Finding out what he is willing to do

 
 
Hopefully there will be some things that you are both keen on.

As well as enjoying what you both like a full exploration of what he is willing to do may find some things that she would really love to try which he isn't keen on but is willing to do. So as Princess she can sometimes have these things happen as long as she ensures that, overall, her Knight is equally happy.

One way to keep him happy is to have happen some of the things that will make him very happy which she isn't keen on but is willing to do to please him.

As his Princess she retains full control over when these things happen and how. So, if she wishes, they can remain just very special treats for her Knight.

 
After practicing Devotional Sex for a while a Princess feels very confident that her control over what can happen is very real.

So if she explores with her Knight what he is willing to do, and what he thinks about all of these things, then when he tells her he would really love to do something, and she knows that this is something she never wants to happen, she can feel relaxed about this because as his Princess she can feel confident that it will never happen.

 
I recommend that she never tells him what things she wants to happen, might have happen, and has decided will never happen.

When she has something happen it is then a surprise for her Knight.

Not telling him something is planned to happen also means that if she changes her mind her Knight isn't disappointed.

But she can 'tease' him with any of these enhancements by saying "If I wanted to I could have ..... happen. How would you feel about that?"
 
 
It can also be lots of fun, and adds to the strength of your Devotional Dynamic, for him to think that anything that he is at least willing to have happen might one day happen.

Even when she has decided something will never happen, because he doesn't know this, she can enjoy him feeling that her control is very real because whether or not it happens is up to her.