Results of the What Happens in Bed? Survey -
the huge variation in what happens:

A Knight is usually eager to engage in some activity every session. But as he has given her control she decides what happens - from full sex to nothing at all. Her challenge is to manage this so that  she and her Knight are both very happy - so each couple will do what works best for them as a couple.

The huge variation in what happens shows that each couple has their own path to mutual happiness.


Before looking at the variation, there are some couples who are fairly close to the average.

For example:
 
 
One young couple (him 18 - 27) have a week of mornings and bedtimes sessions of:

    
and one slightly older couple (him 38 - 47) each week have:



But the average behavior isn't typical because all couples do a bit more or a bit less than average of some activities, and some couples do much more than most or none at all of some activities.

So, strange as it may seem, every couple do some types of session more often than most other couples. Thus it is impossible for any couple to be totally normal! If you want to know why, click (More)
 
 
Within the first 25 valid responses to this survey the following variations were found:
 
One couple have Joy 8 times out of their 14 sessions. Their 14 sessions are:

    
One couple have 8 sessions each week where the main activity is him giving her a Pleasure Kiss:

   
An older couple (him over 58) have 9 sessions each week of mainly Pleasure Kissing and do not have any Joy:

     
Another couple (him 48-57) also don't have Joy, and they don't have Pleasure Kisses either, doing:

 

 
Another couple (38-47) also has a Princess who doesn't enjoy receiving oral sex. She only wants Joy once a week, but she enjoys watching him play with himself. They have:

 


 
One couple (him 28-37) have have more than average of both Joy and Pleasure Kiss sessions:

   
A younger couple (him 18-27) have have more than average of both Pleasure Kiss and Active Desire Play sessions:

 

 
An older couple (him over 58) have lot of Pleasure Play and something sexual happens every session. They have:

    
Though Pleasure Kisses are the most common sexual activity for most Devotee couples, a few Princesses don't like his mouth and prefer his hand. One couple (him 28-37) have:

    
Another couple (him 38-47) have lots of Devotional Cuddles:

    
When I was developing the ideas of what would become Devotional Sex my partner didn't feel relaxed with Devotional Cuddles, so what we did on average each week was:

    
With one couple the Princess is not a morning person and so nothing happens each morning - but something happens each evening:

    
Apart from the last couple, what all the above have in common is that almost every morning and bedtime there is an erotic connection.

How much sexual activity and what activities happen varies widely - it's the erotic connection as a normal part of the Devotee's mornings and bedtimes that is the constant.