The Devotee Ring:

the public symbol of practicing Devotional Sex

Wearing a Devotee Ring is a symbol to both yourself and your partner of your commitment to fulfill the role of a Princess or Knight and is a reminder of the joys of practicing Devotional Sex with them.

Of course this public symbol is optional - not everyone wants to let others who recognize what the ring means know that they are a Devotee.

A Devotee ring may be worn by just the Knight, just the Princess, or both.

 
 
Though I chose a red garnet stone because I felt this had the right look and feel, when I one day looked up what some say the meaning of stones are, I read:


That's a great description of the benefits and joys which Devotional Sex brings!

 
To see some photos of two different male Devotee rings CLICK HERE.
 

The ring can be worn by both those in a relationship and singles:
 
 
For wearing the ring to be meaningful the main time it is worn is when you are both practicing Devotional Sex.

So when you start a Season or a Stretch of Devotional Sex you and/or your partner put the ring on, and when the Devotional Sex ends and and you stop being a Princess or a Knight the ring is taken off.

Thus putting on the ring is a nice way of representing the commitments of your role, and taking the ring off is symbolic that things have gone back to normal.
 
 
Some couples may like to talk about wearing the ring as their way of talking about starting a Season or Stretch of Devotional Sex.

For example, she might say "Would you like to put the ring on tonight?"
 
 
Those Living Devotional Sex can wear a Devotee ring all of the time.

 
 
Another time the ring can be worn is when he is a Pledged Knight.

This is when his partner doesn't want to practice Devotional Sex all of the time and he has pledged to start being her Knight whenever she wishes and to stay her Knight until she wishes to go back to normal.

When the couple are not doing Devotional Sex his wearing the ring represents this pledge. So a Pledged Knight can wear the ring all of the time (even though he is not always an active Knight).

 
 
A single person can wear the ring if they have pledged to themselves that when they get the opportunity to be intimate with someone they will apply the principles of Devotional Sex to what they do.

Thus for dating they commit to do Devotional Dating and if being intimate with a friend to be Devotional Friends.

Part of being a pledged single is being brave enough to tell a potential partner about Devotional Sex so that they know what you do and, if they are willing to try this with you, they are then able to enjoy the experience.

 
It is up to each couple if both or either will wear a Devotee ring, and if they do when they will start to do this.

It works best if the you pick a key moment to first wear the ring.

As mentioned above, a couple can start to use a Devotee Ring when they start to enjoy Seasons of Devotional Sex - with the ring put on at the beginning of the Season and taken off at the end.

Another appropriate time for him to wear a Devotee Ring for the first time is when he pledges to be her Knight whenever she wishes.

And a couple could start wearing a Devotee Ring when the couple decide to start Living Devotional Sex.

It can work well for him to start always wearing the ring when he pledges to be her Knight whenever his partner wishes, and for her to start wearing a Devotee ring when she decides that they will start to Live Devotional Sex and so she will always be his Princess.

If you buy a Devotee Ring to indicate when you are doing a Season of Devotional Sex, then this ring is likely to be fairly cheap (as you are just exploring Devotional Sex). So if you move up a step ie to him becoming a Pledged Knight or going from him being a Pledged Knight to Living Devotional Sex, this can be marked by buying a nicer more expensive ring.

It's up to each couple to decide what works best for them.

 
Committing to do Devotional Sex can feel like a big step - especially when the commitment is long term.

So when he becomes a Pledged Knight, or a couple commit to do a Stretch of Devotional Sex for a month or longer, or to start to Live Devotional Sex, the couple may find it meaningful to create a little ceremony to mark the occasion, and one or both putting on the Devotee Ring can be a key part of this.

Another time a ceremony may feel meaningful is when a couple who are Devotional Dating (he never ejaculates when with her) agree to move to Devotional Relationship (he only ever ejaculates when with her and only when she decides he can).
 
 
For example, going out for a special romantic dinner, putting the ring or rings onto the table, then confirming that you both wish to make the commitment, and then putting the ring(s) on makes it all feel special.

And as with a wedding, you may like the idea of it being your partner who puts your ring on.

 
 
I recommend that the longest commitment a couple make is to practice Devotional Sex for one year.

So each year a couple who Live Devotional Sex can have a ceremony wear they take off their ring(s), reconfirm that they both wish to continue to live this way for another year and then put the ring(s) back on.
 
 
Though most couples will do this in private, if you have a friend or friends who know about your Devotee lifestyle, it can feel even more special to make this re-commitment with others present who know how special this is for you both.

 
If you meet someone wearing a Devotee Ring:

• It might be just a coincidence that they are wearing the right type of ring on the correct finger. It is possible that the ring wearer has never heard of Devotional Sex! 
  
  
• Even if they are a Devotee they may not want to talk about it or even just make small talk with you.

So please respect the other person's right to privacy.

If you are wearing a Devotee Ring, and you meet someone wearing what might be a Devotee Ring, and you wish to talk with them, you could start by mentioning that you are wearing a similar ring.

And if you are not wearing a Devotee Ring you could say something that mentioned the words 'Princess' or 'Knight', and then see where the conversation goes.

 
It may be difficult to find a ring which fits the little finger. Especially for women, most rings in the shops may be too big. Many jewelers will resize a ring. But, especially when you are just starting Devotional Sex, you may prefer to avoid this extra expense.

If you can't find a suitable ring which is small enough to fit your little finger, you can instead wear a bigger ring on the finger which is next to your thumb.
 
 
Of course it is also up to you what type of ring you use to represent your commitment to Devotional Sex.

My main reason for recommending that everyone wear the same type of ring is for the fun of one day seeing another couple where one or both are wearing a Devotee Ring and thus knowing that they too are enjoying the many joys of Devotional Sex.