Devotional Cuddle

A Devotional Cuddle can be all that happens in a session, it will often be enjoyed before some sexual activity, it can be done as some resting time in between activities, and when sexual activity ends (and the couple don't have to jump out of bed) it usually concludes with a Devotional Cuddle.

Thus some Devotees will spend more time in bed enjoying Devotional Cuddles than all other sexual activities combined, and enjoying this is one of the highlights of doing Devotional Sex.

Having a Devotional Cuddle when sexual activities ends without him having had a Climax helps him direct his erotic energy into feeling intimacy and connection (instead of frustration).

 
 
The French Philosopher Madame de Stael said, around 1800, that:


Though this applies to sexual activity, the biggest celebration of his desire for her and her enjoying his desire for her is the Devotional Cuddle.


When she starts a Devotional Cuddle upon waking up or after getting into bed in the evening she enjoys his desire for her without any expectation of penetration or having to make him ejaculate. He, and his Desire, are in her hands.

And when sexual activity ends and a Devotional Cuddle is enjoyed his desire for her can have him experiencing Exaltation - the ultimate celebration of his desire for her - and she enjoys his devotion and the intensity of his intimacy.
 
 
If she wants to keep him Eager she can gently play with him, but this is done in a relaxed way (for her). If she keeps her hand fairly still then an Eager Knight will eventually calm down and feel Adoration.

A couple may sometimes have a Devotional Cuddle where he is not hard and she has her hand over his soft Desire and balls. This feels very different for him as when he is erect it is her accepting his energy, but if he is soft he feels the energy flow is the other way.