Wish
Words
"Fini"
He stops the activity and withdraws:
This
Wish Word is French for finished.
What happens when she says
this depends on the activity which is the main focus. For example, if
the main activity is:
- Joy
- he stops and pulls out (but can keep cuddling her)
- Caressing her - he stops and
removes his hand
- Pleasure
Kiss - he stops licking her and moves up to cuddle her
- Cuddling or hugging - he
stops and breaks physical contact with her
- Display - he stops playing with
himself, removes his hand, and moves so that he is no longer standing
in front of her
- Playing with himself - he
stops and removes his hand
- Affirmation
- he puts his clothes back on
Note that it is only the main
activity which is ended, and other things continue (unless she says
otherwise).
So, for example, if he is Affirmed and sitting at her feet and giving
her a
foot massage, then "Fini" will end the foot massage but he will remain
Affirmed.
If she wishes him to get dressed as well she could say "Fini" (to
end the foot massage) and then add "and get dressed now", or she could
wait for him to stand up and then say "Fini" again to end the
Affirmation.
A Princess can also say "Fini" when
she is the one who takes action to end the activity (eg stops playing
with him or stops giving him a Desire Kiss).
In this case she is saying this
just to let him know that she isn't going to do any more of that
activity.
Using
Fini as a non-negotiable wish
If a couple are having Joy, and she
says "That's all for now", then her Knight is allowed to ask "Can we
keep going for just a little bit longer please? If she replies "OK"
then the Joy will continue for a bit longer, but if she says "No" then
he pulls out.
A couple can decide that "Fini" will be used as a non-negotiable wish,
which means that when she says "Fini" he knows that this is her final decision
and so he will immediately do as she wishes.
Why this word?
I chose this word as it is a word
which won't be said by those who don't
speak French at home and so when she says "Fini" it
will stand out from other conversation.
It's also a clear and simple
word, and it sounds
friendly rather than commanding.
Alternative
Terms
As with all Wish Words, a couple can choose their own term.
Those who speak French at home may prefer to use a term from a different language.
Words that mean 'thank-you' in another language also work well - eg
Danke, Gracias, or Merci.
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