Often does a Knight Ejaculate?
recommendations for the average
number of days between him Climaxing is:
recommendations are only a starting point
and each couple
needs to work out what works best for them.
is someone just starting to explore Devotional Sex.
Intermediate is when he has got
past the 'blue balls' stage but has not yet fully tamed his energy.
Experienced is for a Chivalrous Knight ie he has fully learned
to control his erotic energy.
As you can see the Knight's age
makes a very big difference. What is easy for an older person will be a
huge challenge for someone much younger.
The other key factor is the Knight's experience. What is easy for an
experienced Knight is likely to be a huge challenge for a beginner.
So younger and less experienced Knights should not try to match what
older and/or more experienced Knights do.
Couples can have most Seasons last about
the same length, or they can have lots of variation.
example, an experienced 4o year old Knight would usually last 6
to 8 days, could sometimes
have a shorter Season of only 4 to 5 days or a longer Season of 9 to 10
days, and every
once in a while his Princess could surprise him with a Season
lasting only 1 to 3 days or challenge him with a Season lasting 11 to
The average of all of this would be the 7 days recommend above.
The Experienced Rare Peak is
the maximum I recommend for those rare times when an experienced Knight
is really challenged.
For beginners and
intermediates their every once-in-a-while maximum would also be about
double their recommended average.
I recommend that when first
exploring Devotional Sex couples agree to do the Beginner Spells which all have the Knight committing to not
Climax until the agreed end of the Spell
(eg a Devotional Weekend
has them both agree that he won't Climax until the end of Sunday). In
case the above table helps you decide how long a Spell will best suit
More experienced couples enjoy Stretches
Devotional Sex or live this way.
With these the Knight never knows when his
Princess will have him Climax and she can then sometimes have him
ejaculate earlier than usual and sometimes challenge him by having him
last longer than usual.
See Her Managing His Ejaculations for lots more information about this.
The above recommendations are only
a starting point. Just as with an exercise regime, some people will
find challenging what others find easy.
If the above recommendations
are too challenging then ejaculating a bit less often than
suggested above isn't changing the dynamic and feel of Devotional Sex -
just getting the timing right for you.
The aim is to spend most of the Season in The Zone where he has the energy
to power Devotional Sex and he is enjoying this enough to not feel that
he needs to ejaculate. So
when he reaches his average he should feel that it is then about the
time to Climax. If he doesn't feel this with what I've recommended
then just go for a bit longer.
Your practice of Devotional Sex is not any better or worse than what
others do if what is right for you is a bit shorter or longer than I
much more often
normal Season of Devotional Sex has about the first 10 to 20% of time
with him building
up his energy, then most of the time him having enough energy to be in
If the Knight Climaxes much more often than I recommend then the
dynamic and feel of the Season will be very different and be more like vanilla where he is either not energized or
once she is encouraging his energy he is expecting to ejaculate.
Of course each couple
should do what works best for them, but I urge those who do much
shorter Seasons to explore going for longer to get closer to the
experience I describe in this website.
lasting much longer
Some couples may feel that the longer he
lasts the better.
But before deciding
to go lots longer than I recommend above please consider the following:
As always you
should do what works best for you and your partner. So it is up to each
couple to weigh up each of these points (which are explained further if
you click More)
- He gets used to his average,
so shorter Seasons can include more challenges,
Seasons lose some of the excitement of him not knowing when he will
get to Climax and his energy may not be enough to power the dynamic,
- Ejaculations are an enjoyable
part of Devotional Sex, and
- It may be better for the
health of his prostate to not go for too long.
You can discuss or ask questions
about the frequency of a Knight's ejaculations here at
the Devotional Sex Forum.
updated: 14 August
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