Devotional Sex Surveys

The accuracy of the survey results is discussed at the bottom of this page.

Over time I'll keep adding more and more of the survey results. Major updates will be announced at the What's New page.
 
Most of the results are presented separately for those who Live Devotional Sex (ie they always do it) and those who Sometimes do it (ie they have times when he is not her Knight).

The Sometimes group includes many couples who are new to Devotional Sex, and this is probably the main reason why there is often such a big difference between the two groups.

 
 
When Living or doing a long Stretch of Devotional Sex there are 7 times each week when the Devotee cople wake up together and 7 bedtimes. That's 14 opportunities each week for some Devotional activities!
 
This survey finds out what happens during those 14 opportunities within real-life Devotional Sex.

 
More responses are needed to build up an accurate picture. Before you do so please read the results so far so that you know how to fill it in correctly. The link to the survey is at the bottom of the results page.

 
 
This survey compares and contrasts couples sex lives before doing Devotional Sex with what happens when doing Devotional Sex. It also aims to find out how often a Knight is erect when doing Devotional Sex.





 
This survey looks at affectionate activities - holding hands, cuddling in bed, cuddling outside the bedroom, giving massages, passionate kissing, and him kissing her body. It asks how often each is done both before starting Devotional Sex and after.

It then asks how important these activities are compared to the sexual pleasures of Devotional Sex.

And finally it looks at some sexual activities and asks what balance there is between these being sexual and affectionate.



 
 
This survey fully explores how often oral sex is enjoyed by Devotee couples and how they both feel about this. The frequency of oral sex is compared to how often couples enjoy Joy.

It also looks at what happens when sexual activity ends and whether or not the Knight feels just intimacy and connection or if he feels frustrated.

And this was my first survey to ask about the Princess and her Knights overall satisfaction.


 
 
This survey looks at how often Princesses and Knights orgasm, how this happens, how this compares with what happened before Devotional Sex, and more.

One interesting new questions is what he and she thinks is the biggest benefit from doing Devotional Sex.


 
 
Affirmation is when a Devotee couple spend some time together with him naked (and at least sometimes aroused) and her dressed.

This survey looks at how often couples do this, what happens when they do, whether or not they ever do this outside, and if they have ever done this, or would like to do this, with others present.

This is the shortest survey so is very easy to fill in. It is good to hear from Devotee couples who do not do Affirmation as well.


 
 
This survey enables you to anonymously let me know that you have reached a new step forward in your practice of Devotional Sex.

This website is free and has no advertising, so my one reward for writing this is to know that couples are enjoying Devotional Sex. So if you don't do any of the above surveys, please do this short survey whenever you make a step forward.

         
 
Sex researches have found that people are often a bit more honest filling in a poll than when talking to a researcher either face-to-face or over the phone. So the individual responses may in fact be more accurate than if a face-to-face interview had been done.

I'm sure that the vast majority of responses are filled in with good intentions. But, unfortunately, some are filled in fairly quickly and so some have a few inconsistencies. My hope is that the inconsistencies average out with lots of responses.

The two most likely biases are that those who are more sexually active may be more likely to fill in a survey, and I suspect that older Devotees are more likely to spend the time filling out a long survey than younger Devotees.
 
 
The exact figures will change as I get more survey responses. But what is unlikely to change is the big picture of what the results show.

That 5% of the couples living Devotional Sex who have filled out the Oral Sex Survey have Joy once a day or more tells us that just a few couples have Joy this often. If the true figure is 3% or 8% the big picture doesn't change.

That, so far, 21% have said they don't have Joy at all was, at least for me, a big surprise. Even if the true figure is say only 10% the key point is that there are some couples who have a great Devotional Sex life without doing Joy at all.

Thus the big picture view is very likely to be an accurate overview of how couples are enjoying Devotional Sex in real-life.