Devotional Sex

 
What's New - 2017
 

Version 2 of the Devotional Sex website

In 2017 I'm building a new website. This page will document it's progress.
(Note that I will no longer be updating the old website.)


Click here to see the latest posts on the Forum.

Jump down to the first update in January.

(If you looked at a page recently, including this one, 
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June 27 - All explicit photos now deleted from this website:

On February 3 I deleted all the links on this website which led to the photo-blog hosted on this website. But the photos and text were all still there and could still be viewed by those with a direct link to a photo-blog page or via a search on Google.

Today I've deleted all these pages from my website's server, and so anyone going to these pages will get a 'page not found' error.

All the content that was on the photo-blog hosted here, and much more, is still in my Tumblr Photo Blog.




June 26 - You will soon need to have a Tumblr account to view my photo-blog

Tumblr have changed their policy on "sensitive content", and from 7 July, 2017, to view my Devotional Sex photo-blog you will need to have an account on Tumblr, be logged in to that account, and have 'safe mode' turned off. (See here for how to do this.)

Tumblr are also no longer allowing blogs with "sensitive content" to be viewed by search engines (such as Google) and so people will no longer discover my photo-blog when using a search engine.

This is a major blow to spreading the word about Devotional Sex as most people discover this website from finding my photo-blog and many readers of my photo-blog do not have an account on Tumblr.




June 11 - New and Modified Wish Words:

Fini - A new Wish Word which has him stop the current activity and withdraw.

Play - A new Wish Word that has him play with himself until she asks him to stop.

Edge - A new Wish Word for him to set his energy so that he is just about to Climax.

Energize - The description of this Wish Word has been expanded.

Release - My recommendation for what a Princess says to have her Knight ejaculate has been changed from "Cum Now" to "Release".



 
 
May 11 - The Zone of Devotional Sex

This page describes the zone of a man's erotic energy and behavior within which Devotional Sex all comes together.




May 11 - How Often does a Knight Ejaculate?

How often he ejaculates depends on his age and experience. This page includes a table showing my recommendations for where a couple should start.

Some couples may feel that the longer he lasts the better. The lower level page Him Lasting Much Longer looks at some of the reasons why lasting lots longer than I recommend may not be better.



 
 

April 25 - Types of Session (with 12 lower level pages):

This new section is mainly the same content as is in the Glossary.

But Devotional Energizer and Focussed Sex are both new.


 
 
April 21 - The Activities of Devotional Sex (with 9 lower level pages):

This new section is mainly the same content as is in the Glossary.

Once the new version of the website has its structure in place my aim is to expand some of the explanations (at which time I'll shorten the version in the Glossary).




April 13 - Overview of Devotional Sex for HER

This is a six page overview of Devotional Sex explaining the benefits and responsibilities from HER perspective.

It is a great overview for women who wish to explore this website. And when it is their partner who is most keen to explore Devotional Sex, this new overview tells her all she needs to know (as from then on her partner should be able to answer all her questions).




April 8 - New Survey:  Style of Sex within Devotional Sex

I've created a new survey on PollMill. This asks lots of questions about your sex life before you started Devotional Sex, and then looks to see how things have changed with Devotional Sex.

The results of this survey will be used when I write the Overview of DevS for HIM. Though many men will remain unwilling to try DevS, my hope is that the before and after comparison will make clear why DevS is great for those men who are willing to make the effort.

So if you do Devotional Sex PLEASE fill in this survey.



 

February 28 - Homage

Having added the new term Goddess two days ago, I wanted a term for when she is his Goddess and she has him be naked at the same time. Affirmation isn't appropriate as this is him naked when she is dressed. The word homage works well and has added to the Glossary of Terms.




February 28 - I've deleted the term Devotional Lovers

Devotional Lovers was a term I used for Devotional Friends who sometimes had Joy.

I was never happy with this name (they are friends, not lovers). So I've deleted this term and instead included the option to have Joy within my definition of Established Friends - which is now defined as Devotional Friends who sometimes have him Climax when with her and/or sometimes have Joy.




February 27 - Results of the What Happens in Bed? Survey

The results of this survey have been written up. The first page presents the averages and looks at how this is very different from 'normal sex'.

Another page looks at The Huge Variation and demonstrates this with a collection of the individual responses.

And for the nerds, another page looks at the difference between the averages and the medians, and proves that every couple has at least 6 sessions each week doing something more often than most other couples.




February 26 - Goddess

She becomes his Goddess when she has him see her naked or scantily dressed knowing that this will have him admiring and desiring her.

This new terms was added to the Glossary of Terms.




February 12 - The Language of Devotional Sex

This page explains why the words Devotional, Sex, Princess and Knight were chosen, gives links to the Glossaries, and lists the new words for body parts and common sexual activities.




February 9 - Forum: Jill and Tom start a diary of a complete Season of DevS

Jill and Tom are the first couple to start a diary at my Forum where they will share with us all that happens during a Season. Today Jill posted what happened on day 1. As their Seasons usually last about 2 weeks there are, hopefully, another 13 or so diary entries to come!

