Devotional Sex Diaries
Jill continues:
I love Saturdays! We can enjoy each other without thinking about when we should be at work.
We had a long Devotional Cuddle and a short Desire Kiss lasting only a minute or so.
A short Desire Kiss is especially effective if I make sure to look into Tom's eyes while I kiss his Desire.
I asked Knight Tom to Cherish me, so we
both got comfortable for what could be a lengthy Pleasure Kiss. I
wanted an orgasm in the morning for a change and Tom's Pleasure Kiss
delivered it rather nicely.
That led to another Devotional Cuddle so that Tom could fully enjoy my
orgasm that his eager kissing and licking of my Pleasure had helped
produce.
Tom asked if I wanted a Bud Kiss like the other night, but I told him No.
Tom wanted to meet his friends at the gym and I wanted to go shopping. So we went our separate ways for the rest of the day.
When I returned home Tom had started dinner.
I asked him to Reveal and Display for Affirmation while we prepared dinner together.
After dinner I offered to model the clothes that I had purchased while
shopping. Along with two dresses and some tops, I also got some new
panties and bras from the shop at which Tom most likes me to buy
lingerie.
It has been five days since Tom ejaculated and his hunger for me is
evident. He seemed to enjoy helping me put on the new things and
offering thoughtful comments about how something complimented my body
or was a good color or showed-off my breasts nicely.
Tom's comments were genuine and increased my pleasure from modeling and turning to various angles for Tom's viewing.
After the fashion show, we streamed a movie - Tom Affirmed and me in my favorite new panties and bra.
When we went to bed I asked Tom to Be Small and we went to sleep.
Sunday morning is a nice time to stay in bed with a long Devotional Cuddle. That is what Knight Tom and I did.
We are on the sixth day without an ejaculation for Tom. His energy is
high and I am quite satisfied with as many orgasms as I wanted so far
this Season.
I made breakfast and asked Tom for Affirmation while I prepared it.
That way I could enjoy his erection while I cooked and while we ate.
We discussed how our participation in the Devotional diary has made us
more aware of our sexual activities and increased our communication
about sex. Tom does not read my diary entry before I post it, but we
have discussed the items that I intend to include.
After breakfast we returned to bed
where I asked Tom to Unveil me - it was just my robe - and then to
massage me. Our regular massage includes my shoulders, back and glutes.
After a nice long massage I flipped over on my back and asked Tom to Gaze for a while.
To please me, Tom began to tell me what he likes about my Pleasure.
This morning it was my inner labia and the aroma of my Pleasure.
After a lengthy Gaze I asked Tom to Taste
and tell me about it. Not surprisingly, with his level of energy, he
found it even more delicious than the breakfast that he had eaten.
We showered together and enjoyed soaping and rinsing each other.
I visited my parents today. Tom was welcome to accompany me, but he didn't have to. He decided he would rather be on his own.
While Knight Tom is alone he is free to touch and play with his Desire - masturbate - as long as he does not ejaculate.
I have not told my parents about
Devotional Sex or that Tom and I are Devotees. Because of the age gap
between Tom and me, my mother asks if my sex life is all that I want it
to be, and I assure her that it is and that I am sexually satisfied and
happy.
My father does not ask questions about my sexual satisfaction, but I think that he realizes that I am happy.
When I returned home, Tom was out with a friend. I took the time alone to do household chores.
Tom and I later met at a neighborhood restaurant for dinner.
At home that evening we discussed our activities during the day and watched TV for a while.
Just before bedtime I asked Tom to Reveal and to Desire Me. He was erect in no time.
We got in bed and cuddled like spoons until we were asleep.
We awoke early because Knight Tom had to take an early flight for a
business trip. Our regular Devotional Cuddle was so brief that I barely
had time to feel his erection.
When I asked how many Days it had been, Tom replied immediately that today was day seven.
I don't like it when our normal routine is interrupted, but I am glad
that Tom has the job that he has - we live very comfortably on his
income, so I fully realize that his work requires us both to make some
adjustments. This is only a one-day-trip; my Knight will be home
tonight.
When Tom was ready to leave, I asked him to Liberate
(not the term we use, but we are using the Devotional Sex
Language when posting) for a good-bye kiss - a brief Desire Kiss
where I make sure to look into his eyes so he can see that I am
enjoying the kiss along with him.
Tom departed and I got back into bed until my normal time.
During the time when we usually
have a Devotional Cuddle I touched my Pleasure because it felt good.
I
seldom masturbate to orgasm now and when I do it is usually because I
know that Tom likes to watch me do it.
I stopped short of orgasm and
got up and got off to work.
