The site statistics for 2009 are presented in the history page of Chapter 1.
16 November: Chapter 9: Living Devotional Sex: Enjoyment without Joy: Sensual Pleasures - This page is now published. The lower level page Managing her Knight's Arousal is also published, though the other lower level pages are yet to be written.
12 November: Chapter 9: Living Devotional Sex: Enjoyment without Joy - I have added a new section to this chapter to talk about all the things that can be done before, or without going as far, as Joy (intercourse). The lower level pages are not yet written (but clicking on any of them tells me there is some reader interest to write them soon).
11 November: Chapter 1: Why `Devotional´ and `Sex´ - I have expanded this page to say why the word Sex is used in the name, and how this makes Devotional Sex different from other related techniques and lifestyles.
10 November: References: How many people engage in "real" BDSM? I review an abstract of a paper which answers this question.
7 September; Chapter 12: Devotional Sex with other people: The Challenge game - This game can be played at a Devotional Sex party if everyone is told beforehand.
2 September: Chapter 6: Lite Devotional Sex - Lite Devotional Sex is a less intense version of Devotional Sex in which the Knight is allowed to ejaculate much more often. Lite Devotional Sex is for men who like most things about Devotional Sex, but are unwilling to meet the tough ejaculation restrictions of full Devotional Sex.
31 August: Chapter 12: Devotional Sex with other people: What can happen at a Devotional Sex party - The pages for Just an interesting dynamic and The Truth game have been published.
29 August: Chapter 12: Other People: Devotional Sex with other people - This new page outlines several different ways that a couple can include others in their Devotional Sex life. Some couples may go no further than using this as the basis for some shared fantasies. Others will be inspired to find a lucky other person. The lower level pages are not yet published (though lots of draft text has been written). As these pages are published I shall announce them on this page.
29 August: Chapter 12: Other People. A Devotional Sex party - This new page is now published, together with one of its three lower level pages - The default rules for a Devotional Sex party. The two other lower level pages will be published soon.
27 August: Chapter 5: Princess Power: Communication; The Devotional Sex 0 to 5 scale - This is a way for a Knight to rate activities to show what is and isn't within his limits, and how he feels about all the activities he is willing to do. Unlike all other scales, this includes a rating for the edgy activities that he both likes and dislikes.
31 July: Chapter 13: Enhancements - Two lower level pages have been completed for the eating his own cum enhancement (which is, thanks to Google, my most viewed page!). These new pages are ways for a Knight to eat his own cum, and a method which fits so well into Devotional Sex I have called it the Devotional Massage.
21 July: Chapter 1: Alternative names for the roles of Princess and Knight - Though this site always uses the terms Princess and Knight for the female and male roles in Devotional Sex, couples who practice Devotional Sex are free to use their own terms. This new pages lists some of the possibilities.
20 July: Chapter 1: Introduction: I added three short quotes from the feedback page to the sites introduction page.
14 July: Chapter 14: The section on ejaculation denial has been completed with new pages published on the problems with ejaculation denial and on why Devotional Sex may be the answer.
6 July: Chapter 15: Feedback: Some new comments about Devotional Sex and this site have been added to the Feedback page.
3 July: Chapter 13: Enhancements: Knight Power - reversing the power dynamic: A Princess can decide to reverse the power dynamic for a period of time so that, within her pre-set conditions, she agrees to do whatever her Knight wishes.
1 July: Key Concepts: The pages for Climax, Desire, Desire Kiss, high erotic energy, and Devotional Dynamic are now all published.
30 June: Key Concepts: Orgasm Denial: A key part of Devotional Sex is that the Knight is only allowed to ejaculate when his Princess allows. On this site this is called Ejaculation Denial because a Knight is allowed to enjoy non-ejaculatory orgasms during sessions where he is not allowed to ejaculate. Because many people use the term Orgasm Denial I have added a new Key Concept page to explore what is meant by that term.
29 June: Chapter 1: Devotional Sex Groups: FetLife: I have created a Devotional Sex group on FetLife. FetLife is like a Facebook for kinky people. This is already the most active and fastest growing Devotional Sex group.
20 June: Chapter 15: Susan and Sam bedtime story: A Devotional Cuddle to reward Sam - Published this new story. Susan has not been feeling sexy for a few days. Tonight she rewards Sam for his good behavior with an erotic cuddle where she just holds and gently plays with his erection.
19 June: Chapter 14: Ejaculation Denial: Related Terms and Descriptions: This new page shows that there is great confusion over terms related to ejaculation denial. This is mainly due to different people assuming different lengths of time (ranging from a just a few minutes to many days).
17 June: Chapter 9: Blissettes: Blissettes are short sessions (lasting about 2 to 10 minutes) where only one sexual activity is enjoyed. Blissettes are one of the unique joys enabled by Devotional Sex, and make it easy and fun to enjoy sexual activity much more often than in a `normal´ relationship. This page has had a major rewrite, and as the page become too long I have split it into several sub-pages.
16 June: Chapter 3: Warnings and Disclaimer: There is a possibility that not ejaculating after most sexual activity may lead to health problems. Also, a couple may experience times of emotional stress while learning Devotional Sex. You need to make your own decision about whether or not to practice Devotional Sex, and the author is not responsible for any health or emotional problems which may arise as a result.