If you do Devotional Sex and would also like to post a dairy, see here for how to do this.




February 9 - Contact Me:  This page had been polished.




February 8 - Donations to Support this Website:

I've polished my Donate page. As I write in this new version, the unfortunate fact is that as so few people donate that my receiving even a small donation is a cause for celebration.

So if Devotional Sex has changed your life for the better,
please consider making a donation.




February 8 - I changed this page so that the newest entry is now at the top:
 

I think this new order works better for those who often check this page.

And for those new to the page, they can jump down to the bottom and work their way up.




February 7 -  Gaze

The explanation for this Wish Word and activity has been expanded on the page about that Wish Word, included a quote from a Knight who sometimes enjoys doing this during Affirmation.

The explanation in the Glossary of Wishes has thus been reduced, and the Glossary entry now has a link to the page with the longer explanation.



 
February 7 -  List of Wish Words (47)

There is now a page with a simple list of all the Wish Words with their definitions.

Each Wish Word has a link to a page for just that Wish Word (there are 47 of these pages).

At the moment these pages have exactly the same explanation as in the Glossary of Wishes. Over time I hope to expand on the explanations on the individual pages and then shorten the explanations in the Glossary.



 
February 6 -  Welcome Page   &   Introduction

A new, cut down and simpler, Welcome Page has been written. As there isn't much content in the new version of the website I'm leaving (for now) the default first page (with the new look) pointing to the old Site Map and the old Introduction.

The new Introduction page has had lots of work done to it. It's important to get this right as it is the second page new readers of the website will see.



 
February 3 -  Minor changes to the Definition:

I've changed P2 of the definition of Devotional Sex from 'ensuring that HE enjoys what happens so that he is equally happy,' to 'enhancing HIS sexual and intimate life so that he is equally happy'.

And I've added some words to the text just below the definition talking about equality in happiness.

I've also added a few words to the top of the Glossary of Spells to explain why the word Spell was chosen.



 
February 3 -  Photo-Blog (now only on Tumblr)

This page has been revised, and now only gives a link to my photo-blog hosted on Tumblr.

I've decided to no longer host any explicit photos at this (DevotionalSex.com) website. But everything that was at the old photo-blog on this website, and much more, is available on Tumblr.

This post at my forum explains why I'm now only using Tumblr for photos.



 

January 30 -  Opening Story (day one)

The Opening Story - in which Susan and Sam have an active day of DevS - has been revised. The major changes are that Sam no longer has a Crest during his Desire Kiss (as this is now an optional enhancement to DevS) but he now experiences Exaltation at the end of the day, and this has become a key part of the Opening Story.


 

January 29 -  Using the Wish "be Still" to 'tie him down':

I've added to the text of "be Still" so that this Wish Word can be used to 'tie him down' which is mental rather than physical bondage.


 

January 29 -  Contrast between Devotional Sex and 'normal sex':

An article in the Guardian today painted a very depressing view of some people's experience of 'normal sex' - saying there is never anything profound about erotic contact. See this forum post for more.


 

January 28 -  I'm considering deleting the Photo-Blog from this website:

See this forum post for more.


 

January 27 -  After some feedback on the forum I've updated the One Page Summary page including making some changes to the definition.
 

 

January 25 -  One Page Summary of Devotional Sex (inc. definition):

A new version of the one page summary - now slightly expanded and including the importance of Exaltation and Adoration.
 

 

January 22 -  A Devotional Appetizer:

I added this new term to the Glossary of Terms.
 

 

January 20 -  What's New 2017

This page was published on the new website and a link to this page was put onto the Welcome Page and the Site Map of the old website.
 

 

January 20 -  Glossary of Spells: 

A Spell is when a couple both agree to do Devotional Sex in the way and for the time defined by that Spell, then return to Vanilla once the Spell is over.

This Glossary makes things look very complicated - so see this forum topic and things will become much simpler.  Comments and questions can be made at the same forum topic.
 

 

January 19 -  Glossary of Wishes: 

Instead of having commands a Princess now makes Wishes, and for a Knight her wish is his command.

This Glossary gives the definition and an explanation for the Wish Words which can be used to make Devotional Sex flow smoothly.

There are some big changes from the old website, most notably the command "Ritual" has been replaced by the Wish Word "Pleasure".

Comments and questions about the Glossary of Wishes are welcome here at my forum.
 

 

January 18 -  Glossary of Terms: 

This Glossary gives a definition and an explanation of the key terms which will be used in the new version of the website.

This is not a good introduction to Devotional Sex (for newbies it's best to start with the Introduction at the old website). But for those already familiar with the basics you will find some useful definitions and explanations of what you already know, find some important new terms, and you will see where I’ve made some rather big changes!

Comments and questions about the Glossary of Terms are welcome here at my forum.



 

January 16 -
Happy Husband's Story:


I've collected his earlier posts made to my Tumblr and posted them into the forum, and this now includes the story of his "crazy holidays" as well as my comments.




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