When Tom and I discussed who could
be told about our Devotional Sex, Knight Tom agreed that I could tell
my best friend at work, my best friend forever, and my sister. These
are the only people who I wanted to tell.
Telling them was not for the purpose of getting them to join in our
sexual activities. Instead, each of these three women and I have always
discussed our sex lives and I wanted to continue to do so.
None of my friends has become a Devotee, but each is quite interested
in hearing about my Devotional Sex activities and each envies the
frequency of my orgasms.
Today at lunch I told my work-friend about the past three days and about my Devotional diary.
She didn't think my diary project was a good idea for one reason that I
could perhaps lose my job if my boss ever found out. I don't see how
that could happen because I am not doing anything wrong except enjoying
sex and writing about it. I guess there could be some conduct
requirement under which my diary could be viewed as conduct unbecoming
to an employee of our business.
I checked with Knight Tom, and he told
me not to worry about it. So I am not going to worry about it.
In
the forum (and privately) I pointed out that apart from what she writes in the diary, she
is totally anonymous. For example, though the reader probably has an idea in their mind of what they look like, we don't even know their race or body shape.
I also made clear that if any poster later wishes to have
something which they think might identify them removed then I will
always do this. But Jill has not even asked me to edit her introductory
comments where she says which city she lives in and what type of work
they both do.
Tom returned home late that night.
He seemed full of energy, so I asked
him to Reveal and kiss me.
Because he quickly became erect I asked if
he had been thinking about me. He replied that he had, and especially
thinking about my Pleasure. I told him that we should go to bed where
he could Pleasure Kiss me all that he wanted.
I eventually had my
orgasm and we cuddled until sleep.
Unfortunately the above is all that Jill has posted.
I, and I'm sure most readers, would love to know what happened in the second half of their season.
But rather than feeling sad that we missed out, I feel very grateful to Jill for sharing all that she has shared.
Much more about this couple:
Jill mentioned at the start of her diary that they had both enjoyed filling out many of my Devotional Sex Surveys. Matching the dates I can make a pretty good guess for which survey responses are theirs.
Their survey results tell us what happens overall within their Devotional Sex lives (for example they have Joy about once a week) and includes some additional comments and adventures.
Click 'More' to find out how this couple replied to the surveys:
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Discussion and Conclusion
It is wonderful to read the woman's perspective of a week of Devotional Sex. And what a week!
And this week wasn't just a one off special - they have been practicing Devotional Sex for three years!
They enjoy a bit more sexual activity than most Devotees, but their mix
is fairly typical - not much Joy; lots of Pleasure Kissing; for the
Knights who receive Desire Kisses most of these being very short;
and lots of Affirmation. She has many orgasms and he has very few. But he
gets great satisfaction from always desiring his Princess and from the
Exaltation and Adoration during Devotional Cuddles.
Where they are a bit different is that Bud Kissing isn't common (but,
as seen, is a powerful 'kink' fore those who enjoy this) and though I'm
sure most Knights would enjoy lots of Gazing, I don't think this is something that
most Princesses have happen often.
Of particular note from the diary are all the times that lots of
activity happens during the day and evening and then Jill decides that
all that happens in bed that night is just a cuddle.
This shows that the real use of her control isn't 'making' her
Knight
do things - he was keen to do everything which she 'allowed' to happen.
Rather her control is most felt when she decides nothing will happen
(apart from a cuddle) and her Knight then has to keep his commitment to
fulfill this wish.
The diary shows a Princess perfectly fulfilling the first two parts of the definition of being a Princess:
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She uses the control he has given her to enhance her sexual pleasure
(lots of Pleasure Kisses and orgasms), her sensual pleasures (having
him massage her and lots of cuddles) and her intimate life (including
lots of Affirmation).
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She also does lots of things to keep things exciting for him and to keep him equally happy - the
Gazing, the short Desire
Kisses, and having him think about her with some messages when they are
apart. It's also likely that some of the Affirmation is to allow him to do something with his
energy before she goes to bed for just a cuddle.
So in conclusion this a wonderful example of a couple where their Devotional Sex is win-win. As they said in one of the surveys:
Devotional Sex has very much improved sex for both of us and at the same time deepened our loving bond with each other.
Comments and further discussion:
You can comment about Jill's diary and her survey results at the forum in the topic where she posted her diary, which is HERE.
Though Jill29 has not posted since February 2017 it's always possible that she will post again.
Does Jill's diary inspire you to write one?
If
you practice Devotional Sex, or are just about to, it would be
wonderful if you also shared with other Devotees your experiences.
See here on the forum for how to do this.
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