirmed Knight
  
  
• She holds his balls as her friends are amazed to hear that he hasn't ejaculated for over a week, and that he won't be doing so that night
  
  
• A Princess watches as her friend touches her Knight's growing arousal
  
  
• A Princess and her Knight pose so a friend can take a photo of this very happy Devotional couple
  
  
• She looks at her friend with an 'all mine' expression as she cups his balls as he lies on the bed
  
  
• Four women stand with drinks smiling as he dances in front of them
  
  
• Her two friends can't believe that a Princess really can make her Knight undress just by saying "Reveal"
  
  
• A woman has her husband take a photo of her with a naked man at a WNBR
  
  
• Three women look at him at a dinner party with one holding his erection