5 June and onwards: Chapter 3: Learning to Crest: This page teaches a man how to have an orgasm without ejaculating. I am updating this page as I write it, so the page is still incomplete. I hope interested readers will help me write this page by providing feedback and by asking questions. As they try the exercises I hope some will tell me their experiences so that I can share this with other readers.
4 June: Chapter 14: BDSM and Devotional Sex: The joys of ejaculation denial: This new page gives an overview of the many joys derived from BDSM style ejaculation denial.
4 June: Chapter 1: Using Devotional Sex to fix sexual problems: Added some holding pages where I will later say how Devotional Sex can be used to fix some common sexual problems.
21 May: Chapter 3: Devotional Tao - The Multi-Orgasmic Man: I have revised the Main Page for this chapter. As several readers have requested more information about learning to orgasm without ejaculating, I intend to write more of this chapter soon.
11 May: Chapter 13: List of Enhancements: I have published new pages for Chivalrous Acts, the Princess wearing a corset, the Princess not wearing panties, and Facesitting. The content for these pages has not yet been written. Please visit these pages if you are interested, as the higher the number of page views the earlier I will write that page.
11 May: Chapter 15: Edited the first page of the Blog of Ada and Michael. I also wrote some new entries, including the entry for December 12 where I comment on how we had not yet done some common activities, and the entry for December 18 which is our first date where Ada uses her Princess Power to not have sex.
9 May: Key Concept Overview: FemDom: This new page has just been published.
9 May: Chapter 15: Real-life stories: Ada and Michael: Ada's first experience of Devotional Sex: I have edited the first page of this real-life story. I've also added a few words about starting the conversation about Devotional Sex in the third person so that it is not too confronting.
5 May: Many thanks to a reader from Sydney, Australia, for making the first ever donation to this site. If you enjoy this site and wish to encourage me to keep writing, please consider making a donation.
April: Chapter 15: Real-life stories: Blog of Ada and Michael: This Blog has ended (for now). Though there will no longer be frequent updates I hope you enjoy reading the 22 pages of real-life Devotional Sex which were written earlier this year.
1 April: Chapter 15: Feedback - added a new entry of positive feedback to this page.
25 March: Chapter 3: Devotional Tao: His Desire has a `mind of its own´ - A key to learning Devotional Sex is for both the Princess and her Knight to recognize that his Desire is not fully under his control, but has a `mind of its own´. It thus needs careful and consistent training.
I also published one of the lower level pages of the above new page - Never Climax in some positions - If a Knight is never allowed to Climax in some positions, then over time it becomes much easier for him to keep control in these positions. This can have great advantages for both.
20 March: About the Author: This page has been updated.
18 March: Chapter 14: Devotional Sex and BDSM: Some `BDSM´ couples are already close to Devotional Sex
17 March: Chapter 9: Living Devotional Sex: Living with children: Practicing Devotional Sex when living with children obviously creates some challenges and limits what can be done. This section gives advice on how to deal with these everyday challenges, and how to get the most out of your Devotional Sex lifestyle despite the restrictions. As I don't have any personal experience of living with children, this page asks readers to contribute their advice.
14 March: Chapter 14: BDSM and Devotional Sex: Is anyone else already doing full Devotional Sex?
12 March: Chapter 7: Tantric Devotion - A Spiritual View: FemDom vs Tantra: A reader asked me how the spiritual aspects of FemDom and Tantra can be combined as his experience was that these were incompatible. This page is my answer.
11 March: Chapter 13: Enhancements: Pleasure Kiss during her period: The Enhancements are additional activities which are unlikely to be to most people's taste, but will be powerful and fun for those who like them. At the bottom of the List of Enhancements I invite readers to suggest new things to include. This enhancement was suggested by a reader. I am happy to include things that are not to my taste, hence this new enhancement.
18 February: Chapter 13: Enhancements; Eating his own cum: This enhancement has been updated. This more extreme enhancement will not be for most people, but will be very powerful for the few who decide to enjoy it. This site is getting many hits as a result of Google searches on this topic, so I thought it was worth while giving this page a polish.
28 January: Key Concept and Welcome Pages: I have created many new pages where I can give an overview of some of the key concepts. Most of these pages are `not yet written´, as I shall wait until someone visits a page before I write that pages content. This way I do not waste time writing content that no-one looks at.
14 January: Chapter 15: Real-life stories: Blog of Ada and Michael: This blog captures what happens with some real-life Devotional Dating. As the blog was only started after our 15'th date, what happened before this is only outlined. Here, for the first time, is what happens with real-life Devotional Dating once this has become the normal way for a couple to enjoy being together.
4 January: Chapter 1: History: The site statistics for 2008 have been added to the page outlining the history of Devotional Sex and this site.
2 January: Chapter 15: Real-life stories: Ada and Michael: Ada's first experience of Devotional Sex (6 pages). On my first date with Ada I told her about Devotional Sex and she decided to try it with me. This real-life Devotional Sex story shows that what happens in reality can exceed fantasy.
