Sexual Problems & Difficulties

The List of Problems

I've created three lists - one for both, one for her and one for him.

As each person's problems and difficulties affect the couple's sex life, each difficulty affects the other person. So if the source of the difficulty in your relationship is with your partner, see the list of problems and difficulties for them.

For example, if his problem is that sex doesn't happen very often, and the reasons she doesn't want sex is that intercourse is painful for her, then see 'intercourse is painful' under the HER section.

If a problem doesn't have a link you can request that I write this page soon.

Note that I'm publishing this page before I've written a page for any of the problems below! This is so I can ask those reading this website and my Tumblr what problem they would like me to write about first. To let me know, see the survey below.

BOTH

Devotional Sex may be a big help when:

there are non-sexual relationship issues
(and hence a poor sex life)
HE wants more sex than her
SHE wants more sex than him
sex suffers because SHE has an illness, stress, life disruptions, etc
sex suffers because HE has an illness, stress, life disruptions, etc

HER

Devotional Sex may be a big help when:

she lacks interest in having sex
she feels sex lacks intimacy
she feels sex lacks excitement and novelty
sex isn't pleasurable for her
intercourse is physically painful for her
she is unable or finds it hard to orgasm
she reaches orgasm too quickly
she is anxious about her ability to perform sexually
she worries during sex that her body looks unattractive
she worries that her vagina looks bad
having sex for the first time
suffering trauma caused by earlier bad sexual experience
lack of trust due to him cheating

Devotional Sex may also be a big help when she is unhappy because:

he doesn't give her orgasms
he is addicted to porn
he has too much focus on kink / BDSM

HIM

Devotional Sex may be a big help when:

he lacks interest in having sex
he feels sex lacks intimacy
he feels sex lacks excitement and novelty
sex isn't pleasurable for him
intercourse is painful for him
he has erectile difficulties - ie trouble getting hard or staying hard
he ejaculates too quickly
he is unable or finds it hard to ejaculate
he is anxious about his ability to perform sexually
he worries during sex that his body looks unattractive
he worries that his penis looks too small
having sex for the first time
suffering trauma caused by earlier bad sexual experience
lack of trust due to her cheating

How can I help you better?

I've created a survey at PollMill where you can let me know how to help you better. This survey lets you anononomosuly tell me:

which of the above problems you would like me to write about soon,
other problems and difficulties which should be added to the list,
more about your situation so that I can include this in my writeup, and
anything which you think I should add to these pages
(eg a solution which has worked for you)

Click here to do The Sexual Problems Survey at PollMill.

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